March 2009
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The Three Smartest Things You're Not Doing at Work (Yet)
Exclusive for the Coach Darcy Community


Greetings!
What's keeping you from doing the smart things yoCoach Darcy Eikenbergu already know how to do? Someone asked me that a couple weeks ago, and I've been mulling it over ever since. 
 
After all, if we a) know it's smart, and b) know how to do it, and c) we're smart, then why don't we d) do the smart things?? Duh!
 
My answer is that the neurotic economy has given us all a bit of madness--March or otherwise. The paralyzing environment is making us forget all of of our hard-earned smarts and enticing us to play dumb.
 
So this month, I say let's take our smartness back by doing the three smartest things we're not doing at work right now. (Of course, if you're the exception and you are doing these things, write me so we can learn from you, smarty.)
 
Three ideas are not enough? See three more on this exclusive page for you on my website. They're yours to use or share, as my thanks for being part of the Coach Darcy Community.
The Three Smartest Things You're Not Doing at Work
You don't need a four-leaf clover for luck!!"Keep your head down". . . "don't make waves" . . ."go with the flow" . .  are you hearing any of that advice at your place of business? From what I'm told from clients and colleagues, many of you are.
 
I suppose those comments are understandable, given our roles in the middle of the greatest economic tragicomedy of our lifetimes. But understandable doesn't have to mean acceptable.
  
You won't make it to the third act with just luck, although a lot of people seem to be thinking they can. In fact, recent data shows that 50 percent of state lotteries logged a record increase in sales in the past six months. Are there an equal amount of winners? Not a chance.
 
Don't rely on luck for your workplace survival. Take action now by trying the three smartest things you're not doing at work -- at least, not yet.
 
#1: Making Time for Coworkers and Contacts.
"I hate networking," a friend said over coffee recently.
Indeed, the concept of net-working conjures up images of Discovery Channels' Deadliest Catch, where everyone is stressed, injured, and/or smelly at best.
 
Most of us are not tuna and we don't like being "caught" in someone else's "net." What do we like? Being respected. Being valued. Honest and frequent communication. Trust. People who look out for us. In short -- we like a relationship.
 
You already know what makes a good relationship (even if your spouse/significant other/mother disagrees.) So let's toss "networking" overboard and start building relationships again.
 
Stop ping-ing your colleagues and have actual conversations with them. Drop the Blackberry and pick up the phone. Invite someone to lunch, to coffee, to your conference call. Care more about being interest-ed than being interest-ing. All are ways to start building -- and growing -- good relationships that will provide the foundation for your workplace success.
 
#2: Calling on the Experts.
"Our budgets have been slashed," a local learning & development director told me. "I still have goals to meet, but I don't have a dime to call on any help." Sound familiar? Probably so. But is that statement reality. . .or perception?
 
Might your favorite professionals -- consultants, designers, writers, coaches, trainers, or other experts -- be open to non-traditional ways of working with you in a non-traditional time? For example, could they host a brainstorming session, build a web page, lead a lunch & learn, design a microworkshop or other event that moves your goals along and helps to maintain their relationship with you? Could they create a product or tool that you can pilot now and they can sell to other customers in the future? Would they just simply work for less?
 
It can't hurt to ask--as long as you make it absolutely safe for them to say "no" (read: no grudges). But how to ask? Try this: "We've been good business partners in the past, and I've valued that. With our current budget cuts, I still need [whatever you need] and wondered if you'd be willing to partner with me to figure out low or no-cost solutions."
 
Why would your favorite expert say "yes" to this? Maybe they'd value your written recommendations or referrals, or would like to use their work with you for marketing or publishing purposes. Or maybe they have an idea that needs a test drive, and you can be the Andretti to their Formula 1. Set clear rules and expectations, and you both can win.
 
#3: Breaking the Rules
 Keeping your head down and avoiding challenge isn't the answer -- at least, not the one that's going to move you and your business ahead. Let everyone else play ostrich -- history shows that changing times are the best times to shake up the status quo and break some rules.
 
We are clearly in a "neutral zone," which author William Bridges describes in his book Managing Transitions as the time after the old ways have ended but before new beginnings are in place. The cool thing is that while the neutral zone can be a time of great chaos; it can also be a time of great creativity. Which sounds more fun? 
 
Old rules aren't working; new ones haven't been written. Failed business models are gone, creating big vacuums of opportunity ready to suck new ideas up. What could be different for your workplace that broken rules give you permission to try? What's the new idea that's now possible for you, if you only break the rules?
What's New With Darcy?
February went by in a flurry! Thank you for all of the opportunities to extend my coaching services to your friends, colleagues, and community groups. Your recommendations and referrals are the lifeblood of my business, and I am honored to  continually earn your trust.
 
It was fun to be a featured coach and facilitate table discussions at Atlanta Woman magazine's Empower Yourself day. (Thank you for the invitation, Kim Freedman.) Over 200 women gathered to hear Brigadier General Anne F. MacDonald share stories as one of the first females at West Point. Read more about her here.
 
And, what a blast to spend time with the energetic and welcoming  job networking group at St. Mark United Methodist Church in Atlanta. Much thanks to the brave folks who welcomed my "extreme introduction makeover," part of my workshop "How to Have A Killer Introduction." They've invited me back and I look forward to seeing them again soon! I'm ready to share that workshop elsewhere, so if I can support your local group, just let me know!

Finally, I'm getting ready for the Georgia Coach Association's April 29th PRISM Awards, which honors Southeastern organizations who are using coaching to make a difference in their companies. Some of the finalists include ibm.com, GE Energy, Cox Enterprises, and more! Tickets are on sale now. I'll see you there!

I could not do all of this without your continued referrals to indivdiuals and organizations where I can make a difference.  Feel free to make an introduction by email or phone at 404.313.0278, or I am happy to reach out to them on your request.

Thank you for all your support!
Coach Darcy In the News
ABC News blogger Michelle Goodman included me in a recent roundup she wrote on negotiating a better severance package.
 
Also, my articles "The Place to Invest Now," and "The Antidote to Fear" were published at ezinearticles.com. (If you're a member of my Community, you read them here first!)
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Just for Fun

In my January article, The Place to Invest Now, I'd shared that I was taking my own advice and signed up for a glassblowing class--to push out of my comfort zone and challenge my creativity! The two-day workshop  at Janke Studios did just that.  Browse my photo album to see all the results! 
 
The plate I made in glassblowing class

 
 
So there are the three smartest things you're not doing at work -- yet. Oh, you say you're doing them? Show me! Seriously, I love to hear about what you're doing and how it's working for you so I can share the best ideas with others. Just email me and tell me your story!
 
Don't forget--there are three more ideas for you on my website, on a page just for members of my Community. Check it out here.
 
Until next time, let's keep March Madness on the basketball courts and keep doing the smart things we know how to do!
 
Always,
 
Darcy Eikenberg
Coach Darcy LLC
 
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