Networking News by Karen Frank
Volume 17
August 2008
Greetings!

This has been a crazy month, filled with speaking gigs travel and hockey! It's a wonder I still have my hair (much less my sanity).  Of course you'll hear all about that in this month's musing! So if you've been wondering - Hey Where's Karen been lately, read my musing and find out!

Before I get into the newsletter, I want to give two "shout out's" today.

Thank you to Sue Thurman and the Gilroy Chamber of Commerce for sponsoring a fun (and yummy) brown bag lunch.  Also a warm garlicky welcome to the 25 new subscribers who joined us.  I especially love how friendly your group is. I appreciate the small town feel of your community and I hope to be back some time in the future.

Second a huge Thank you to Charley Daly for arranging for me to present some brand new material at the August 1 Pleasant Hill Chamber Brown Bag lunch.  If you're joining us because of that event, Welcome!

If you weren't there, don't worry!  The Three Things Every Professional Must Know to Survive a Recession is in the works and due to be released later this month!  Stay tuned!

And now, on to the info!

Karen
In This Issue
I Want to Answer Your Most Burning Questions!!
Karen's Monthly Musing
Back by Popular Demand - What I Hate About Networking
Miss Karen's Calendar
Last Chance to Purchase Home Study Course
Networking Tip of the Month
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I Want to Answer Your Most Burning Questions!!

Every day it seems I get questions from people about networking, marketing newsletters, info-products and workshops. My ultimate goal is to provide you with as much information as I can about these topics, so I am continuing to create new and different materials, but, there's a problem!

I want to be sure to include your burning question in my information - but I need to know what it is.

Please take a few minutes and let me know what questions are on your mind regarding these topics.  You can access the survey by clicking here.  It shouldn't take you more than 5 minutes to complete.  When you're done, you can see what others have answered, by accessing the survey results button.

Everyone who participates in the survey will receive my newest ebook - 5 things every professional must know to survive a recession for free (It will be selling for $39 when I release it!)

Thank you in advance for your help!!
 
Karen's Monthly Musing

It's August. Do you know where your gray hair is coming from?

So, there I was in the mirror, trying to figure out when the face looking back could possibly have acquired those lines and I saw it. - A little silvery whisp of a thing.

Oh, this must belong to my husband I said as I tried to brush it out of my hair - only to discover - it was attached to my scalp.

<Cue Music - Dunt dunt duh - (dramatic reverb) Cue girlie scream>

Trouble is, I think know where it came from.

Between trying to reinvent the workshop portion of my business, comforting my newly unemployed husband, having to put down my 19 year old cat, the stress of hockey try-outs AND then being re-elected Team Manager, I think the silver hair fairy finally found me!!

The short version of all that goes like this:

Because I am now studying with a group who actually has a clue how to put butts in seat, suddenly I found myself needing to create a workshop for all those clamoring butts.  Workshops (and the ensuing butts) don't grow on trees (now there's a visual), so I've pretty much spent all my spare time in a cave called my office slamming out new product after new product after new workshop. In fact, there's a survey later in this issue where I am looking for a little help from you.

And right after my last newsletter went out, my husband announced that his title office was going from 26 employees to 6 (and the remaining 6 were bing transferred to Castro Valley and by the way he wasn't one of them. After 30 years in the industry, he had outlived his job. (talk about incentive to create immediate revenue - and probavbly another reason the grey hair fairy found me).

In the middle of this our 19 year old cat's health failed all at once and we knew her time had come, so she went to visit the happy cattery in the sky.  She was a great cat. I'll miss her, but it was the right decision.

Then there was hockey try outs where there were 9 goalies trying for 4 positions AND the coach is from the east coast, doesn't know any of the players and so past performance doesn't matter - it was all riding on one try out!!

The Good news out of all that - Stephen made his team. Out of 7 kids who could have made that team, they picked Stephen (and another goalie from San Francisco).  The coach said Stephen was picked because of his talent, but mostly because of his heart.  He had faced a shot from an NHL player that had to be going at least 95 miles per hour - and he caught it.  It bruised his hand terribly and he was in alot of pain, but he kept playing.  He made it through try outs thanks to Joan Kasich and her BEMER (more in the sidebar), but he made the team because of his heart.

I couldn't be more proud.

Remembering what matters with awe and gratitude, til next time,

Karen
Back by Popular Demand -
What I Hate About Networking

by Karen Frank

This is probably my most popular article and I have had dozens of requests to reprint it, so here it is.  And yes, you are welcome to use it for YOUR newsletter if you like, just see the note at the end of the article.

OK, I admit it.  I hate networking. 
 
OK OK,  I don't really hate networking, but there are some aspects of networking I really do hate.  Why do you care?  Because if you understand WHY I hate these things YOU will make more money. Let me explain:
 
I was thinking about this in my car the other day.  Networking is like hunting for birds in the bushes with a Gatling gun. You can't really see if any birds are actually in the bush but you shoot anyway.  Every once in a while a bird drops dead out of a bush and you think "Success! This really works!"  Except the gun fired 100 rounds and the bird was sick...
 
Networking's alot like that.  You spend 80 percent of your time networking and every once in a while you get a referral.  Success!!  This really works! Except you've spent dozens of hours to find a client that wants a $1000 job.  Sound familiar?
 
When most people decide to go into business, they are brilliant at "the thing" that they do. They may take business classes and hear things like - "you must spend time marketing your business" and that networking is important.  So they join a group with a vague idea of what they're supposed to be doing and what they'll get out of it. Meanwhile, they can't identify who they REALLY want as a client (their true target market), and they go in with the hope of thousands of dollars in referrals and quickly become very disappointed.
 
See, most people are networking in the dark.  Well, let me flip on the light switch!!
 
