Women's Leadership: An Exclusive YWCA Member Benefit!
2009 International Women's Leadership Conference
YWCA members can attend Hawaii's 6th Annual International Women's Leadership Conference for only $99.00!
This year, Governor Linda Lingle's 2009 International Women's Leadership Conference will take place Tuesday, September 22, 2009. It will bring together more than 1,200 of Hawai'i's women from the fields of business, marketing, media, health care, government, international relations, and community service to hear the inspirational stories of seven internationally-recognized women leaders representing seven nations.
This year's speakers include:
Opposition Leader Tzipora Malka "Tzipi" Livni - ISRAEL Inspector General Beatrice Munah Sieh-Browne - Monrovia - LIBERIA Dr. Heidi Kraft - San Diego, California - UNITED STATES Senator Loren Legarda - Manila - PHILIPPINES Cathrine Ann - Vancouver, British Columbia - CANADA Mindy Gibbins-Klein - Norwich, England - UNITED KINGDOM Hilaria Kramer - Fescoggia - SWITZERLAND Jing Ulrich - Hong Kong - CHINA
Amanda Ellis - Honolulu, Hawaii Read more about these outstanding womenThis half-day package for $99 ensures you don't have to miss the learning and inspiration that makes this conference so powerful. When: Tuesday, September 22nd Where: Sheraton Waikiki Hotel Morning Session: 7:00 am until 12:30 - Continental Breakfast included Afternoon Session: 1:30 until 6:00 - Pau Hana Closing Reception included Cost: YWCA Members - $99
To access this member benefit please contact Marlo Nishimoto at 695-2608 or email her no later than September 15th to receive your special YWCA Member Discount Code.
Invite your friends and associates!
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Knowledge is the New Money
Special Luncheon and Preview of YWCA's CASHFLOW Club
A new YWCA club for women
Join us for lunch with host Lee Ann Del Carpio as we announce a new CASHFLOW Club for women in October! Featuring the CASHFLOW game, created by Kim Kiyosaki (author of Rich Woman) and Robert Kiyosaki (author of Rich Dad Poor Dad), Lee Ann Del Carpio (Rich Dad Hawaii and Honolulu businesswoman) will share some thoughts on financial education and give an overview of the game, as well as concepts from other all-women CASHFLOW Clubs around the world. CASHFLOW 101 is a fun and engaging way to raise your financial IQ and awareness of accounting, finance and investing all at the same time. Learn and growAs women we juggle so many competing priorities - and between taking care of our families, ourselves, our careers and our community, feeling economically secure is top of mind. Whether you are learning about money for the first time, or are honing your skills from years of experience, as YWCA members we support and inspire each other in the journey to achieve our financial goals, whatever they may be. The subject of money can be fearful and intimidating - and yet when approached with knowledge and ways to practice the learning in a safe and supportive environment, we gain the confidence to ensure a better future for ourselves and our families. Knowledge is the new moneyThe greatest asset you can acquire is knowledge - financial knowledge is what empowers us to make decisions that will improve our money situation. When: Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Time: 11:30 - 1:00 pm Place: Laniakea YWCA Cost: Free to Members and Their Guests
Lunch (Quiche Buffet) available for purchase - $9.00
We invite you to join us and meet other like-minded women on their way to a better financial future. All those who attend will receive a copy of Kim Kiyosaki's book Rich Woman. Registration deadline is September 23rd. Register today!
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The Unsophisticated Connoisseur: Simply Wine
A Lunch Club Special Pau Hana Event
 An introduction to a selection of wines, intended for those interested in gaining a greater appreciation of different grape varieties and types of wine produced. Have you ever felt lost as you strolled down the supermarket wine aisle? Do you find yourself always selecting the same bottle of wine over and over? Often the selection or pairing of wine is a daunting task. This event will help remove such obstacles and make drinking wine an exciting and adventurous experience! A tasting session with pupus will complement the information presented.
