Dear Friends of Balancing Act,
 As many of you have learned by now, my husband Bob, who starred in many of my "Balancing Act" columns, died suddenly on Saturday, May 9.
Ever the cheerleader, he'd e-mailed the children the day before to let them know that a piece I'd written years ago about losing my dad had just shown up in the summer issue of Living With Loss magazine. He said that reading it again after so many years had made him cry. The irony did not escape us.
We've shed our share of tears in our family this past month as we push through the grieving process, And with laughter a first-cousin of tears, we've also enjoyed sharing the many Bob stories we remember since the day he joined us in 1982 as stepdad to my two boys, James and Paul Ravenscraft, and later celebrated the arrival in 1988 of our daughter Sarah. Much thanks to all who have expressed their sympathies and lent their support.
For you who knew him well and others who would like to read some of those Bob stories, my June "Balancing Act" column is a tribute to my favorite co-conspirator.
To say he'll be missed doesn't even come close.
Pat |
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