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Club 717 / Durham Alliance Association Social Club Newsletter
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| February 2010
Issue 18 Volume 3 |
| February Sweetie :) |
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Quote of the Month
"Until one has loved an animal, part of their soul remains unawakened."
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Funny picture
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We absolutely want all Club 717 patrons to feel comfortable with someone taking them home knowing that they are:
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We have done a lot of business with your establishment thus far and would love all patrons to know we are not just a "Gay Friendly" company but we are part of your "Community".
Best wishes to everyone,
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Presidents Message 
A message from the president was not available this month.
We hope to have something from him on the life of the Club next month.
Danny
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Because every body is beautiful...
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We are here to celebrate our curvy, beautiful bodies by looking chic while shopping cheap!
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Happy Valentines Day
Club 717 |
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Newsletter Sponsor |
A special thank you to Kristin Parker from The Mortgage Centre for renewing her sponsorship in the newsletter for a full year sponsor.
Kristin has been apart of our community family for years and is pleased to offer her services to the members and patrons of Club 717.
Please contact Kristin for all your mortgage needs.
Kristin Parker
Mortgage Specialist
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F: 1-866-293-1750
Toll Free: 1-866-452-1821
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A message from Queen Candice 
Hi everyone,
The holidays are over and so is my cold. I had a cold for the holidays yummies but I did have a great time with friends and family.
I will be back for two great shows on Feb 12th and Feb 26th. On the 12th it will be myself Chardonnay and special guest Farr N Hyte.
Then on the 26th some of my friends from Toronto will be in the house along with my Oshawa family at Club 717 to help me enjoy a great 53rd birthday. I'm getting new outfits and hair, so be ready to party.
See you all soon
Your friend and Queen,
Candice
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For your convenience, Club 717 has a debit cash back service
Ask at the bar for assistance with debit machine |
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A Message from PFlag Canada
-"Assault Trial" for Jane and Ange continues February 5th at 850 King St. Then on February 8th at the new court house on Bond Street.
-PFLAG wishes Ange a very Happy Birthday on February 17th!
-PFLAG fundraiser at Club 717 scheduled guests are "Savanaugh, Chardonnay and Benn Dover on February 20th.
-Sharing Meeting for February 25th at 7pm at 115 Grassmere Ave. Oshawa Community Health Centre.
-"International Day against Bullying" on February 27th. Wear something PINK! Stand up to bullying! |
| February Sponsor
PURE (You are Pure) is a gay owned and operated Health and Well Being company situated in Whitby that has been serving the GTA and local community since 1999.
Through our PURE Aromatherapy division, we produce our very own line of all natural therapeutic grade Aromatherapy skin care products for the whole family.
Through our PURE relaxation division we offer a range of in- and out-bound massage and holistic services which include: onsite Chair Massage, Lymphatic Drainage Massage, Ki Drop Therapy and Reiki.
SPECIAL MASSAGE OFFER:
For a limited time only, PURE relaxation is offering first time clients Introductory Rates for the month of February! Look for our voucher in the coupon section at the bottom of this newsletter and book your massage today!
To find out more about our line of products and services please visit our website.
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| February Funny |
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A woman was helping her husband set up his computer, and at the appropriate point in the process, the computer advised him that he would now need to enter a password.
Something he will use to log on.
The husband was in a rather amorous mood and figured he would try for the shock effect to bring this to his wife's attention.
So, when the computer asked him to enter his password, he made it plainly obvious to his wife what he was entering by stating each letter out loud as he typed:
P..E..N..I..S
His wife fell off her chair laughing when the computer replied:
**** PASSWORD REJECTED. NOT LONG ENOUGH*** |
| POPCORNS BACK |
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You asked for it and your Board of Directors listened. However, keep in mind the only reason it was taken away is because some patrons were abusing it by throwing it around and creating messes.
Please be respectful of our volunteers as it's really hard to clean and creates a slip hazard.
We don't want to loose it again !
EAT RESPONSIBLY
Swallow, Don't Throw!! |
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These are letters received thanking everyone for the donations during the Club 717 Holiday Fundraising Food and Toy Drive.
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Owner & Partners Diane Cassidy and Kim Etherington operate their private therapy practices out of the little purple house in Whitby.
Their focus is assisting individuals with their emotional healing. They provide psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, life coaching, counseling and mediation services.
See their February list of activities in the coupon section at the bottom of the newsletter. You can also reach them at the email below or click on the image for a link to their website.
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Sponsor of the Club E-mail hosting software.
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Ask for John Clarke and tell him you saw his advertisement in the Club 717 Newsletter.
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Lawrence Nosan Grecco is a professional astrologer and life coach in New York City and a member of the board of directors of the National Council of Geocosmic Research, NYC chapter.
He is available for personal or telephone readings and can be reached at 212-255-5337. Email nosan@zenrising.com
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717 Wilson Road South
Unit # 7
Oshawa, Ontario L1H 6E9
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Danny - President
Steve O. - Vice President
John - Treasurer
Jean-Guy - Secretary
Steve O. - Membership Director
Donny - Entertainment Director
Jason - Member at large
Mike - Member at large
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 Greetings!
