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 YWCA of O'ahu Newsletter                                                                   October 2009 

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lunchclubThe Unsophisticated Connoisseur: Simply Wine 
A Lunch Club Special Pau Hana Event
Today is last day to Register! 
 
Lunch Club Simply Wine EventAn introduction to a selection of wines, intended for those interested in gaining a greater appreciation of different grape varieties and types of wine produced.  Have you ever felt lost as you strolled down the supermarket wine aisle?  Do you find yourself always selecting the same bottle of wine over and over?  Often the selection or pairing of wine is a daunting task.  This event will help remove such obstacles and make drinking wine an exciting and adventurous experience!  A tasting session with pupus will complement the information presented. 
 
When:  Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Time:   5:30 - 7:00 pm
Place:  Laniakea YWCA
Cost:    $20.00 - YWCA Members
 
            (Simply Wine Class, Pasta Buffet and
            Wine Included)
            Deadline to Register: Friday, October 2nd

Mango Season, featuring our very own YWCA member Annie Kamiya, will perform for us while we mingle.  Kim Karalovich, co-owner and certified sommelier of The Wine Stop, will be teaching a class for those of us who love our white zins, but those of us with more sophisticated palettes can come, learn and enjoy too.
Mango SeasonThe Wine Stop
Become a member and attend this special Lunch Club event! 
                 
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MembershipThe Benefits of Membership

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WahineAfter the Harvest
Wahine in Hawaii Business at Laniakea Network Presents "After the Harvest"
The Journey of an Extraordinary Woman, Daughter and Mother of Olympic Gold Medalist Bryan Clay

whb at laniakea logo_150Join us to share stories with Michele Vandenburg, wife, daughter, and mother of Nikolas Clay and Bryan Clay, the 2008 Beijing Olympics Decathlon Gold Medalist. Experience how Michele's amazing leadership and life journey, rooted in a culture that values faith, hard work and family, have revealed extraordinary gifts for her and her family, and allowed Michele to emerge as the resilient, generous and refreshingly real woman she is today.

When:    Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Time:     11:30 am - 1:00 pm
Place:     Laniakea YWCA
Cost:      $60.00 -
Public Welcome
 
Michele Vandenburg with Bryan ClaySchedule
11:30  Registration, Lunch, Networking
11:50  Welcome
12:05  Michele Vandenburg Shares Her Story
12:40  Questions and Answers
12:55  Closing Remarks
1:00    Program Ends
 
Invite your friends and associates!

Register Today!
BookclubBook Club
Members Book Club
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Members have started a Book Club which is held the 3rd Tuesday of each month.  The Book Club will meet at Laniakea from noon to 1pm (brown bag).  All members interested are invited to attend.  Have a book in mind you'd like to read?  Bring your suggestion to the next Book Club.

Next Event
Tuesday, October 20, 2009

The Glass CastleJeannette grew up with parents whose ideals and stubborn nonconformity were both their curse and their salvation. Rex and Rose Mary Walls had four children. In the beginning, they lived like nomads, moving among Southwest desert towns, camping in the mountains. Rex was a charismatic, brilliant man who, when sober, captured his children's imagination, teaching them physics, geology, and above all, how to embrace life fearlessly. Rose Mary, who painted and wrote and couldn't stand the responsibility of providing for her family, called herself an "excitement addict." Cooking a meal that would be consumed in fifteen minutes had no appeal when she could make a painting that might last forever.

Where:   Tuesday, October 20, 2009
When:     12:00 - 1:00 pm
Place:     Laniakea YWCA
Cost:       Free - Members Only

For more information about the Book Club email Judy Allen or call 695-2629.

Book Club

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bookreviewA New Kind of Hero
Book Review - The Glass Castle
By Cynthia Fisher, Member

C FisherI will be the first to admit that when something goes wrong I look for the reason behind it. Oftentimes, or maybe I should say most times, looking for that reason involves me also looking for something or someone to blame. I usually find a way to blame myself but I am definitely guilty of pointing fingers at other people or, when all else fails, blaming the universe for working against me.

