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METNY Presidents' Night
D'var Torah from Rabbi Charles Savenor
METNY Biennial Convention - Register Now
Do Not Stand Idly By
Yasher Koach Corner
Judaism and Islam in America
Israel Speaker for your Shul
Rakevet Lounge Night
USCJ Leadership Mission to Israel
Petition for Gilad Shalit
Nora's Will
USY International Convention
Family Israel Experience - July 2011
METNY on the Road
Synagogue Transitions
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Holiday: Rosh Chodesh Cheshvan on Friday, 08 October 2010
Candle lighting: 6:10pm on Friday, 08 October 2010
This week's Torah portion is Parashat Noach
Holiday: Rosh Chodesh Cheshvan
on Saturday, 09 October 2010
Havdalah (60 min): 7:26pm on Saturday, 09 October 2010
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"Noah and the Bronze Medal"

Parshat Noah 2010/5771

By Rabbi Charles Savenor, METNY Executive Director 

The United States gymnastics team placed fourth in the 2000 Olympic games. With high expectations before the games for a medal, their fourth place finish was considered a failure.

Upon returning home, these female athletes were not welcomed with their images on Wheaties boxes, but rather an overwhelming sense of disappointment. They had done their best, but it was not good enough, at least according to the judges.

Can you imagine being the fourth best in the world in anything, and still being considered a failure?

Two years ago, however, it was discovered that the 2000 Chinese gymnastics team had an underage athlete, subsequently disqualifying them from the event. This chronological discrepancy was exposed when the same girl competed in the 2008 Olympics, but with a different birthday in her passport.

In rare confluence of events, the US squad, once considered sub-par, was now awarded the bronze medal. At a low-key ceremony, several members of this ten-years-overdue winning team cried as they received their medals. One of new medalist explained that her tears were a mixture. Tears of joy for ultimately reaching her goal were accompanied by painful counterparts from years of feeling less-than. When your country tells you are not good enough, it is not hard to imagine that the message can penetrate and affect how you see yourself.

One day your performance was not good enough, and the next it is medal-worthy?!

At the beginning of this week's parashat Noah, we are told that the eponymous figure is a righteous man in his generation. Our sages praise Noah for not only building an ark that saves the animal kingdom, but also for his rebooting humanity.

 

But how good is Noah? Is he a gold medalist in a league of his own or a champion fortunate to face a weak field of competitors?

 

Commentators over the centuries have compared Noah to Abraham and wondered how Noah matches up against the first of the patriarchs. Some believe that Noah is merely the best of a bad lot. By contrast, others assert that Noah's virtue, faith and fortitude are secure in any age.

 

Righteous just for his day or all time?

 

While the mental exercise of comparing people can be interesting, the truth is Noah's actions speak for themselves. In a place without another righteous soul, Noah fills that void.  Noah withstands and rises above the temptations and cheatings of his time. In light of this, God entrusts Noah and his wife with the sacred task of being humanity's new progenitor after the flood. 

 

This performance at any moment of history is medal-worthy and serves as a model for us today.

 


METNY's Biennial Convention



The place to be on Sunday, November 14 is the METNY Biennial Convention!  We hope that you will join all of us from around METNY at Beth El Synagogue Center in New Rochelle for our 2010 Biennial Convention!

Our theme will be "The Charismatic Kehillah". Using the pillars of the book, The Charismatic Organization, we will learn how to transform your congregation into a dynamic kehillah, or community, that is mission-based, forward thinking and attracts and retains volunteers through meaningful engagement and contemporary communications.

Confirmed speakers include:
  • Jeremy Fingerman, Executive Director, The Foundation for Jewish Camp
  • Ruth Messinger, Executive Director, American Jewish World Service
  • Rabbi Alan Silverstein, Spiritual Leader, Agudath Israel, Caldwell, NJ
 
The convention committee is hard at work planning the day's program, including the installation of the District Council and synagogue recognition awards. More details to follow soon.

You may have already seen information about the awards process. 
Material about all of METNY's awards and applications for the Rothschild Leadership Award may be accessed by clicking here. These materials will be due Oct. 12. For more information, please contact Rabbi Moshe Edelman, METNY District Associate Director, at edelman@uscj.org or 212-533-0800.
The recent rash of stories involving young people who killed themselves after experiencing significant homophobic bullying and harassment has saddened and appalled people all over the world.  In light of these tragic deaths, Keshet has, joined by Jewish organizations around the world - including USCJ, USY, and Koach, published the following pledge. 

Do Not Stand Idly By: A Jewish Community Pledge to Save Lives

As members of a tradition that sees each person as created in the divine image, we respond with anguish and outrage at the spate of suicides brought on by homophobic bullying and intolerance.

