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Wellbuddies Reflections

Issue 121: September 4, 2011
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Good Sunday morning.  Thank you for reading Reflections.  We welcome your responses. 

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                                    Until the next time, go well.
                                                            
                                  Pam
Glimpses

As I write, the calendar has turned over and there is a brisk chill in the air.  School started this week, and the heart-rate of the community as a whole has increased with the change. Driving around town is....different!

 

We have had a playful summer.  After the marathon training class I taught "graduated" in July, Lyle and I took a month off.  We explored British Columbia.  We traveled to Denver for our son's MA graduation.  We welcomed family from Florida for a visit that was way overdue.  Now it is September, and the time has come to re-enter a world of commitments, meetings, and deadlines.  My personal heart-rate has also increased.  Waking up and looking at the day ahead is...different!

 

What does this seasonal change mean for you?

Reflecting Again

In early June, I decided to take a break after writing weekly Reflections for more than two years. First, I took a month off.  It felt good to have one less deadline, but I missed connecting regularly with my virtual community of wellbuddies.  In July, I began to re-publish past issues from summer 2009, and have been gratified by your warm response.  I expect to resume a regular writing schedule in October.  Meanwhile, it feels good to be back in contact!    

August 30, 2009 Re-run: The Science and Spirit of Personal Growth 

As I work with people who are passionate about their wellness journeys, I find that the same two-track road leads most reliably to every destination.

 

On the one track, we have the Spirit:  the deepest values that drive us to become our best selves.  The Spirit is powerful, and it is elusive.  It can be described, but not defined.  Its fruits can be observed, but the Creator of those fruits is invisible to the naked eye.  A journey on the Spirit track is inspired by faith.

 

On the other track, we have Science:  humanity's current theory about how things work.  Science observes.  It is skeptical of anything inaccessible to the senses.  Science tests hypotheses and discards those that do not hold up when challenged by facts.  Science is pragmatic:  If a theory doesn't work, it doesn't survive.  A journey on the Science track is grounded in evidence.

 

Personal growth calls for change.  We want some aspect of ourselves to be different (and better) a year from now.  The Spirit path points us in the direction of change and fires us with a passion for action.  Science tells us in practical terms how to get the results that we crave.

 

The science of behavioral change has various academic homes:  organizational development, social services, health care.  A common theme across disciplines is how best to align actions with intentions.  An organization intends employee effort to align with its mission.  Doctors intend that patients align their habits with the requirements of health and longevity.  Social workers intend the skills of clients to align with the demands of productive and independent lives.

 

A successful wellness journey aligns our actions and habits with the well-being we intend.  Spirit infuses our intention with direction and power; science helps us get there.  Some approaches to behavioral change are more effective than others.  In coming weeks, I will share some scientific findings that I find most helpful to a traveler on the road to greater health and happiness.

 

In the meantime, ask yourself, "What works for me?"  Think of a personal challenge you turned around by changing your patterns of thinking and acting.  What made it work then, when other efforts to change have failed?  It is likely that your success stories are similar to those of others, and that we can all learn from the stories each of us has to tell. 

 Pam Gardiner
 Wellbuddies Coaching
 (406) 274-0188
 
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