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Wellbuddies Reflections

Issue 112:July 3, 2011
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Good Sunday morning.  Thank you for reading Reflections.  We welcome your responses. 

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                                    Until the next time, go well.
                                                            
                                  Pam

Reflecting Again

In early June, I decided to take a break after writing weekly Reflections for more than two years.  The press of a weekly deadline was wearing on me, especially as I have added other writing commitments in recent months.

 

In early July, I decided there had to be a better way.  I missed connecting with the buddies who had engaged with Reflections, either in regular dialogue or with an occasional comment or Facebook "Like."

 

The better way for me is to re-publish issues from our first summer together, pulling Reflections from 2009 files.  I expect to resume a regular writing schedule in the fall.

Thanks for your initial warm response to this approach.  I look forward to trying it out.    

Glimpses
Today is the fifth running of the Missoula Marathon and Half.  I am not lining up at the starting line this year, but I am more excited than if I were.  This year I am living the experience though a group of hardy souls who started training in the dark and icy midst of a record-breaking winter.  They heard Jeff Galloway speak in Missoula in January, and believed his message: "You Can Do It!"  

Someone needed to coordinate a Galloway-based training program, and I impulsively raised my hand. Fortunately, my soon-to-be-buddy John raised his too.  Together, we have spent every Sunday morning and Wednesday evening for more than five months encouraging people to use Galloway's trademarked approach of short-interval running with walk breaks to build toward a distance goal.  The time has come for all that training to bear fruit.  I look forward so much to cheering them in at the finish!  

Take a moment to remember the people you have encouraged:  a child, a sibling, a parent, a friend, a partner.  You have been a coach.  You have been a role model.  You have experienced the success of others as more exciting than your own.  Celebrate!

July 5, 2009 Re-run:  Energy  Part 1-The Body  

Two weeks ago, I introduced the four dimensions of energy: physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Each of those dimensions is deep and broad enough to study for a lifetime. Nevertheless, I will be making a quick trip into each dimension over the coming weeks, to take a snapshot of energy challenges and some practices that can help meet those challenges.

 

Physical energy seems simple enough. The body needs food, oxygen, activity, and rest. The right mix of those elements will produce the energy we need to live a productive and enjoyable life. Why, then, do many of us lament a lack of energy when assessing our well-being? Of the many issues we might discuss, one of the most challenging is lack of quality sleep. 

 

Sleep can be fragile. We can't make sleep happen with good intentions, willpower, or sheer force. The harder we try, the further it retreats. Sleep entails letting go. It is common to wake after a few hours, without being able to fall back to sleep. 

 

Our minds quickly turn toward issues of the day before or the day ahead. We fret about to-do lists. We replay or rehearse difficult conversations. We run through our mistakes or worry about upcoming challenges: over and over and over. Sometimes, but not often, we come up with the brilliant insight that fixes the problem we are working on. More often, we get out of bed exhausted from the effort with nothing else to show for it.  To fall asleep after waking during the night, we must release our thoughts and allow space to fill the field of awareness. 

 

Some useful techniques are drawn from the practice of meditation. Attend to breathing. Inhale1-2-3-4. Exhale 1-2-3-4. Envision a candle; lose yourself in the image. Remember a favorite place; imagine yourself there. Adopt a soothing word or phrase; repeat it slowly. Try white noise, such as a fan or a sound machine to draw the attention without exciting a flow of thought.

 

The ability to influence our own thoughts is a skill worth nurturing. That skill can turn a negative situation onto a positive path. It can allow us to manage physical pain and to work with emotional distress. It can also contribute to physical energy by opening the door to restful and restoring sleep.

 

Is sleep a challenge for you? What about the body's other basic needs? What one thing will you do this week to supply the fuel, oxygen, exertion, and recovery your body needs to keep on going, day after day?

 Pam Gardiner
 Wellbuddies Coaching
 (406) 274-0188
 
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