When: Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Time: 5:30 - 7:00 pm Place: Laniakea YWCA Cost: $20.00 - YWCA Members (Simply Wine Class, Pupus and Wine Included)
Mango Season, featuring our very own YWCA member Annie Kamiya, will perform for us while we mingle. Kim Karalovich, co-owner and certified sommelier of The Wine Stop, will be teaching a class for those of us who love our white zins, but those of us with more sophisticated palettes can come, learn and enjoy too.
  Become a member and attend this special Lunch Club event! Register today!
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Smells Like Feet by Lia Young, Member
Do you know what viognier is?
I didn't know until I took a wine class. My husband picks up the glass and looks at me incredulously. "What is this mysterious white wine," he says with a raised eyebrow. I just stare at him with a small smile and I shrug. We do the customary swirl of the glass to bring out the smells and flavors, and then stick our noses in for the sniff. Wow, interesting smell. Kind of like... "feet!" my husband exclaims. He elaborates more, "This smells like stinky feet." Well that's weird because I don't smell stinky feet. I smell a nice, but different aroma. (This is our first real introduction to French wine, hence the description of the aroma being "different.") So we agree to disagree about the smell. Next, on to the taste. We both take a small sip, letting the wine sit on our tongue for a moment before swallowing. It tastes okay to me. I look over and he's making a gagging face. "Tastes like feet too!" He says this with a grimace. Wait, what's going on here? Why don't I smell feet? Or actually why does he smell feet? Who knows? We all have different likes and dislikes, but the point is we tried it and now we know what wine made from the viognier grape tastes like. Yep, viognier is a grape. Now I know that and I know to never order for my husband wine produced in the Rhône Valley districts of Condrieu and Château-Grillet of southern France. (Viognier is the only permitted grape variety grown in those districts.) How interesting! What are we tasting next? Come to the next Lunch Club event, a special pau hana event at Laniakea, and educate and tease your palette. Next Lunch Club Event:
October 6th The Unsophisticated Connoisseur: Simply Wine Lunch Club |
After the Harvest
Wahine in Hawaii Business at Laniakea Network Presents "After the Harvest" The Journey of an Extraordinary Woman, Daughter and Mother of Olympic Gold Medalist Bryan Clay  Join us to share stories with Michele Vandenburg, wife, daughter, and mother of Nikolas Clay and Bryan Clay, the 2008 Beijing Olympics Decathlon Gold Medalist. Experience how Michele's amazing leadership and life journey, rooted in a culture that values faith, hard work and family, have revealed extraordinary gifts for her and her family, and allowed Michele to emerge as the resilient, generous and refreshingly real woman she is today. Where: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 Time: 11:30 am - 1:00 pm Place: Laniakea YWCA Cost: $60.00 - Public Welcome Schedule11:30 Registration, Lunch, Networking 11:00 Opening Remarks 12:05 Guest Speaker 12:30 Questions from Floor 12:50 Closing Remarks 1:00 Program Ends Invite your friends and associates! Register Today!
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Book Club
Members Book Club 
Members have started a Book Club which is held the 3rd Tuesday of each month. The Book Club will meet at Laniakea from noon to 1pm (brown bag). All members interested are invited to attend. Have a book in mind you'd like to read? Bring your suggestion to the next Book Club.
Next EventTuesday, October 20, 2009
October's Book Club selection is Shibumi by Trevanian. When this novel was first published in 1979, the leading critics had a difficult time classifying the work. It wasn't exactly an espionage thriller or an epic, but it seemed to touch upon many genres and themes. Shibumi is a fictional biography, half saintly ascetic, half Vandal marauder - a medieval anti-hero. Nicholai Hel is your vintage 'man-against-the establishment' with a mind like a steel trap and the tastes and lifestyle of an 18th century aristocrat. His pedigree is a throw back to the German/Russian elite, where generations of breeding and culture have contributed to his unusual character. Nicholai is a man without a country, a natural mystic, philosopher, linguist, master of Go, a complex Japanese board game of high strategy, and most importantly, a self trained assassin for hire who is expert in the arts of naked/kill. More than this, he is a seeker of spiritual perfection, his ultimate goal being that hard to define state or condition known as "Shibumi".
