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August 2011

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The week before a long-planned family trip, my sister accepted a new job. Her first assignment: accompany 30 people to Italy the following week. Sadly, no family trip for her (although happily, pasta, piazzas and purses did follow.) And so she begins her next act.  

 

From what you've shared, many of you are preparing for your own next act, too. Whether it be a new career, job, project, location, or even just attitude, gearing up for the next act can be intimidating and scary. But it doesn't have to be, and those ideas inspired this month's article. Please share with the act-changers in your life!

  

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Curtain up on your next act! 4 Ways to Get Ready for Your Next Act

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During a family vacation in and around Times Square, it was hard not to think about all who make their livelihood on the stage. While we enjoy the lights and hear the applause, it's still hard work for the actors every time the curtain goes up.

 

Finding your next act is hard work, too, yet so many of us are doing it today. Sometimes we need to, when our companies or industries change. Sometimes we just want to, longing for work that better matches our values or talents.

 

Whether it's a new career, role, or location, it might be time for your next act. So with apologies to the theatrical professionals in our midst, here are four ways you can get ready for the next act in your work or life.

 

1. Go Backstage

Maybe you think your next act is to move to a new profession. Or maybe it's just transitioning to a fresh project team within your company. No matter what the possible change, it's time go backstage.

 

Going backstage and exploring how things really work is a great way to help yourself understand whether the "stage" you're considering is the right one for you--or not! I've heard so many people assume they know what a certain career or industry is like. But when they take a closer look, they often come up with different ideas.

 

For example, my client Angie, a PR professional, initially claimed, "I could never work in healthcare--I'd need more medical education than I have to be successful." But after encouraging her to "go backstage" and talk to others in the field, she found her assumptions were wrong. Those in her dream job didn't have more education, but instead built relationships with experts and other sources who did. Even more importantly, she found her unique strategic skills were actually in demand.

 

The magic key to going backstage? Ask. Try:

 

  • "I'm really interested in what's happening in your [company/industry/location]. Would you be willing to schedule a 20-minute call with me and tell me more about it?"
  • "I'm curious to learn more about that [department/project/assignment] to see if I could help someday. Who would you recommend I talk to?"
  • "Your [job/profession/expertise] seems fascinating from the outside. What's it really like for you every day?"

 

Don't assume you know what it's like backstage--you never know what you might find!

 

2. Practice Cheating

No, this isn't permission to deceive and lie! In performance arts, "cheating" means turning your body more toward the audience, while still looking at the other actors alongside you. It helps the audience connect.

 

How can you angle more toward your audience? What are ways to help them get a good look at you and your work, and to connect to you better? To "cheat" appropriately, consider:

 

  • What meetings should you attend--or contribute more actively to?
  • How could you be sharing your ideas more broadly--start a blog or comment on others? Share valuable links on LinkedIn, Facebook, or Twitter?
  • What trade or professional organizations will expose you to others you'd like to work with--or be like?
  • Who could you invite to lunch, or a coffee, or a Skype chat?

 

3. Give Yourself an IntermissionMaybe it's time to take an intermission!

Let's not sugarcoat it--discovering and launching your next act can be  time-consuming, emotionally exhausting work sometimes. (Hey, if it was easy, everyone could do it--and the reality is that most people don't. But you are not most people.)

 

If you've been working on your next act for a while, maybe it's time for an intermission. Choose a week (or maybe even a month) to give yourself permission to pause the process. That may mean:

 

  • No new networking meetings
  • No new classes, seminars, or workshops
  • No reading career or self-help books
  • No "what's next" discussions at the office or dinner table
  • No complaining about your current situation

 

When you give yourself an intermission, you give yourself the opportunity to absorb and internalize all you've done so far. And in that break--and absent the pressure you've been applying--you may find the discovery that's been eluding you the most.

 

4. Take a Bow

Too often, we fly headlong into the next act without recognizing all that's gone into the previous one. Take a bow, pat yourself on the back, and let yourself feel good about things you've done so far, like:   

 

Hold up your own applause sign, and you'll find yourself closer than ever to the next act.

 

What's your next act? How are you getting ready for it?  

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I'm writing this on a beautiful summer day, with sunny skies here--and a major storm threatening most of the East Coast. Hoping for blue skies soon for all of the nation!

If you missed it, my ideas were included in CNN.com's 23 Traits of Good Leaders and the Atlanta Journal-Constitution's Get Others to Talk Up Your Career or Business. Enjoy!

Hard to believe it's already Labor Day! I'm getting ready to hop back on the road to Kansas City for the International Association of Business Communicators (IABC) Kansas City Sept. 22 meeting!. I'll share my ideas on "Communicating Your Value While You're Communicating Everything Else"! Then, it's Vegas for the International Coach Federation annual conference . Are you going? Let me know! Next, on Oct. 18, I'll be in Denver at the IABC Colorado chapter.
   
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