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Wellbuddies Reflections

Issue 120: August 28, 2011
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Good Sunday morning.  Thank you for reading Reflections.  We welcome your responses. 

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                                    Until the next time, go well.
                                                            
                                  Pam
Glimpses

Since sharing the lead for a 6-month marathon training program this year, my desire to help people who want to try running  (for the first time, after a long break, in midlife) has grown. 

In September I am offering a 4-week series of small-group Saturday morning workshops with the collective title, "Running for Fun: Starting from Scratch."  It is designed to provide a low-risk, personalized approach to the sport.  If you know anyone in MIssoula who might be interested, please let them know.  For more information, reply to this e-mail.

Reflecting Again

In early June, I decided to take a break after writing weekly Reflections for more than two years. First, I took a month off.  It felt good to have one less deadline, but I missed connecting regularly with my virtual community of wellbuddies.  In July, I began to re-publish past issues from summer 2009, and have been gratified by your warm response.  I expect to resume a regular writing schedule in the fall.  Meanwhile, it feels good to be back in contact!    

August 23, 2009 Re-run:  Peak Experiece-One Step at a Time

We spent the first ten days of August hiking in and around Yellowstone.  We spent much of that time on ridge-lines and peaks.  High places have an irresistible draw.  They provide stunning views from the top of the world.  They may be carpeted by wildflowers.  Sometimes they offer solitude.  They are often cool and windy, creating their own weather.

 

High places are also challenging to reach.  Narrow, steep, and often bumpy roads lead to muddy trails with tricky stream crossings.  Mosquitoes, flies, and the images of grizzly bear haunt the approach.   Aging quads burn with the climb and knees grumble as they descend.  More than once, a question emerges...is it worth the effort?  And the reply resounds:  YES!

 

I love mountains.  Growing up on the geologically ancient lakebed of Indianapolis, Indiana, I read tales of the West and begged my dad to take us there.  When I was 11, we went to Colorado on vacation, and I never turned back.  Mountain fever infected me then, as it has for so many others.  I crave literal "peak experiences" and return for them again and again. 

 

However, as the challenges increase with time I find it ever more important to engage the mountain one step at a time.  On this trip, I was keenly aware that a destination on the horizon was a stretch.  I hedged my goals with words like "try," "hope," and "attempt."   Plan B became a bigger part of the mix.  Time and again, I arrived at the top with a sense of wonder: How did I get here?  One step at a time.  I became more and more impressed with the progress that resulted from repeating small efforts.  Going forward and ever upward.  My spouse and buddy Lyle is great at going forward when I am ready to turn back.  We did it together. 

 

I love analogies, and this one is too rich to pass by.  Peak experiences are extraordinary:  They demand effort, are attainable by committing to many small steps, and are more likely to occur  when a congenial buddy with similar goals is along for the climb. 

 

I invite you to draw comparisons with your own wellness journey.  What peaks do you want to "bag" in the next few months?  What do they look like, in detail?  What is the view from the top?   Why do you crave the experience of reaching that peak, and doing it now?  Are you committed, or are you hedging your bets with "ifs" and "maybes"?  What are some small but decisive steps you will take today and tomorrow?   Who will share the experience as your buddy?

 

 Please remember to send photos from the trip.

 Pam Gardiner
 Wellbuddies Coaching
 (406) 274-0188
 
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