Because of these thoughts, what struck me most about Jeannette Walls' memoir, The Glass Castle, is the lack of blame and bitterness. She doesn't hide the truth about how she grew up: the extreme poverty, what would be considered by many as abuse, the missing positive role models and support that you would expect from parents, the instability of never truly having a home. But what Jeannette doesn't do is ask the ever famous question "Why me?". Instead of a story about difficulty she shows us a tale of strength.. 
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Game On!
YWCA's CASHFLOW Club Launches October 21st

A new YWCA club for women
CASHFLOW Club for WomenWe invite you to join us and meet other like-minded women on their way to a better financial future and participate in the popular CASHFLOW Game created by Kim Kiyosaki (author of Rich Woman) and Robert Kiyosaki (author of Rich Dad Poor Dad).

Knowledge is the new money
The greatest asset you can acquire is knowledge - financial knowledge is what empowers us to make decisions that will improve our money situation.  CASHFLOW 101 is a fun and engaging way to raise your financial IQ and awareness of accounting, finance and investing all at the same time.

When:  Wednesday, October 21, 2009 (1st Game)
Time:   5:30 - 8:30 pm
Place:  Laniakea YWCA
Cost:    Free to Members

Through playing CASHFLOW, not only have I increased my knowledge of how money works in the world, but I have changed my belief in my ability to increase wealth without having to work so hard.  By continuing to play the game each week, it teaches me how I can apply the knowledge to real life experiences.  -- Kristen Gronquist, Member

Register today!

CASHFLOW Club

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cfpreviewpicsTuesday's preview of the Cashflow game gave us a taste of what's to come.  The game, described as Monopoly meets Dungeons & Dragons, has become a favorite around the world selling more than 350,000 copies.  Over 300 Cashflow Clubs now meet to play the game and apply its lessons to real life.  Join the YWCA CASHFLOW Club for Women today and let's play!

Lee Ann teaching Cashflow    Cashflow Preview - Guest    Cashflow Preview - Guests

Marivic and Gwen    Cashflow Gamers 1    Gamer with Lee Ann

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fearisMembers Review International Women's Leadership Conference
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Fear is the Devil's Way of Obstructing Progress
by Charmaine Damon, Member

B. M. Sieh-BrowneHawaii's 6th Annual International Women's Leadership Conference 2009, hosted by Governor Linda Lingle, was held on September 22nd at the Sheraton Waikiki. World-renowned women leaders from across the globe, including the Philippines, China, Australia, England, Israel, Liberia, Canada and the United States and nearly 1,000 guests, almost all women, gathered for a day of inspiration and interaction.  In her welcome, Governor Lingle quotes A. Vickery, American business author, "Four short words sum up what has lifted most successful individuals above the crowd: a little bit more. They did all that was expected of them and a little bit more." Governor Lingle concluded, "...it is my hope that during this conference, you envision a way you can do 'a little bit more.'" 
 
The speaker who made the greatest impression on me was Beatrice Munah Sieh-Browne from Monrovia, Liberia.  Beatrice is a soft-spoken, genial woman who had a typical upbringing.  She is humble and grateful for all the blessings in her life. Meeting her casually, I would never guess the immense authority B. M. Sieh-Browneshe wields or the courage it took for her to achieve her position as the head of the Liberian National Police.  She shared insights for each of us including "All women leaders should teach an upcoming woman - mentor another woman", "Be able to accept criticism", and "Violence is a tool used to make women retreat." 

Send the Devil Back to Hell (sometimes called Pray the Devil Back to Hell), an independent film that, according to one reviewer, "chronicles the remarkable story of the courageous Liberian women who came together to end a bloody civil war and bring peace to their shattered country."  She said the women "forced them to put down their weapons and rebuild the country".  Watch the video

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iwasinspiredI Was Inspired
by Kaia Kong, Member


Dr. H. KraftAt the beginning of the Women's Leadership Conference, I was unsure of what to expect. I thought that perhaps it would be people speaking about "girl-power" and "sisterhood". However, as the conference unfolded, and we listened to the presenters' stories, my perspective changed. These women had incredible experiences, intelligence, and poise which filled their audience with feelings of hope and inspiration. One of my favorite speakers was former Lieutenant Commander Heidi Kraft, who was a psychologist for the U.S Navy. She was astoundingly brave throughout her career in the military, and she continues to help soldiers today. I feel fortunate to have been able to attend this encouraging and eye-opening event, and to be able to see the progress that women have made in the world.

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International Women's Leadership Conference 2009
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LeaderLuncheon 2009
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LeaderLuncheon 2009
nominateyourleaderNominate Your Leader
Nominations Now Being Accepted for
LeaderLuncheon 2010
October 1 - October 31

Our women leaders rarely expect public recognition and attention...  At the YWCA of O'ahu, we want to recognize the strength, conviction and leadership of women in all communities.