Where: Tuesday, October 20, 2009 When: 12:00 - 1:00 pm Place: Laniakea YWCA Cost: Free - Members Only
For more information about the Book Club email Judy Allen or call 695-2629.
Book Club
Book Club Review By Linda L. Fong, Member
 What do you do when you are depressed with your relationships and frustrated at work? Get BUSY and challenge yourself with a new a hobby! That is exactly what Julie did in her book "Julie and Julia: 365 Days, 524 Recipes, 1 Tiny Apartment Kitchen" as she engaged herself in cooking through Julia Childs cookbook, "Mastering the Art of French Cooking", and braved the world of cyberspace by posting and writing a blog about her experiences. The newly formed YWCA Book Club had mixed reviews about this book. Over all it was thumbs up for the funny challenges and successes that Julie Powell met in her year of cooking and blogging. Read entire review
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September is Women's Health Month in Hawai'i
Make time to take care of your health!
 The purpose of Women's Health Month is to maximize public awareness of women's health issues, empower women to be their own health advocates, reduce health care disparities, and promote the physical and emotional well-being of women in Hawaii. This year women have the additional issue of dealing with tough economic times while maintaining the health of their families and themselves.
Following the lead of First Lady Michelle Obama this year Women's Health Month will have an initiative on promoting healthy eating through gardening. So much of our current health care crisis can be tied back to our eating, such as the number one killer of women, heart  disease.
Simple tips to a healthier lifestyle:
. Eat a fruit or vegetable at every meal. . Take the stairs instead of the elevator. . Cut your salt intake. . Stop smoking. . Always wear sunscreen. . See your OB/GYN for regular exams and know your family history
Reduce Anxiety Feeling anxious? Regain a sense of calm with these easy tips. Anxiety can strike at any time, and some of us are more susceptible than others. Family issues, workplace worries, and the day-to-day obligations of our busy schedules can take a toll on how we feel, both physically and emotionally. To ease feelings of anxiety or tension, try these easy methods for stress reduction.
- Take a Deep Breath
When people are stressed or anxious, they tend to take shallow breaths, which can actually increase feelings of tension. Taking several slow, deep breaths can restore a sense of calm and can be done almost anywhere. Start by exhaling deeply while contracting your stomach, then inhale slowly as you expand your abdomen. Continue inhaling as you expand your chest and raise your shoulders up to your ears. Hold your breath for a few seconds, then slowly exhale in a reverse pattern. Repeat two or three times, and feel the stress gradually leave your body.
- Get Moving
Physical activity helps the body to relieve anxiety, and it also releases endorphins, the body's natural "feel-good" chemicals. Virtually any type of exercise is beneficial for reducing stress, from jogging to swimming to taking a brisk walk around the office.
- Slow Down
When things get hectic, particularly at work, we tend to speed up in order to feel like we're getting things done in a timely manner. If you feel anxious while doing your job, practice slowing down. Instead of breathlessly answering your phone the second it rings, take a moment to calm yourself before picking up. Slow down your speech, too; talking at a rapid pace may make you sound tense and feel flustered and out of control.
- Visualize an Anxiety-Free You
During visualization, also known as guided imagery, you're in control of your own peaceful dream. Imagine a calm, relaxed setting, such as a beach, mountain peak, or your lanai, and insert yourself into the scene. Stay with your vision for several minutes, until you feel your mind and body relax. Visualization can be practiced at home or in your office, with or without an audiotape to guide you.
Shared by Lindsey Tanimoto, UCLA

At the YWCA of O'ahu, we support each other in our journey towards fitness and a healthy lifestyle. Celebrate Women's Health Month with the YWCA's wellness community during our Open House Week at Laniakea - September 14-18. See you there!
