Greetings!
This past weekend I drove up to Nevada City with a good friend and colleague to see a device that made us look 10 years  younger in 10 minutes. (It really worked by the way - more on that in January)
It was so beautiful, we didn't mind being stuck in the snow! The Tow truck driver was VERY nice. We shared laughter and stories about when we were kids as he drove my Rav4 to a plowed, open road where we could drive safely home. Thank goodness for AAA!
As the "big" holidays draw near, be sure to notice the beauty in every situation and savor the end of the year.
This time, I've included a very fun article that I found discussing how Santa runs his business, I hope you enjoy it.
And I am offering a new class in January. Again, you asked for it and you're going to get it!
Be sure to scroll down to where talk about the class. I've included a link to a very funny video "How Not to Do a Presentation." They say everyone needs at least one good laugh a day. This will do it for you!!
Have a wonderful Holiday Season!Karenp.s. Hope to see you at the Networking Lounge on Thursday! click here if you haven't registered - there's still time!
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Santa's 7 Stress-busting Secrets
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by Jim Allen
It's the most wonderful time of the year... Or so they say.
While the end of year holidays are supposed to be a time of peace, love,
and joy, it often turns out to be a time of stress, depression and worry -- especially as people struggle to create some "holiday magic" for their friends and families.
Santa Claus, a leading authority on Christmas and the holidays, wants  you to know that the holidays don't HAVE to be frustrating and frantic. He has given me permission to share with you his seven favorite stress-busting secrets -- the very techniques he uses -- to help you relax and enjoy the true spirit of the season.
So, laying my finger aside of my nose, here goes...
1. MAKE A LIST AND CHECK IT TWICE
That's right, it's not just a line from a song... Santa actually sits down each and every day and makes a list of the things he needs to accomplish. The list helps him focus and keeps him from standing around his North Pole workshop trying to figure out what's next.
Put the 2 or 3 most important things at the top of the list -- the things that
you absolutely MUST accomplish in a given day -- and the less important ones at the bottom. Then do ONE THING at a time BEFORE you move on to the next one.
2. PUT THE ELVES TO WORK
Ever see Santa at the mall? If so, you probably saw he had a handful of helpers on hand to help him round up the kids, keep them in line (literally and figur- atively), and keep things going. Without those helpers, Santa could never do as much as he does in such a short time.
So put your elves and helpers to work. Don't be shy: tell 'em what you need help with, then stand back and let them go!
Not only is it a great way to get a lot of things done quickly, but it's a great way to share time with each other.
3. SAY NO
Sure, Santa specializes in making lots Christmas wishes come true, but not all of them. (If he didn't say "no," every 10-year old boy would find a motorbike beneath his Christmas tree, and every 10-year old girl would find a pony.)
Not even Santa can do EVERYTHING. And if Santa can't, you can't either.
So say "no" to those holiday parties that stress your schedule. Say "no" to baking another three dozen cookies. And, say "no" to Aunt Sallie's fruitcake.
4. STOP FOR MILK AND COOKIES
 Traveling around the world in one a single night, delivering toys to all
the girls and boys, is a lot of work. A LOT of work. But even then, Santa
finds a little time for himself.
It's truly wonderful to do things for other people (see below), but in order
to do that, you have to take care of yourself.
Santa eats milk and cookies, and writes an occasional note, and sometimes (yes, I couldn't believe it, either) peeks inside your medicine cabinet.
So find some "fun" time for yourself and put it to good use.
5. SETTLE FOR LESS
Santa learned a long time ago that it is just not possible to be "perfect" 100% of the time. As much as he tries, the occasional screw-ups happen... Like when he knocks over the flowers climbing in through the apartment window, or when he forgets to tighten bolt D and Johnnie's handlebars fall off as he takes his first bike ride down the hill.
So, Santa just does the best he can, and if it's not perfect, so be it.
Or, as Santa likes to say, "Imperfect IS perfect!"
6. DO SOMETHING NEW
Rather than doing the same things, year after year, Santa likes to mix things up and try new ideas and new approaches.
Not only does it keep things fun, but it helps him develop new traditions -- like that time he asked a young, awkward, red-nosed reindeer to guide his sleigh one foggy Christmas eve.
7. BE OF GOOD CHEER
Everyone knows that Santa is a "right jolly old elf", but do you know  why? It's because he CHOOSES to focus on the good things that take place in the holiday season.
So, slow down, breathe deeply, listen to the carols and the sleigh bells, watch the glistening snow fall, laugh with the children playing, and let the spirit of season lift you up.
With best wishes for much peace and joy these holidays and beyond...
Jim Allen, The Big Life Guy, is a professional life & business coach. For more big ideas, subscribe to his free newsletter at: http://www.CoachJim.com/subscribe.html |
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Have you dreamed of having a presentation that makes everyone in the room raise their hand and say "yes?" Have you wished creating and delivering presentation could just be easy? Your dream is about to come true! Due to popular demand, I have created a brand new class to help you plan, create and execute a powerful presentation that not only has your audience saying "wow" but makes them ask, "where do I sign up?" During this workshop you will learn to create an effective presentation that is: - easy to deliver
- highly interactive without being "cheesy" or uncomfortable
- fun (for you and your participants)
- makes you money
This class is perfect for you if: - You like the idea of dong presentations, but don't feel you're good enough - yet
- You're terrified you'll end up looking like this guy: link to funny video
- You know you "should" be doing presentations, you've just never gotten around to it
- You have no idea where to begin
When you're done, you will have the outline for your first presentation, you will learn some basic presentation skills and you will know exactly how to monetize your presentation. Here's what others have said about the material presented in this workshop: "Karen made it easy for me to introduce a new service easily and effortlessly. Her workshops are fun!" Joan Kasich, Natural Health Consultant"If you don't think you can speak in front of a group, this will help you overcome that thinking!" "It was a great experience to take what I thought I knew how to explain and create a professional and fluid presentation" Carolyn Hegarty, Real Estate Investor"I learned how to give a great presentation in a short time. I came out of the workshop feeling confident that I can give a very effective presentation." January is the perfect time time to get started!When: Wednesday, January 7, 2008 12:30 - 3:30pm Where: The Networking Lounge 1924 Contra Costa Blvd., Pleasant Hill, CA Cost: $47 if you register by December 23, $65 thereafter. There will be no registration at the door. 
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Grand Opening is this Thursday, December 18th from 5:30 - ???
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1934 Contra Costa Blvd., Pleasant Hill
We'll have fun, food and drink for all.
Click Here to Register!
So put on your Santa Hat and join us!
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