I hope everyone had a great January. I don't know about you, but I'm glad the January stresses are over with and February is here.
Unfortunately, the event poster images were not completed in time to be included in the newsletter. I will post them on the website as the become available from entertainment.
The Club's newsletter is starting the New Year in the right direction! I'd like to welcome our newest "Full Year" advertiser Kim Dobie. Kim's got a great business that you will be hearing more about in the near future. Watch for her indepth interview with Steve O'Connors column "Out In Durham", coming soon !! Curvaceous Consignments is a size 14+ establishment for the ladies. Curvaceous Consignments also wants to be the destination store for all of Club 717's Female Impersonators and Talent!! At her Ajax store. you'll find they're non judgmental and friendly staff is more than willing to help the guys reach their full feminine potential. You also have to love her tag line: "Because everybody is beautiful" Check our her advertisements below.
A warm welcome back to Pierre from Pure Relaxation for a second month's advertising in the newsletter. If you missed his free 30 minute massage, just ask Steve O'Connor what you missed. Don't regret missing his next offer. Look for it below !!
Now, no more hoping the new year is going to be a good one!! We are going to have to make it happen!! Get out there and support one of our amazing local charities and make a difference !!
Ed
Newsletter Editor
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Membership / Renewals DUE !
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* Your 2009 Membership cards are now EXPIRED !!!
Purchase your new Club Membership and Membership Renewals ONLINE under the Membership Page or ask for an application at the front door.
If you have not renewed your memberships to take advantage of the discount, the price has gone up. Both New Memberships and Renewals are now $50.00
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| Congratulations Larry
Club 717's Member of the Year !! 
The Board of Directors are pleased to announce that they have chosen the 2009 Member of the Year by unanimous vote.
Larry Chapman (a.k.a. "Edna") is Club 717's 2009 Member of the Year!
Please mark your calendars & come out on Friday March 5th, 2010. As a community we will thank this great person for ALL his efforts & entertainment over the years, in making Club 717 a truly enjoyable & fun experience.
Sincerely,
Club 717 Board of Directors |
Entertainment Directors Report - by Donny 
Hey everyone,
Just thought I would start by intoducing myself to those who don't know me. I am Donny and I have taken over the Entertaiment portfolio for the club.
Let me first say thanks to Jason for his great job at it and now on with the show as they say...lol
Ok, so the last couple of months have been crazy around the club with all of the holidays but that has not slowed any of us down. I want to give some thank you's out to some people that help me decorate for New Years!!! Thanks to Trish, Steve, Kylee, Arron, Ryan, Dave, Kelly Goodwin and a big thanks to Danny who was my sounding board during it with all of my rants...lol Thanks again guys you all rock!!!
So January we had Queen Candice and King Benn kick off the year with a great show. Then we had Ineeda Tips birthday show. Sorry I missed it, but I was in Mexico... I heard it was a great night. That was followed by a night of Kings with Billie and I hear that you guys rocked the house with your special guests. We then had Are You Smarter Than A Drag Queen. It was fun and there were alot of laughs and some pretty kinky prizes......
To close off the month we have Chardonnay filling in for Savy, as she is still not up to herself and totally REFUSES to wear plats or slippers.....
Febuary is going to be a great month too.....
Feb. 5h we have Ivy, Mirage and Twiggy with the Broadway Show
Feb. 6th is the Durham A.I.D.S concert and dance
Feb. 7th is our 2nd Superbowl Party hosted by Kelly Hummell
Feb.12th we have Farra N Hyte with Queen Candice and Chardonnay to kick off the Valentine's weekend. This is a show with some surprises so come on out. Feb.13th is the Valentine's Dance and Party hosted by Chardonnay. There will be some food, games and prizes, so come on out and share the love.... Feb. 14th we continue with our Rising Star competition. It is getting down to the final weeks, so come on out and cheer on the contestants. Feb. 19th is Amatuer night with your hosts for the evening Chardonnay and Me....for more info talk to either of us or email info@club717.ca Feb. 20th Savagana will be hosting a fundraiser for PFLAG. It is going to be a fun show and a good cause.
Feb. 21st we have our Pot Luck and the theme is Valentines. Then stick around and watch the Rising Star compititon.
Feb. 26th is Queen Candice's Birthday show with her hosts Farra N Hyte and Terran Blake and all of her special guests that will be on hand to wish her a Happy Birthday!!!!
Feb. 28th will be the Rising Star Finals and it is going to be alot of fun! Not to be missed.
So there you have it. There is always something happening at the Club.
Also rehersals are underway for the club's production of Moulin Rouge that will take place over the Mardi Gras weekend on March 19th and 20th.
There will also be a Drag/Performers meeting on Feb. 7th at 2pm.
Well I guess I have said alot .....sorry about that but hey first time doing this ...LOL
Till the next time say hi and if you have any questions email me.
Sincerely,
Donny Potts
Entertainment Director
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Making Cents, Make Sense - by Kristin
Hello Club 717,
Now more then ever, I have been approached with the questions 'what is happening with the mortgage rates?' and 'should I change my current mortgage and take advantage of the low rates?'