We invite you to nominate a woman who strives for the best and shares her gifts unconditionally, who lifts up her community and serves as a role model for future generations.

savethedateTo nominate your leader, download a nomination packet today!

YWCA's 33rd Annual LeaderLuncheon will be held on June 18, 2010.  Save the date! 

To reserve your seat at this inspiring event, email your RSVP to our Development Office.

LeaderLuncheon 2010

To nominate your leader click here!

membersonwineMembers Thoughts On Wine

The only kind of wine I drink is champagne. 
-- Mary Beth Lohman, Member

I drank a great rose at an outdoor cafe in Antibes, France.  It was like a dream.
-- Lia Young, Member

I heard boxed wines are gaining acceptance.
-- Dave Washburn, Member
The Changing Shape of Wine. Move Over Bottles!  Read article

At Target, its called "cubed" wine.
-- Georgi Decosta, Member
I couldn't believe it Georgi but you were right!  Read article

Red, white, bubbly - I like it all!
-- Sarita Corn, Member

I do not drink cab EVERY night!
-- Judy Allen, Member
 
I don't drink it!

-- Marisa Pollard, Member

I like my wine distilled (I'm a cognac drinker). My Brother told me that cognac is wine for alcoholics - but he said it over the rim of his beer stein so it didn't bother me!
- Charmaine Damon, Member
 
Never ever ask for a White Zin on the Wine Train... especially while its moving!
-- Karen Weikert, Member

In vino veritas - in wine there is truth!
-- Joanna Amberger, Member

Wine or Whine?  The answer is obvious :)
-- Marlo Nishimoto, Member

I like dessert - so any wine that tastes like dessert is good!  Moscato di asti!
-- Kehaulani Coleman, Member 

How do you pronounce Sommelier?
-- Darren H., Member
Here you go Darren.  Hear it!


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favoritewinesitesMembers Favorite Wine Sites
 
"Me, I Practice!"  How Much Do You Drink? 
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6 Reasons to Drink Wine Everyday.  (from Health.com)  Read article


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Next Lunch Club Special "Pau Hana" Event: 
October 6th

The Unsophisticated Connoisseur: Simply Wine
MemberMomentMember Moments
Who is our YWCA community? 
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YWCA Members want to create positive change for ourselves, our families, our work and our community.  Through our stories, we reveal our authentic humanity and our uniqueness as a community. 

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Carol Ramie
Interview with a YWCA Member
Aquatics Member

Carol RamieTell us about your family?
My husband and I have been married for 32 years. What I believe is most amazing, is that we've worked together for 28. In the midst of running our own company, we've raised three strong, smart and healthy children. A son 28, and two girls, 21 and 22, with the youngest one still living at home.

If you could use one word to describe your YWCA experience, what word would that be?
LlFECHANGING! Honestly, I can't stop telling people how much I am enjoying my time at the Y. Most of us, when we are young, have a love affair with the water. As we grow older we often stop going into the water, whether it's a pool or the ocean. I am loving the water once again.

What are your passions?
I LOVE to write. I have written quite a few columns for the Goddess Speaks in the Star Bulletin
newspaper. I mainly write about family related issues close to my heart. I also compose lyrics to music.

What do you most enjoy about living on O'ahu?
I love the closeness of the people and running into someone you know wherever you go!

Who inspires you?
That is the easiest question of all. My mother!! At 84, she is still amazing and BEAUTIFUL. From childhood, she taught us the importance of healthy food and exercise. She still exercises, eats small meals throughout the day, loves music, goes to Jazz concerts and loves to dance. She is truly an inspiration! I'm grateful to have her genes.

Which web sites to you visit most often, and why?
I love home design and am a chronic home improvement junkie. I visit real estate websites, Home and Garden sites, always looking for new ideas to bring into my home.

Where Is your favorite place to celebrate?
MY HOME! I love my home. There is nothing better than celebrating with close friends and family, with good food, beautiful dishes, and candlelight on our deck that overlooks the bay! My husband is the best BBQ King of Kaneohe!

