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Are You A Renaissance Soul?
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Dear Friends of Balancing Act,
"You take life in gulps," my mom used to say. I don't think it was a compliment . But the fact is, we're all wired differently. While some feel most balanced when they're on a clear, steady course, others love the zest of pursuing several passions at once. Read below about how choosing several focal points and working them simultaneously can "unstick" a Renaissance soul facing too many choices and make life more satisfying. Another way to get unstuck and ramp up life satisfaction is to change perspective about your work. The more you can see your work world as a calling instead of "just a job," the happier you'll be. Finally, if electronics are a source of your life imbalance, feel free to commiserate with my online adventure in electronic repair as told in my last column and to benefit from my Aha! moment (below) on how to clear an inbox in record time. If you already knew this, Shhh! Let me hold on to this momentary illusion of expertise. Pat
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Are You A Renaissance Soul?....
 Does it drive you nuts when someone asks what you want to be doing five years from now?
Do you have too many passions to pick just one?
Do you prefer to have life evolve organically rather than along a straight line?
Could be, you're a Renaissance Soul. And though your free spirit may seem out of balance to those who prefer a linear path, there are strategies for focusing your many gifts into a fulfilling life.
In her book The Renaissance Soul, Margaret Lobenstine suggests choosing four key interest areas, or "focal points," you'd like to focus on "for now." ("Forever" could be frightening to Renaissance souls). Through weekly worksheets for each focal point, she encourages planning activities that support it. Then she recommends finding a "J-O-B" that moves at least one of those focal points forward by providing income/benefits, energy, time to work on passions, training and equipment or networking and publicity opportunities.
The ultimate goal is a life that combines - and makes a living from - your passions.
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A Job? A Career? Or A Calling?
 How do you think about your work? Positive psychologists have concluded that the way you view your work in any field figures into your satisfaction level.
Do you work simply because you "have to"? Do you look forward to breaks and the end of the day? Are you motivated primarily by money and health care benefits? If so, you have a job.
Do you work mostly because of the money but also because of the possibility of advancement and pay raises? Do you see your work as a steppingstone to somewhere better? Then you have a career.
Do you love your work so much that you sometimes think you'd do it for free? Do you believe you're contributing to the good of the world? Do you think about your work even when you're away from it? Then you're likely engaged in a calling.
In the world of work, it seems that perception can be reality. And those who see their work as a calling experience more satisfaction in their lives on and off the clock.
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An 80-20 Reminder
Here's a tip for cleaning up e-mail overload that can also serve as a reminder of that old time management principle, the 80-20 rule.
First, the e-mail tip (in the unlikely event that you ever let messages pile up so high that you begin to get messages that your mailbox is almost full).
You can quickly get your inbox down to a manageable size by sorting messages according to size, then deleting the big ones first.
Which brings us to something called Pareto's Principle, which applied to time means to focus 80 percent of your time and energy on the 20 percent of your work that really matters. This lets you work smarter because you're working on the right things.
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Leash Law No. 27: Sib Sitting
Need a babysitter? Sibling sitting is worth a try when the one left in charge is mature and has had the safety training you'd expect from an outside sitter, and there's a healthy relationship between sibs. A trial run with the parents just down the street at a neighbor's could be a good start. In any case, it's up to the parents to set ground rules that are understood by everyone involved.
Ths is one of 74 leash laws offered in "The Dog Ate My Planner: Tales and Tips from an Overbooked Life."
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PAT ON
NATIONAL CONFERENCE
PANEL
"Humor and Grief"
Pat will join nationally known grief expert and author Allen Klein on a panel Saturday, April 9,
at the national conference of the Association for Applied and Therapeutic Humor (AATH) in Orlando, FL.
She'll share personal experiences with the role of humor in grief and everyday loss as well as exercises to mine the grief process for occasional comic relief.
Klein will share wisdom from his landmark work The Courage To Laugh and his new book Learning To Laugh When You Feel Like Crying.
The conference theme is "Humor, Health and Happiness: A Laughing Matter."
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PAT'S IN
THE SOUP!
Pat's essay "Hand-Me-Down Funeral" is in the latest Chicken Soup for the Soul book, Grieving and Recovery.
The piece tells the story of her dad's unconventional funeral procession -
a parade of friends, relatives and strangers who came to share their stories and fulfill his wish that his clothes not go to waste.
It's available now at bookstores and through online books
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LIFE BALANCE
PRESENTATIONS!!
Pat's taking bookings now for life balance speeches and workshops, writing workshops, and laughter programs, all described on her website.
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