On January 19th 2010, the Bank of Canada conducted their first meeting of the year to discuss the key over night interest rate. As promised, they maintained prime at the record low of .25% and reiterated their commitment (barring any unforeseen economic factors) to maintain this until June 2010. This means great savings continue for the current and new variable rate mortgage holders. Fixed Rate mortgages are still at great low ranging from 3.89% to 3.99% (5 Year Fixed) with few rumors of a slight increase.
If you are one of these people that may be considering taking advantage of these low rates whether through purchasing, refinancing or transferring your mortgage, please consult your mortgage agent or myself to see if a change is right for you!
See you next month!
Kristin Parker
The Mortgage Centre
Mortgage Specialist / Agent
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| Mind, Body & Spirit
a lesbian prospective - by Diane Cassidy and Kim Etherington
Intimate Relationship Abuse & LBT Women
When you bring up the topic of Domestic Violence or Intimate Relationship Abuse (IRA), for some, the image of the out-of-control male, physically abusing his helpless female partner comes to mind. Most people are shocked to learn that Intimate Relationship Abuse (IRA) exists at the same level in same-sex relationships as it does in heterosexual relationships. When examining the topic in the context of same-sex relationships amongst women, there is an expectation that the incidence of abuse would be even less due to a number of myths and stereotypes that exist regarding intimate relationships amongst women. This misconception has negatively influenced the attempts to increase awareness of IRA in same-sex couples.
One of the most prevalent myths that clouds ones understanding of IRA in Lesbian relationships, is the idea that women are NOT violent or abusive. There is no denying that most women are at a disadvantage to men when it comes to physical strength, but this fact has nothing to do with if a woman is capable of being abusive. The idea that ALL women are nurturing and supportive to one another is a myth. IRA does exist in the LBT community and myths such as this one make it more difficult for women to recognize abuse and less likely they will seek support when faced with it.
Another myth that furthers a lack of understanding IRA in the LBT community is the belief that when a relationship is between two women, they are likely of equal physical strength, and therefore neither can hold power over the other. This myth assumes the only way to hold power over another is through physical force. When violence and control are part of an intimate relationship, there is often a perpetrator and a victim. It is a mistake to assume that a perpetrator is bigger and stronger. This touches on the misconceptions of butch-femme roles in lesbian relationships. The fact is that most lesbians do not assume explicitly butch-femme roles, and these roles do not automatically identify who has power in the relationship, or who has the desire to exert power over the other. It is not true that the "butch" is the perpetrator and the "femme" is the victim.
Most women who experience abuse from a partner feel shameful about it. They often don't want their family or friends to know about it for fear of judgment. For this reason the topic of IRA is not often discussed openly. Additionally, for lesbian women they deal with the issue of IRA and the disclosure of their sexual orientation. They must consider the greater impact of judgment for the sexual orientation, as well as being a victim of IRA. It is no secret that homophobia and misogyny exist in our culture. Women may fear that disclosure will lead to a more negative perceptions of the lesbian community, or further the chance of judgment and rejection from those they share this disclosure with. Given the compounding issues lesbians face, it is understandably difficult to collect statistics and direct programs to LBT women dealing with IRA.
Intimate Relationship Abuse is a multi-dimensional term used to be inclusive of all intimate relationship, whether they are heterosexual or same-sex or whether the abuser is male or female. This term applies to romantic relationships that exist under varying circumstances. Some include cohabitation, others do not. Using the term Intimate Relationship Abuse ensures we consider the complexities of relationships and we do not perpetuate a narrow and limiting view of what abuse is. Abuse can include sexual, emotional/psychological, economic and/or physical abuse. Ultimately, abuse serves to establish dominance and control over another person. When someone is living with an oppressive and controlling partner, it can make it difficult for them to even recognize what is considered abuse. Below is a list of behaviours and actions that are considered abusive:
Emotional/Psychological Abuse:
" Yelling, insulting the partner, swearing at one's partner or calling names.
" Belittling or ridiculing the partner; berating partner in front of people.
" Forcing a partner to do humiliating or demeaning things, demanding obedience, ordering or treating partner like a servant and become angry when "chores" aren't done or done right.
" Acting jealous and suspicious of the partner's friends and social contacts. Socially isolating a partner from friends, family and peers. Putting down a partner's family and friends. Monitoring a partner's time and whereabouts. Checking cell phones, email and other records. Not allowing a partner to leave the house. Restricting the use of the phone or car. Preventing the partner from attending school, work or socializing. Preventing a partner from seeking medical care or other types of support.
" Using manipulation by refusing to talk or sulking. Making decisions for a partner without consulting them. Withholding affection. Threatening to abandon a partner. Refusing to do ones share in a relationship or care for children.
" Telling a partner they are crazy and irrational, turning people against them, blaming the partner for violent bahviour,
" Throwing things at walls, kicking furniture, punching holes in walls, breaking dishes, shaking finger at partner, making general threatening gestures. Threatening to destroy partner's personal property and threats of harm.