What is your guilty pleasure?
Poki and a good beerl

What would people be surprised to learn about you?
Maybe not a surprise, but I am a woman of faith. My husband and I wouldn't be where we are at, both in our marriage and business, without God as the center of our lives. As we speak, Ron has left to meet a good friend to give him encouragement through a hard time.

Tell us your 3 favorite things?
First and foremost my home. I love our home with a passion. We have lived in the same house for 29 years and have redesigned it into an environment of peace and beauty.  My next favorite things (not including my kids of course) are my beloved dogs and my Select Comfort bed!!!

Tell us your 3 favorite things you do for yourself?
Go to the YWCA, getting monthly massages and going to Ross.

Read Carol's Full Interview

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Carol is part of the water exercise and adult swim program at Kokokahi YWCA in Kaneohe.

Aquatics at the YWCA
Kokokahi YWCA

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Did You Know?
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Laniakea CourtyardDid you know that we offer free Wi-Fi? 
Laniakea offers free Wi-Fi high speed wireless internet access to our members.  Bring your laptop and relax in the serene loggia or open-air courtyard.  Surround yourself with beauty while you work, shop or connect online.
 
See Laniakea's hospitality desk for your free member privilege.
Email Membership or call 538-7061 for more information.

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Swipe Your Card
Easy, quick, convenient access.  No more writing your name and ID number when you enter.   

Starting August 25th, our card reader at our downtown Laniakea location will now give you easy and quick entry.  Your entry ritual - simply have your card swiped at the hospitality desk and in you go. Your membersip card is your passport to all the YWCA offers. For easy entry have your card handy.
 
In addition to making Laniakea even more safe and secure (like a gate; an electronic one) we'll know how and when Laniakea gets used and this information will help us to serve our members better. 

Lost your card? Need a replacement? See Ben, Betty, Ken or Michelle at the hospitality desk to get your replacement card. They'll make it for you on the spot. 
 
Join the YWCA of O'ahu on Facebook and Twitter!

 
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calendarwhat's happening
NEXT WEEK
 
October 6 
Lunch Club Special Pau Hana Event
"The Unsophisticated Connoisseur: Simply Wine" 
Laniakea YWCA, 5:30pm - 7:00pm
Member Event - $20 includes pasta buffet, wine class and tasting

October 7-10 
Benefit Clothing Sale
Laniākea Lobby,
Wed-Thu, Members Only, 11-2
Fri, Open to Public, 11-2
Sat, Open to Public, 9-12
 

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October 12
Holiday Session Begins
October 12 - December 20

October 14 
Wahine in Hawaii Business at Laniakea Network Luncheon Event
"After the Harvest" 
Laniakea YWCA, 11:30am - 1:00pm
Open to the Public - $60
Register Today!

October 20 
Book Club
"The Glass Castle" by Jeannette Walls
Laniakea YWCA, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
Member Event
 
October 21
CASHFLOW Club for Women - Game 1
5:30 - 8:30 pm, Laniakea YWCA
Free to Members - Member Event 
Register Today!

October 21
CASHFLOW Club for Women - Game 2
5:30 - 8:30 pm, Laniakea YWCA
Free to Members - Member Event 
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WelikeThings We Like
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For My Family
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PaperBack Swap
Not sure what to do with your old books? Looking for something new to read? List your books on this site and share your library with others and then pick out some books to have sent to yourself!
PaperBack Swap

Retail Me Not Coupons for 30,000 stores that you can search for by company, top coupons, and even by different tags.
RetailMeNot

Still Tasty
If you defrosted a chicken breast on Tuesday, is it still safe to eat on Saturday? This shelf life guide takes the guesswork out of "sell dates" and food's "shelf life".  Tips on safe storage too.
StillTasty.com  
 
 
For My Self
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Book Army
Never read a bad book again is this site's motto and I joined the online community to check it out. Great reviews and, even better, recommendations from others who share my interests.
Book Army

Academic Earth
Free video courses from top scholars and universities all over the world. Harvard, Berkeley, Princeton and Yale post videos of their most popular courses.  Time Magazine picked this site as one of its Top 50 websites of 2009.
AcademicEarth.org 

Legistalker
Track your government representatives. Legistalker provides a way to keep tabs on politicians by collecting everything they say in the media including everything they post on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube.
Legistalker.org


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Published submissions shall be consistent with the values and mission of YWCA of O'ahu. Selection is subject to space restrictions and editorial policy. Preference is given to women's interest submissions in the areas of work, community, family, and self-care.