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Working It Out
by Jennifer M. Ko, Member
Everybody works. It is a fact of life. From your job, to your home, to your family, to your relationships; work is not just restricted to your job. Yet, the concept of work seems to have a negative vibe to it. It is often thought of as wwww---ooo-rrr-kkk, "I guess I have to go to work." If work is so un-enjoyable and such a burden, why is raising your children so rewarding, or why is helping others so satisfying?
In Western countries, the thought of work carries traces of pre-industrial, religious and secular traditions of simultaneous glorification and denigration. Judeo-Christian beliefs are very influential and create the normative attitude to the concept of work. This article's purpose is to re-discover the meaning of work and destroy the concept of working out as work. If work is generally measured by what can be used, how is working out considered to be productive? The negative connation of work which is a consequence of the interpretation of the book of Genesis and the perception that work is a means to achieving what is thought of as good needs to be eliminated. Work should not be thought of as a burden or punishment, but rather a joy and an end in itself. Working out should also not be such a hassle, it should be a time to enjoy and rediscover your body's abilities. Working out can be thought of as a means to achieving a healthy and great looking body. But it can also be time to "sweat it out" and "stop stressing" activity that re-focuses your mind, body and soul. It can be a relax session with yoga or pilates, or a rejuvenating high impact, kick butt session with kickboxing or aerobics. Whatever the activity is, we all need to stop thinking of working-out as "w-o-r-k." Read full article |
Member Moments
Who is our YWCA community? 
YWCA Members want to create positive change for ourselves, our families, our work and our community. Through our stories, we reveal our authentic humanity and our uniqueness as a community. 
 Joanna Amberger
Interview with a YWCA Member Lunch Club Speaker
What's your hometown? Lincoln, Illinois. The first town in the country to be named after Abraham Lincoln before he was president. He christened the town with a watermelon!
What's your hometown? My home is here in Hawaii with my husband and two poi dogs, Kona and Ipo.
How did you come to be a member of the YWCA of O'ahu? I joined the YWCA after attending a Lunch Club event. I met some really excellent ladies at that first Lunch Club and decided I wanted to be a part of this community of outstanding women. I was really attracted to the YWCA's focus on total life balance.
What is your passion? I'm passionate about women. In my business life, I am on a mission to advocate for the best interests of my clients, who are primarily professional women. I am saddened when I look around and see so many in my industry failing their clients. And they are failing because they are focused on their own interests and not on the goals and dreams of the people they are supposed to serve. My mission is to correct that. In the small part of the world that I influence, I am bound and determined to make sure the women I meet have an advocate on their side.
My early experiences watching my mother struggle through a divorce planted these seeds. I saw her struggle financially and emotionally for too long because she didn't have an advocate working to help her understand and navigate her newfound role of financial decision maker. When I was 16, I actually took over the family finances and set us back on track. To this day I continue to be my mother's financial advisor.
Who inspires you? My mother inspires me in countless ways. One of the most important ways is that she taught me to always follow through on my commitments. When I was young, I remember her telling me that she wouldn't make me many promises. She told me the reason is that when she makes a promise she keeps it no matter what. This commitment to honesty and integrity inspired me then, and inspires me now in my personal and business life.
What music are you listening to now? I listen to a lot of different kinds of music. Right now I tend to favor more melancholy folksy kinds of music. My favorites musicians now are Brett Dennen, Ray LaMontagne and Jose Gonzalez. I like to find new musicians by listening to the free radio station on Pandora.com.
What would most people be surprised to learn about you?
I am a fine-art photographer and I've had my work exhibited in group and solo shows. I also lived in Mexico and speak Spanish. Bringing the two together, I was commissioned to photograph the tequila making process for a Las Vegas tequila bar.  Joanna not only attends the monthly Lunch Club events, but recently led the "Is the Sky Really Falling? Personal Finance for Independent Women" Lunch Club event. Speakers at that event included Joanna herself, Jodi Lam and Julie Young. Joanna's professional bioShe also joined the Lunch Club Brain Trust, a committee that meets twice a month to help plan the upcoming Lunch Club events.