Networking groups are great and they're really important to your business IF and only if you understand how deep networking really is.
 
Take out a penny and study it.  Right now. Study the penny for two minutes.  Go ahead.  I'll be here when you get back.
 
So what did you notice?
 
The penny is more complex than that thing you left on the sidewalk because it wasn't worth picking up...
 
Networking is like that too.
 
The thing that drives me crazy about networking groups is that some of them offer pretty good education on how to work their system.  The problem is most people think that's it. "Oh I see, it's a penny. Well, that's all I need to know...so where are my referrals?  This system doesn't work!"
 
By their very nature, networking groups focus on referrals and results and when people don't see the results they want, the "system" doesn't work. It IS the system's fault (despite what the group will tell you) to
the extent that nobody told them how to work it as it applies to their business and it's overall vision.
 
If you're out there in a networking group or going to a chamber and you don't know exactly what you're looking for (and it isn't "as many referrals as you can get") STOP!!
 
If you don't know where you're going that's exactly where you'll end up. And if you're just out there giving referrals to get referrals and you have no idea who your dream client is, then all you're going to get is the kinds of referrals and clients you DON'T want.
 
Do yourself a huge favor and decide what kinds of customers you really want.  Which of your clients make your life easy?  What company specifically do you want to do business with?
 
The big lie about networking, infomercials and introductions is this: If you have a great infomercial that makes people want more information that is all you need to do.
 
That's a lie.  If you have a great infomercial and you don't know what kinds of clients make you money and which once don't, a great infomercial won't help you.
 
Don't be like so many of my students who discover that, although they get a ton of referrals, they are people who drive them crazy and don't generate enough revenue to begin to cover the time they take out of the day. 
 
Remember, you are the average of the five people and or groups you spend the most time with. You can apply this to your clients as well.  Take a look at the clients you have right now today. With whom are you spending the most time? Are they making you rich or are they making you poor?  Figure out who is generating the most revenue for you and ask for clients like THEM the next time you're out networking.
 
Otherwise, you just shooting at theoretical birds in a bush with a Gatling gun.
 
Want to use this article in your newsletter?  You can! Just be sure to include the entire article and include this complete blurb with it:  Networking Expert Karen Frank publishes Miss Karen's Networking News, the semi-monthly email newsletter.  If you're ready to jumpstart your networking, make more  money and spend less time doing it, get your FREE tips now at www.misskarensproductions.com
Miss Karen's Calendar

August 7, 2008  4:00pm   Teleclass      Your Marketing Makeover
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For more information about these events call 924-279-1004 or email me at karen@misskarensproductions.com
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This is it!!  There are only 3 copies left and then they are gone!  If you've ever wanted to attend a live event and were either too busy or too far away, this is your ticket!  I won't be selling the home study course in this format ever again, so this is your LAST CHANCE to get your copy.

About the course:

Is your networking not working? Is your marketing unremarkable?

Do you hate going to chamber events? Does it drive you crazy when you ask people what they do, they tell you and then walk away without asking about your business?

The good news is that networking is a skill. The bad news is that networking can be time consuming and -without proper training - you may never be able to get the kind of business you really want.

Miss Karen's Secrets to Success in 30 Seconds is your answer.
After learning this step by step method, you too will be able to deliver networking messages that have people sit up and take notice. You will look more professional, spend less time networking and make more money.

You'll learn:
  • Why it is critical to plan what you're going to say about your business every time you open your mouth.
  • How to create infomercials that literally write themselves.
  • 3 things you should never say in your infomercial.
  • How to Introduce yourself in a way that will interest people in what you do Networking tips for networking groups and chamber events
Contains 2 CD's and follow along guidebook

Through easy to understand, step-by-step exercises and specific tips and suggestions, you will be able to create and deliver a message to your listener that will help them understand what you do and be interested in finding more business for you. Plus, you'll easily systematize your infomercials or elevator speeches so that you will look polished, professional and prepared even on a moments notice.

What I do know is that if you don't do things differently, you're going to keep getting the same results. Will you let me help you become a raging success with word of mouth marketing?

Don't leave any more money or opportunities on the table. Order your copy right now! 

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The Healthy Networker
Energy Management

This doesn't seem to have anything
to do with networking, but it really does.

I've heard so many people say that they don't do things in the evening because they are just too tired.  And I sometimes feel that way myself. 

I was recently introduced to a device called the BEMER through two students of mine, Joan Kasich and Hedda Saeedi.   The demonstration was at the home of Farideh who is also a BEMER partner (what they call the people through whom you can have one).   I was amazed to see the results people were getting.

After seeing what the BEMER did for my son's hand injury (see Miss Karen's Musing) and experiencing it for myself, I'd like you to see it for yourself.

Here's some information from Joan and Hedda:

More and more individuals have used the BEMER and here's some results they have shared:
  • My body feels warmer now."
  • "I could hardly walk due to sciatica. In 4 days the symptoms were gone."
  • "I now have energy in the afternoon."
  •  "I am sleeping through the night now."
  •   "My eyes are not so tired."
  •   "A bruise I had for 3 weeks was gone in 48 hours by using the BEMER."
Experience the BEMER for yourself! It will leave you feeling pleasantly relaxed and energized. The PowerPoint presentation and video clips of what happens within the body during an 8-minute session will amaze you. The presentation lasts about half an hour, with a period for questions and answers and a BEMER session at the end.
 
Presentations are at 7:00 every Wednesday evening in August at 43 Quail Court, Conference Room  Walnut Creek, CA 94596 Call Joan to RSVP 925-680-9000
 
or you can also see a demonstration in Moraga every Thursday evening at 55 Carr Dr. Contact Farideh to RSVP 925-376-2025

or visit www.bemeramerica.com for more information
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