" Trying to scare or intimidate a partner by driving dangerously, threatening the children or making threats of violence against family, friends and pets.
" Threatening to "out" a partner.
Sexual Abuse:
" Treats partner as a sexual object, insisting they dress more sexual, insisting partner strip.
" Insisting on sexual acts at a time when the partner is not interested, such as during sickness.
" Forcing sexual acts against partners will, forces sex with others, or forces partner to watch sex with others.
" Calling sexual names like "whore" or criticizing sexually, insisting partner is interested in others sexually.
" Sadistic sexual acts, forcing sex after violence, forces degrading and unwanted sexual acts.
" Any non-consensual or manipulated sexual contact.
Economical Abuse:
" Interfering with partner's work through harassing activities.
" Denying access to money or means of obtaining it.
" Forced dependence through refusing to allow a partner to work.
" Refusing to allow a partner to attend school.
" Withholding money.
" Preventing access to food, clothing, personal hygiene products, medication or shelter.
" Stealing assets or defrauding money.
" Requiring justification for any money spent.
" Destroying personal belongings.
" Threatening to "out" a partner in their workplace.
" Refusing to pay child or spousal support.
" Forbidding partner from having personal bank accounts.
" Negatively influencing the credit rating of a partner to gain dependence.
Physical Abuse:
" Spitting, slapping, scratching, pushing, shoving, grabbing.
" Arm twisting or bending, hair pulling, kicking, biting, hitting or punching.
" Throwing objects, slamming the partner against objects such as wall or floor.
" Dragging down stairs or from a height, forcing from a moving vehicle
" Cutting, scalding or burning.
" Holding down, restraining, trying up, locking in a room, closet or other enclosed space.
" Choking, strangling, beating up, smothering, threatening with a weapon
My Sister's Voice is a new charitable organization in Durham Region that recognizes the unique needs of the LBT community when addressing the issue of IRA. My Sister's Voice provides mentoring, support, counselling and education services to women who have been marginalized by abuse, violence, poverty, hate crimes or sexual orientation. Services are provided to foster self-esteem and confidence and
are founded on the core values of equity, diversity, unity, and empowerment.
My Sister's Voice will be launching The Phoenix Project: Supporting and Empowering LBT Women Experiencing Intimate Relationship Abuse (IRA). The Phoenix Project consists of a number of components designed to both increase awareness of IRA in the LBT community and offer LBT women a place to seek support and counselling that is sensitive to their unique needs as LBT women. Through this program, LBT women can access individual counselling, monthly support groups and referrals to other community agencies and partners.
The organization also facilitates a monthly Coming Out Group. The group is a monthly support group that offers a safe place for women in various stages of "coming out". The group provides a confidential place for discussion related to the many issues that women face when addressing their sexual orientation.
As part of My Sister's Voice fundraising efforts they have organized a benefit dance on Saturday, March 6th at the West Rouge Community Centre, 270 Rouge Hills Dr. in West Hill. FLOW Dance (For the Love Of Women), will take place four times each year and is intended for Queer women and their supporters. Tickets for the event are $15 in advance, $20 at the door or a VIP table of 8 can be purchased for $100. You can purchase tickets in person at Sacred Quest, 118 John St. E. in Whitby, or you can order them by phone at 905-666-3010.
My Sister's Voice hopes to launch its first program in April 2010. If you would like to get more information on the organization or help dealing with the Intimate Relationship Abuse you can contact My Sister's Voice at 905-668-5578.
Love yourself, you are worth it !
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| Out in Durham - by Steve O'Connor
It was my real pleasure & a very relaxing & enjoyable experience to interview & personally experience the expertise of Pierre Langlois, the owner of Pure Relaxation.
This business is located @ 1 Candlebrook Drive, Whitby, ON L1R 2V4. His phone # is 289 314-0400. The hours of operation are as follows: Mondays to Fridays 7 p.m. to 10 p.m., Saturdays 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. & Sundays 12 noon to 4 p.m. Please check out his website @ www.purerelaxation.ca for more details.
Pierre has a varied & interesting educational background including a Fine Arts B. A. from Ottawa University, an Environmental Design certificate from the Ontario College of Art Design in Toronto. He comes from a very visual background which certainly helps his clients @ Pure Relaxation.
Although presently working as a project manager in front end web design in Toronto for the past 10 years, Pierre is very interested in expanding & growing his Durham Region based Pure Relaxation business. Pierre has always been interested in gardening (he was a professional gardener for many years) & his experiences there assisted him in how to work with plants all year round which lead into his present involvement in aromatherapy. He obtained his certificate in aromatherapy in 2000 @ the Institute of Aromatherapy.
Pierre has a holistic practical approach that his various courses that interested him & help him to this day in his business Pure Relaxation. It should be noted too that prior to this Pierre was interested in spiritual healing & energy work & is a certified in Reiki.