Lunch Club, food for the body, community for the soul, is a monthly brown bag talk series, created by and for the members, and has featured topics such as "OMG, My Mother's on Facebook: The Promise and Pitfalls of Social Networking", "Supercharge Your Power Lunch", "What Color is Your Parachute Now? Reinventing Yourself in Today's World" and "Top 5 Books Every Woman Should Read".
I was born and raised in San Francisco and moved to San Diego for 20 years before moving to O'ahu, my home.
Tell us about your family.
My husband Geoff is an architect. It's great to be married to someone who shares my interest in buildings and the building process. We have a son, Sean, who lives on the mainland.
How did you come to be a member of the YWCA of O'ahu?I was very lucky to be encouraged to go to the 1st Wahine in Hawaii Business Forum last year. I followed that with the 1st luncheon feedback session (WHB at Laniakea Network Event) and was hooked. I was invited by a friend, Laurie Takehashi. The networking, education opportunities and the people who work here are wonderful, and I will always find a way to be involved with this organization. It's a wonderful building with a great history. When I was telling a woman architect about its story over lunch in the dining room, and how it was a place of rest and relaxation from the dusty downtown days years and years ago, she said "That makes sense. I feel so safe here." That made me very proud of what the current leadership and staff has accomplished. I bring people to dine here (Dining Room at Laniakea) often -- the food is fabulous and the energy is great. I am having the National Association of Women in Construction (NAWIC) 2009-2010 Officers and Board Installation dinner in Fuller Hall in September.
What is your passion? I love my job. I work for Pankow, which is a general contracting firm that has worked in Hawaii for 46 years. They take good care of their people, have great leaders and do interesting work. We are constantly working to figure out challenging projects through integration of innovative engineering and building processes. There is never a dull day at Pankow.
In my construction career, I have worked in the office, in the field, in the construction process, in the interior design and upgrade processes, in contract management, and dealt directly with owners, architects, vendors and subcontractors. In all parts of the business, it is attention to detail and a pride in the quality of work and the willingness to go just a little bit farther than anyone else that makes all the difference.
Who inspires you? My son Sean inspires me. He's an only child but he has always been outgoing and curious. When he was little, he would go up to other kids and say "Hi, I'm Sean. Do you want to play?" When I moved to O'ahu and I knew no one except my husband, had no job and no friends, I found the best way to combat that was to get involved -- go meet people, volunteer, become part of a group that serves a cause you are passionate about. I took my example from that little boy. "Hi, I'm Leslie -- want to play?" I also head the Honolulu Chapter of NAWIC. I came from San Diego Chapter and the ladies in Hawaii took me to construction related events, helped me with my job search, and were there to answer all my many questions about life in Hawaii. They are a wonderful group of women.
What do you most enjoy about living on O'ahu? O'ahu is a perfect place for us. My husband and I live in a single wall construction house and whenever we are home every window in every room is wide open to allow the trades to blow through the house. Geoff's hobby is gardening and he has made us a wonderful yard. At the end of the day I can sit out there and let the gentle breeze blow all my worries away. The mountains and greenery feed my soul -- the ocean water feeds Geoff's soul. That's why O'ahu is perfect for us.
Read Leslie's Entire Interview
Leslie is part of the Wahine in Hawaii Business at Laniakea community. As a trailblazing tita, she is proof that women can not only succeed but thrive in male-dominated fields. WHB at Laniakea Network - As a follow up to the highly successful Wahine in Hawaii Business Forum, the YWCA of O'ahu, in partnership with Hawaii Business, created a network for Hawaii's amazing business women. The Wahine in Hawaii Business at Laniakea Network creates opportunities and shared experiences for business women to connect and learn from each other, build diverse relationships and engage in thoughtful conversations about business issues. WHB at Laniakea is ideal for business women looking for peer-to-peer engagement, and those who are driven and interested in building up a community of women in business. WHB at Laniakea Network roster includes Alston Hunt Floyd and Ing, Alu Scientific LLC, American Savings Bank, Bishop & Company, Child & Family Service, Foresight Leadership Development, Hawaii Business, Hawaii Central Credit Union, Hawaii USA Federal Credit Union, Hawaiian Electric Company, Inc., Meadow Gold Dairies, Morgan Stanley, Oceanic Time Warner Cable, Pankow, Pepsi Bottling Group Hawaii, Prudential, Young Women's Empowerment Network and the YWCA of O'ahu. WHB at Laniakea Events
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When Asked Why?
