This weekend I participated in the Durham Regions Scotiabank AIDS Walk. This was not the first charity walk that I have participated and it certainly will not be the last. I am always in awe about the positive energy that a group of people can create when that energy comes from love and from the heart. This group was a large diverse group including women, children, gay, straight, black, white, people from different religious and political affiliations, etc. It was amazing to see so many wonderful, compasssionate and loving people get together to raise money for a great organization.

 

Before the run - the Executive Director spoke and informed us that The AIDS Committee of Durham has clients that range from 22 months old to 85 years old and they are benefitting from the money that we have raised. He also informed us that AIDS/HIV infection is on the rise for age groups of 18 - 24 year olds. Frigtenening statistics. When I was in this age group - there was no alternative for me but SAFE SEX as the message was being communicated to the gay community loud and clear.

 

The walk took place on a beautiful and sunny morning and ended with a lakeside BBQ. The walk was successful in reaching their goal of raising $25,000. In fact, during our BBQ we received an update that The Durham Region portion of the Scotiabank AIDS walk raised over $30,000 - 4th overall nationally. Putting statistics aside - I was asked why I was participating in this walk and here are my reasons:

 

- I lost a dear friend to HIV/AIDS over 20 years ago. He was a role-model for me. He was a caring and loving person and the world lost someone who was pivotal in the fight against all the stereotypes around people living with HIV/AIDS.

- My ex-partner, who lived with HIV/AIDS. I hope he is healthy and living his most authentic life.

- Erin, a wonderful and caring friend who struggled with her identity and overcame such overwhelming odds but was still gentle, loving and compassionate.

- For all those around the world who are infected and do not have easy access to medicine and are just living a life sentence because governments are not doing enough.

 

I walked because I care and because I want to make a difference! I am hopeful that a cure will come in my lifetime and that many lives will be better for it.

 

I look forward to next years walk to keep reminded of the reasons why I participate. In our busy lives, we sometimes do not take the necessary time to reflect on those who have gone and this is a great way to keep their memories alive.

 

All the best,
Rob

 

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