Also, Pierre does various forms of massage & I can personally testify that his private room is very tranquil with soft music & totally relaxing. He immediately puts a person at ease & discusses with you in a gentle manner your concerns (maybe neck, shoulder back tension etc.) & has you fill out a simple 1 page form. He produces his own ALL natural aromatherapy products & does up a personal blend in front of you to assist you in your healing process. Pierre develops these oils/blends in his own kitchen & there are NO chemicals. I am sure many of our readers thought they may had to travel to Toronto to get such natural products & a total professional package of therapeutic treatments. Not so dear readers! Please consider giving Pierre a call & book an appointment with him. You will not be disappointed >> I guarantee that!!!
The rates for services are more than reasonable: for example a massage is $60 per hour (it is less intrusive & stressful for people & the benefits include circulation & detox of your body). For Ki Drop Therapy the price is $70 per treatment which last between 45 to 60 minutes. A Reiki session is $60 per hour & last between 1 to 1.5 hours depending on a clients needs & includes a light touch to key areas of the body. Please note that it is up to the client to decide how often to come to appointments. There is NO pressure from Pierre like you may have experienced from other in the health care community.
Recently Pierre expanded his business in making his own soaps & he noted it is all about the product & not the packaging. Pierre uses products like our ancestors did >> in other words the old fashioned way.
Pierre will be part of the Wellness Show @ the Scugog Community Centre, 1655 Reach Street, Port Perry on Saturday February 20th, 20010 from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. If you go to Pure Relaxation home page there is a $2.00 discount coupon of the admission price to this show.
I would just like to end this column by saying a great BIG thank you to Pierre Langlois. He was truly 1 of nicest & most comfortable interviews that I have done for this column. Please consider Pierre & his business Pure Relaxation for your own personal well being & health. Thanks Pierre!!!
If you know of a gay/lesbian business or a gay/lesbian friendly business that would like to be featured in a future column kindly have them email me @ cottageguy@rogers.com
Until next month, keep healthy, happy & safe
Steve O'Connor
Vice President & Membership Director
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Community Events
AIDS Committee of Durham Region
Feb. AIDS Dance & Fundraiser
Special Musical Guest:
Velvet Hammer
Concert At Club 717
Feb. 6th.
Sample of Velvet Hammer's Music:
People can buy tickets to the February concert and dance online. All they need to do is go to www.aidsdurham.com and they can buy the tickets online.
PFlag Fundraiser
Feb. 20th At Club 717
Hosted by Savanaugh with Chardonnay, Twiggy
$5 cover for non members. No cover for Members, though a donation is suggested and appreciated.
All funds raised from cover, performers tips go to PFlag.
We apologize, no poster image is available. However we will place online once they get them done. |
| Slowing The HIV pandemic -
Get Tested  - by Mark Hammann
There are over 60,000 Canadians who are infected with HIV and it is estimated that another 30% of Canadians who are infected don't even know that they are. That 30% unknowingly aid in the spread of this pandemic. Getting tested for HIV is important. Knowing if you have been infected helps you get treatments that can control the virus, allowing the possibility of living a normal life span. While HIV drugs aren't always easy to take and there can be side effects with various medications, the facts are that there are options around medications and many people living with HIV are doing so with minimal side effects. Knowing ones HIV status also helps everyone by controlling the spread of this pandemic.
The only way to know if you have been infected is by getting an HIV anti-body test. Don't think that you can tell by the way you feel or look, because it's not possible; only by testing can a person know for sure.
Here in Durham region we have three sexual health clinics where a person can get 'rapid point of care' HIV testing. Those three clinics are: Pickering - Pickering Town Centre on Tuesdays from 2-4pm or by appointment by calling 905-420-8781; Port Perry - Phone: 905-985-4891 testing is on Wednesdays from 2-4pm or other times by appointment; Oshawa - Oshawa Centre on Thursdays from 2-4pm or by appointment by calling 905-433-8901. All three clinics offer anonymous HIV testing as well, but you have to request that your test be anonymous when you enter the clinic. DO NOT hand over your health card if asked; instead inform the receptionist or nurse that you want anonymous testing. This is important because if you give your health card and they swipe it, your test will not be anonymous!
Rapid point of care testing is fast, taking only about a minute to get results. The nurse will prick your finger, much like if you are getting a blood sugar test. He/she will get a few drops of blood which are then mixed with the test chemicals in the testing tray. This test gives a 'reactive' or 'non-reactive' result which is 99.9% accurate. If the test is 'reactive' you will then be given the standard HIV blood test. This is done as a way of double checking the results. Results from the standard test will take about two weeks.
So testing today is fast and easy and can be anonymous (if requested). There are treatment options to lessen side effects and a person has a real possibly of living a normal life span. So get tested on a regular basis. We here at the AIDS Committee of Durham Region can help you learn about the risk factors for infection so you can know what level of risk you are comfortable with (visit www.aidsdurham.com or www.m2minfocentre.com ). Of course we always have free condoms too, just stop by or ask us about our partner distribution locations where you can pick them up. As an individual you can help in slowing this pandemic by knowing your status, so get tested!
By Mark Hammann
Gay men's Outreach Worker
The Aids Committe of Durham Region
22 King Street West, Suite # 202
Oshawa, Ontario L1H 1A3
905-576-1445 ext. 15
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Got Plant Issues? - by Charlie
February in the Garden
This month's nagging question is : What does one do with a towering old fence that borders across the whole of the backyard?