by Annie B. Kamiya, Member
I was glad to be given the opportunity to think about why I became a YWCA member. It helped me to explore the relationships I have, and have had, with powerful women in my life, women who touched and moved me in immeasurable ways.
I think about my grandmother and my mother. I was raised primarily by these two women since my father often worked grave yard shifts and, well, was constantly working to make sure we didn't go without. I missed my father then but I treasured those times with these two women. Both were staunch human and women's rights activists, no small feat for two women working in the small Oregon farming community where traditional roles of women and men reigned supreme. They regaled me with stories of what it meant to stand up for others, to advocate. To not only be "charitable" but to give of oneself to support others in their journey, on their path. They also allowed me the space and the time to try out what I wanted, to fail in their presence and learn from my mistakes, to act out, be obstinate and then learn how patience, kindness and listening were more effective tools. They continually brought me into circles of women and I watched women mentor young girls, young girls teach mothers, aunties and Tutus teach their daughters. They surrounded me with love, encouragement, beauty, passion and grace. My grandmother died five years ago in August so these memories remind me what I have to give, why I became a social worker, what drives me to be part of an organization like the YWCA. So, being a YWCA member is not only about the perks that come with your annual payment - gym access, free WIFI, programs, the excellent heated pool, access to afterschool care for kids, the dining room and so on - but about the community of women I get access to who inspire me, educate me, encourage me, mentor me, and who support other women in their communities who simply need a person to assist them on their path when they lose their way. I hope to do the same. Join the YWCA and Annie's community today! |
Member Updates
Did You Know? 
Did you know that we offer free Wi-Fi? Laniakea offers free Wi-Fi high speed wireless internet access to our members. Bring your laptop and relax in the serene loggia or open-air courtyard. Surround yourself with beauty while you work, shop or connect online. See Laniakea's hospitality desk for your free member privilege. Email Membership or call 538-7061 for more information. Swipe Your Card
Easy, quick, convenient access. No more writing your name and ID number when you enter. Starting August 25th, our card reader at our downtown Laniakea location will now give you easy and quick entry. Your entry ritual - simply have your card swiped at the hospitality desk and in you go. Your membersip card is your passport to all the YWCA offers. For easy entry have your card handy. In addition to making Laniakea even more safe and secure (like a gate; an electronic one) we'll know how and when Laniakea gets used and this information will help us to serve our members better. Lost your card? Need a replacement? See Ben, Betty, Ken or Michelle at the hospitality desk to get your replacement card. They'll make it for you on the spot.
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NEXT WEEK
September 14 - 18 Laniakea Open House
Celebrating Women's Health Month
Pick up your 1 week pass and try out our health and wellness classes 11:00am - 1:00pm
September 14 Holiday Session Registration Begins October 12 - December 20
September 22 2009 International Women's Conference
Sheraton Waikiki Hotel YWCA Members receive special discount - $99 Deadline to Register: September 15 Register today!September 29
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October 20 YWCA Book Club"Shibumi" by Trevanian Laniakea YWCA, 12:00pm - 1:00pm |
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Have a passion or burning issue you'd like to share with us? Send your comments/reflections/ideas to us at enews@ywcaoahu.org and we may select your submission for an upcoming issue! Published submissions shall be consistent with the values and mission of YWCA of O'ahu. Selection is subject to space restrictions and editorial policy. Preference is given to women's interest submissions in the areas of work, community, family, and self-care. | |