We hereby commit to ending homophobic bullying or harassment of any kind in our synagogues, schools, organizations, and communities. As a signatory, I pledge to speak out when I witness anyone being demeaned for their actual or perceived sexual orientation or gender identity. I commit myself to do whatever I can to ensure that each and every person in my community is treated with dignity and respect.

Sign the pledge now.
Yasher Koach Corner

In response to the arrests this past year of Nofrat Frenkel and Anat Hoffman at the Kotel, women across the world have taken pictures of themselves holding sifrei Torah, in order to stand in solidarity with the Women of the Wall.  We wish y'yashar kochachen to the women of the Orangetown Jewish Center (in Orangeburg) and the Israel Center of Conservative Judaism (in Flushing) who took pictures during this campaign.

We also applaud the efforts of Vicky Vossen, President of the Kane Street Synagogue (Baith Israel Anshei Emes), and Rabbi Samuel Weintraub for creating an interfaith dialogue with their local mosque.  Last month they shared a post-Ramadan meal with their imam, and last week both groups broke bread in Kane Street's Sukkah during hol hamoed. (See the next item for an engaging forum on interfaith dialogue at JTS.)


 

Admission is free, but reservations are required.
Please email
publicevents@jtsa.edu or call (212) 280-6093.
For more information, visit
www.jtsa.edu/publicevents.

Please arrive at least fifteen minutes early to allow sufficient time for registration, and have photo ID available.


About the Program

How can Jews and Muslims learn from one another about the experience of being a minority religion in America?

How are our experiences similar? Different?

In collaboration with the Islamic Society of North America and Hartford Seminary, The Jewish Theological Seminary hosts an unprecedented discussion with leading Jewish, Muslim, and Christian educators. Rather than focusing on the political events that often drive Jews and Muslims apart, this roundtable will address the ways in which Jews and Muslims can cooperate in navigating the constant tension between assimilation and authenticity in this country.

Cosponsored by the Islamic Society of North America and Hartford Seminary

This event is made possible through the generous support of the Rudin Foundation, Inc.; the Carnegie Corporation; the Center for Interfaith Understanding; and the Heschel Society.



Family Matters

Parenting can be a full-time job by itself.  That is why it is helpful to have resources to guide us through the miraculous and exciting enterprise of raising children.  We would like to recommend to you some parenting and family blogs that believe can be useful tools for you and your community members:

  • MetroImma, an online community for Jewish moms.  Their editor is Karen Bressler Brooks, a METNY USY alumna.
  • Kveller, a Jewish twist on parenting from UJA Federation New York. 
  • Family in Orbit, a resource for caring adults who strive to guide and keep up with the 21st century children in their lives.  This site was created by Dr. Hilary Buff Greenwood, a past USY International President. Rabbi Savenor also has a blog there.
 
This month is National Bullying Awareness Month. One place where bullying takes place is online. Dr. Greenwood offers some insight here.
 
 

Rakevet Division Starts the Year Off Right!


What better way to start the new USY year than with an exciting and fun-filled lounge night! Rakevet USY held its first divisional event Sunday night 10/3 at Midway Jewish Center in Syosset. Over 140 USYers came and were pumped up to meet new friends, reconnect with old ones, and enjoy the evening's planned activities. While everyone was arriving, teens gathered to play and bond over various board games such as Scattergories, Bananagrams, and Taboo. Michelle Herman, Rakevet's Membership/Kadima Vice President, started off the lounge night with a fun ice breaker. Everyone had a name on their back and had to search for their match. It was a great way to talk to new people. Next, the group split up into different areas of the room to paint a banner for the chapter they were representing. This activity lifted pride for each chapter and a prize was given to the group with the best-looking banner! Members of Temple Beth Chai in Hauppauge ended up winning the competition and received five dollars off of Rakevet's Fall Kinnus. All in all, Rakevet couldn't have started the USY year any better. If over 140 teens participating in Rakevet Lounge night is any indication, this year is sure to be bigger and better than ever.

From the evening of September 25th (motzaei Shabbat) through the afternoon of September 26th the Rakevet Divisional Executive and General Boards convened at the Canarick household for our annual Divisional General Board Overnight.   Through a series of icebreakers, general sessions, planning meetings, and some non-structured schmooze time, we came closer together as a board while learning what it truly means to be a Rakevet leader and part of a solid team.

The overnight was incredibly fun and we accomplished many important things, including a review of the schedule through December, and a very productive business meeting in which we analyzed membership numbers and attendance.   Most importantly, we set our goals for ourselves and our roles in Rakevet USY and set in motion what we hope will be a chain reaction of one great event after another!  

This year's overnight was especially unique as it gave us the opportunity to experience the Mitzvot of Shaking a Lulav and Etrog during our Shacharit Service Sunday Morning, and the Mitzvah of sitting in a Sukkah for a Meal!  Special thanks to Rochelle and Jeff Canarick (parents of our Israel Affairs VP Jay and SATO VP Lianne) for opening their home and their hearts to the leaders of Rakevet.  We're looking forward to great things this year!
 