Rather than trying to hide it or cover it up, why not turn it into a feature wall / fence. After just returning from Mexico, I am truly inspired by colour, by garden art and scupture, garden furniture in wrought iron or heavy wood.
Yellow is a dominant colour in Mexico, being warm and bright. But terracotta, bright blue, red , orange and bright pink also come to mind. I wouldn't paint the fence, but I would consider staining it a colour, adding some wrought iron trellis or wooden latcice to the fence to grow some flowering vines on. Clematis, honeysuckle, roses that climb, climbing hydrangea- all these vines need some support. Boston Ivy and Virginia Creeper are vines that could totally cover the fence in 3 or 4 years, and they require no support as they have tendrils that would adhere to the fence. They also have nice fall colours, of reds and burgundys. If you want to break up the space or expanse of the fence, you could plant columnar type trees -- trees that grow tall, but are very narrow , such as columnar maples, columnar crab apple trees and a weeping red beech,which grows in smaller gardens too. You could also plant a hedge along the back, but that does require some pruning and clipping a couple of times per season. Butterflies are attracted to pink, yellow , orange and purple.
A couple of suggestions for tall grasses are:
Eulalia Grass - Miscanthus sinensis grows up to 2.5 metres tall
Pampas Grass- Cortaderia sellona grows almost 2 metres too, but likes damp soil.
To keep going with the Mexican theme, colourful tiles are used quite a bit. Tiling outdoors in Canada is a bit risky. But colourful ceramic urns planted with summer annuals in hot colours could look very interesting. To help complete the look, cushions in colourful striped fabrics. rope hammocks, rope chair seats, colourful scatter mats on the patio or one hung on the fence.These are just some genreral ideas. But if you add some margueritas and cruchy tortillas and a bit of salsa, you just might think you are sitting in a Mexican courtyard.
I am also including some plant names that would be suitable to plant in your Canadian garden, but remind me of some plants in Mexico:
dwarf spreading yews
yuccas - remind me of agaves
dogwoods - remind me of ficus benjamina
rhododendrons-
big leaf cottoneasters- small leaves and red berries small scale sedges- grasslike plants with texture and colour upright oakleaf mountain ash- siberean peashrub schubert chokecherry succulent sedums and sempervirens(hens and chicks) vinca- the annual flower- saw it growing wild in a cemetery. If you really must have palm trees, you'll have to purchase some large ones and plant them in the garden or in large decorative pots, but you will have to winter them indoors.
So I have supplied some ideas, although rather general and some information about plant choices. Now it is the gardener in you, who needs to be inspired and take as much as you want or none at all, or do some more research to get to the end of your means.
If you have any questions about your garden style, plant choices or some sort of garden dilemna, just let me know and I'll try to steer you in the right direction, or at least give you something to think about.
Till next time,
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Upcoming Events at Club 717 
Feb 5th - Broadway Night with Ivy, Mirage & Twiggy
Feb 6th - AIDS Committee of Durham Region - Fundraiser Dance/Show - Special Guest "Velvet Revolver". Benefit Concert. Light Buffet
Feb 7th - Super Bowl Party Come & watch the game at Club 717 on the Big Screen. Draws & Food - hosted by Kelly Hummell
Feb 12th - Club 717 Valentine Show - Farra N Hyte, Candice & Chardonnay
Feb 13th - Chardonnay's Valentine Party/Dance - food, prizes & surprises!
Feb 14th - Karaoke " Rising Star" Competition - Theme "Celebrity"
Feb 19th - Amateur Drag Night - hosted by Chardonnay & Donny Potts - 1st, 2nd & 3rd cash prizes! *conditions apply
Feb 20th - PFLAG Fundraiser Show - hosted by Savanaugh - Special guest; Chardonnay, Twiggy.... Cover charge of $5.00 for non members & no cover charge for members though donations are appreciated. All cover charges will go to the fundraiser & so will the performers tips.
Feb 21st - Pot Luck Dinner - Heart / Red Valentines Theme - Doors open at 4pm and dinner served at 5pm.
Feb 21st - Karaoke " Rising Star" Competition - Theme "Pop" Feb 26th - Queen Candice's Birthday Show - Hosted by Farra N Hyte and Terran Blake with Many Special Guests! Come and celebrate our very own Queen's birthday! How old is she going to be?
Feb 27th - Swingers Night - Private function - Closed to general patrons however members may welcome to attend.
Feb 28th - Karaoke "Rising Star" Final Competition Night - the remaining contestants must pick their favorite during King/Queen & do their favorite song! Winners will be announced that evening - Don't miss it! |
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Attentions Cleaners:
Club 717 is asking anyone that has cleaning experience for offices or businesses to email your resume and qualifications to: info@club717.ca
Requirements:
- very detailed & organized
- has own buffer
- several years of cleaning experience
- be able to clean the club once a week & do an overall cleaning once a month
All candidates have to email their resume with quote by the deadline of February 27th, 2010. The final candidate will be contacted after the Board of Directors review all applicants.
Attention DJ's
The Staffing Director, John LaBarge is looking for part-time DJ's. If interested please contact him at labarge_j@rogers.com.
Regards,
Jean-Guy Dugas
DAASC / Club717
Secretary
Phone: 905-434-4297
secretary@club717.ca
7-717 Wilson Road South
Oshawa, ON L1H 6E9
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February Horoscopes - by Lawrence 
ARIES (March 21-April 19)
You're quite the social butterfly lately despite the pressures and changes you are most likely experiencing around your career and relationship lives. On February 13 a new Moon inspires you to expand your circle of friends and possibly indicates a new role for organizations in your life. The full Moon of February 28 emphasizes your daily routine, health matters, and employees (if you're a boss, that is).
TAURUS (April 20-May 20)
It seems as though you're quite preoccupied with career issues and your overall direction in life. On February 13 a new Moon allows you to turn embark upon a new path that makes more sense for you now. The full Moon of February 28 heats up your romantic life and gets your creative juices working overtime.
GEMINI (May 21-June 20)
This is a highly inspirational time for you as you ponder the endless possibilities as to what your life could and should be all about. On February 13 a new Moon may make you consider returning to school or approaching your spirituality in a whole new way. The full Moon of February 28 emphasizes an issue pertaining to your home and family.
CANCER (June 21-July 22)
This isn't the most stable or time periods and you are experiencing profound shifts in your home and relationship life. The new Moon of February 13 may coincide with a request for funding, or perhaps a tax, credit, or mortgage issue. The full Moon of the 28th allows you to take a new approach to finances-even if it means learning to put away $10 a week in a new bank account and watch how it grows over time.
LEO (July 23-August 22)
It's all about other people right now-particularly if you have a significant other, although this can apply to any important person in your life because they need some tending to. On February 13 a new Moon indicates a new beginning for this person and for you in relationship to him or her. The full Moon of February 28 highlights the state of your finances. Time to get practical!
VIRGO (August 23-September 22)
You're expending a lot of energy on your matters of health, diet and fitness. At the workplace you're front and center and as a result there may be some arrows of resentment being thrown your way. On February 13 a new Moon inspires you to start a new health regimen. The full Moon of February 28 in your sign marks a time of completion or attainment. It seems you've finally "arrived."
LIBRA (September 23-October 22)
Saturn is making this a serious but growth producing time for many of you. Your sense of home and family is changing and you're full of creative ideas this month. The new Moon of February 13 allows you to consider new possibilities regarding your love life and the role of children in your world. On the 28th a full Moon brings something to light that had been hidden up until now.
SCORPIO (October 23-November 21)
You really shine at home this month so spend this time recharging your batteries and laying low for the time being. On February 13 a new Moon inspires you to redecorate or begin the search for a new dwelling. The full Moon of February 28 emphasizes your circle of friends and any organizations you might be involved with.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22-December 21)
You have the opportunity to expand your home life in some way this month as Jupiter bounces through your home sector. The new Moon of February 13 allows you to begin a new communications project and may spark some contact with a sibling. On February 28 a full Moon emphasizes a sense of completion or attainment regarding a career matter. CAPRICORN (December 22-January 19) You need to attend to some very practical matters right now-particularly with regard to your finances and assets. Those of you born on or around December 26 are undergoing some profound personal and professional changes. The new Moon on the 13th asks you to make a fresh start financially, while the full Moon of the 28th inspires you to travel.
AQUARIUS (January 20-February 18) You're in a period of time where your focus must be on yourself-who you are and what your life is about. Take care not to lose your temper regardless of how many arrows may be slung your way. The new Moon of February 13 in your sign allows you to make a fresh start in a new direction. On February 28 a full Moon emphasizes issues related to taxes, loans, and mortgages. PISCES (February 19-March 20) Jupiter gives you a sense of optimism and luck as the month begins even though you feel need to be operating behind the scenes for the time being. A new Moon on February 13 inspires you to begin a new introspective or spiritual practice, anything that gets you in touch with your innermost self. The full Moon of February 28 emphasizes an issue relating to your significant other or anyone that plays an important role in your life.
 Lawrence Nosan Grecco is a professional astrologer and life coach in New York City and a member of the board of directors of the National Council of Geocosmic Research, NYC chapter. He is available for personal or telephone readings and can be reached at 212-989-3456. Email nosan@zenrising.com Visit his web site at www.zenrising.com. |
Something to Say...  - by Savanaugh
Stores are full of red velvet, heart-shaped boxes of candy, cutsie stuffed toys and hopelessly romantic trinkets. Christmas crap barely away and out comes the red, pink and white isles bursting with cinnamon hearts (a little too close to Goldschlager for me and memories of hood-ornament impersonations on Glenda's car roof outside of the club), but I digress.
I'm sure you have figured out by now that I'm not a huge fan of the overly commercialized, forced sentimentality of many holidays. Shouldn't Valentine's be every day of the year? Love is far too complicated to be summed up in a Hallmark card. It is far too diverse from relationship to relationship to wrap it up in a neat little commercially palatable package.