Learn more at www.metnyusy.org.

Petition for Gilad Shalit

As Israel's International Red Cross organization, Magen David Adom has launched a series of initiativesGilad Shalit worldwide in order to gain Red Cross access to Gilad Shalit. Magen David Adom UK has set up an online petition to highlight Shalit's plight and demand the basic human right, as set out in the Geneva Convention, for Shalit to be visited immediately by the International Red Cross.

To sign their petition just visit the website below and please forward it to as many people as possible.

http://www.mdavisitshalit.org/?utm_source=MDA+Newsletter&utm_campaign=d72440238f-Sept_eNewsletter6_1_2010&utm_medium=email


 
Nora's Will

A Mexican movie that won 7 Ariel Awards (that country's equivalent of the Academy Awards) including Best Picture, Nora's Will is about a Jewish man in Mexico whose ex-wife commits suicide just before Pesach, evidently timing her death in a way that would bring all her family together for a longer time before the funeral. This could be used as a trigger film for many discussions about death and suicide.


Nora's Will (also known as Cinco Dias sin Nora, or Five Days Without Nora) has been playing in film festivals around the world. 

 

METNY USY's Walking On Sunshine...




all the way to Orlando!  Registration for IC 2010 is now open!  Access more information by clicking here.

 
Family Israel Experience

July 3-14, 2011
 
Just a few weeks ago, at the end of the Neilah service at the conclusion of Yom Kippur, Jews around the world recited the verse - Next Year in Jerusalem!
 
How appropriate and exciting for us - to announce that USCJ has designed a "Family Israel Experience". This dynamic multigenerational trip was
designed for congregations that may not have clergy or have enough
critical mass to offer an affordable family trip. This memorable trip will
take place on July 3-14, 2011.
 
israel flag wavingThis coming July we invite you to join together with congregants from across North America to form one unit as we fulfill this millennia-old aspiration of the Jewish people, visiting our homeland with those we care about most.
 
You will experience a dynamic and colorful country where Judaism comes alive in a way like no where else in the world. This program will be led by Rabbi Charles Savenor, METNY District Director.
 
For more information, please contact Rabbi Charles Savenor Savenor@uscj.org or Jo-Anne Tucker-Zemlak zemlak@uscj.org or 212-533-0800.
 
http://www.authenticisrael.com/UserFiles/File/USCJFamily.pdf
METNY on the Road...







This week, METNY's staff are on the move!


On September 28, Rabbi Edelman attended the meeting of the Rabbinical Assembly's Nassau Suffolk Region at the Jericho Jewish Center.



On October 3, Dr. Elissa Kaplan (lead educator for the PaRDeS Ya'akov program) facilitated a workshop for the religious school faculty at the Shelter Rock Jewish Center in Roslyn.  Pictured here are Hillel Skolnik, religious school director, and members of the faculty.




From October 4-6, Rabbis Savenor and Edelman were at USCJ's annual staff meetings in West Orange, New Jersey, with staff from the other districts and USCJ's central office.

On October 11, Rabbi Edelman will conduct a session on egalitarianism at the Commack Jewish Center

On October 12, Rabbi Savenor and Sharon Steinberg will meet with the board of Beth El Synagogue Center in New Rochelle.

On October 12, Rabbi Edelman is meeting with President Marge Wise of Northeast Jewish Center of Yonkers.

Our road can lead to you, too!  We can train your synagogue board, work with your clergy and staff, do an adult education program...we'd love to have you on our road map!
Thank You, Gila Drazen!

We express our gratitude to Gila Drazen who has served as a METNY Administrative Assistant over the past seven months. The leadership of METNY appreciate all of her hard work, warmth and service to METNY USCJ. We wish her luck in her future endeavors.


Do we know who's who in your congregation?

Mazal tov to Daniel Singer, the incoming president of Congregation Sons of Israel in Briarcliff Manor.  Yasher Koach to Audrey Bender, their immediate past president.

Barukh HaBa to Rabbi Howard Diamond, now at Beth Shalom in Rockville Centre.

METNY USCJ would like to keep all of your synagogue board members up to date on METNY programs and information. When your synagogue elects new board members, please fill out the Synagogue Leadership form and send back to the METNY office so we can include your leadership on our lists. Please click
here for the form for 2010-11.
 
Please email, fax or mail to metny@uscj.org or fax to 212-533-0400. The form can be mailed to 820 Second Avenue, 10th Floor, New York, NY 10017.

Furthermore, many of our congregations are currently in search for professional and spiritual leadership. METNY is here to help. Please contact any of our staff with questions. We wish our congregations success in this sacred enterprise.