On this Valentine's day, let me share with you a beautifully romantic poem I wrote for my hubbie a few years back:
The silhouette of a torso...
Oh Beautiful man.
A chiseled face freshly shaven...
Oh Beautiful man.
Muscular buttocks glisten with sweat...
Oh Beautiful man.
Chest hairs patterned for fingers to touch...
Oh Beautiful man.
Pouting lips parted to kiss...
Oh Beautiful man.
Stiffness, erect and ready to play...
Oh Beautiful man.
Laundry done...
Dishes clean...
Vacuuming finished...
Garbage out...
Lunches made...
Bathroom scrubbed...
Car washed...
Groceries away...
Errands run...
Bills have been paid...
Oh Beautiful man!!!!
Happy Valentine's Day to Everyone!
There you have it.......
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Leather Folk...  - by Mike Childerhose
THE LEATHER SCENE
Hello everyone,
Here we are at the end of January, where did it go? In my January article I talked about Leather/Fetish at Club 717 and requested input from the membership on your feelings towards this seemingly touchy subject to some!
There were no comments on the Club 717 Website other than one female member requesting information and help in forming a BDM Fetish Group here in Durham Region. I responded with no reply to date but am willing to sit down with anyone who may be interested in such a venue. Please spread the word and let's see what kind of a response we get. I can be reached at mike@club717.ca and I will certainly get back to you. Our next Men's Night will be Saturday, March 13th so come out gentlemen and enjoy the evening. We will be having door prizes, 50/50 draw and maybe some other surprises. Please remember that you don't have to dress in leather as there is not a strict dress code! We are also planning a Leather & Lace Fashion Show sometime in April for both male and female attendees. We are currently seeking Toronto and Oshawa sponsors for this event and more on this will come later. For those male members that are familiar with the Spearhead Leather/Denim Club in Toronto, their Fantasy Ball is coming up in February and you can check this out on their Website or by contacting me. It's a great evening and worth attending. Until next time play safe and be happy. Yours in Brotherhood, Mike Childerhose mike@club717.ca |
Reel World...  - by Kevan
It would appear that director James Cameron has repeated the same feat he accomplished with 'Titanic' - he has created a film that has brought huge numbers of people back to movie theatres in droves, driving huge amounts of cash into an industry that sorely needed it in the face of home DVD and Blu-ray sales, movie piracy and illegal downloading.
While I will admit I have yet to see this technological marvel, I can't help but wondering as Tinseltown starts to load up 'Avatar' with awards and allocades.....I have heard such amazing reports of the special effects, the imagery, the impact of the film in 3D; my question is....what about the acting?
Let's face it, the actors in a James Cameron film are not there to be the stars of a film, but are there to be window dressing for the special effects as they make us all go 'oooooh' in the dark. We didn't really care that much about Leo and Kate on that boat once it started to sink, and we pretty much forgot about Arnold's laughable acting once his skin got ripped off and we saw the robot underneath. It just seems sad that this movie appears destined to scoop all the major awards this year just because of a good combination of computer imagery and astronomical box office.
So what films would I suggest need to be taken more seriously? Personally, I go to the movies to see actors, not special effects (if that were what I was interested in, I would be a video game junkie, not a movie junkie). Here are just a few examples of movies this year where the performance of the actors is key:
- Precious: Based on the Novel "Push" by Saphire
- The Blind Side
- It's Complicated
- The Informant!
- Julie & Julia (now available on DVD)
- Up in the Air
- A Single Man
I am sure I will enjoy 'Avatar' when I do see it - I just hope I leave the theatre being able to remember one great line of dialogue or one great performance that was not generated by a computer.
Take care,
Kevan
Newsletter Columnist
Reel World
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As always, we welcome your feedback good or bad !! Your thoughts, ideas and contributions will continue to make our newsletter a vital resource for our readers. Don't be shy !!
Lastly, some members inquired why we no longer receive "Xtra" Magazine at the club. Steve O'Connor contacted Xtra and they sent the following reply. Click the image below for larger view.
Have a great month !!
Sincerely,
Ed
Club 717 / Durham Alliance Association Social Club |
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Whitby, Ontario
905-666-3010
Sacred Quest is a spiritual book and gift store. They also provide resources and products to assist individuals on their journey and personal & spiritual growth and well being.
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Feb. 2nd - Intuitive Healer Within
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Feb. 4th - Baby Massage Series
Feb. 6th - The Spiritual Path of Wicca
Feb. 7th - Reiki Level 1
Feb. 9th - Pendulum Power
Feb. 10th - Spirit Guides and Power Animals
Feb. 13th - Core Shamanism, A Guide to Practive
Feb. 14th - Soul Card Readings with Jen
Feb. 16th - Understanding Mediumship
Feb. 17th - Change Your Life with Self-Hypnosis
Feb. 19th - Stone Wrapping
Feb. 20th - Connecting to Tarot (2 parts)
Feb. 21st - Spirit Medium Linda Ouellet (repeated)
Feb. 23rd - The Power of Symbols
Feb. 24th - Bondy-Mind Connection
Feb. 28th - Awakening the Divine Feminine |
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