David Feder and Associates Newsletter
Newsletter Issue # 3 November 2010
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My newsletter is distributed twice a month and you will notice that the second edition each month will be a little shorter. The latter will focus on a quote, a thought, or an idea that speaks to a variety of topics including strengthening relationships, personal development, or to infidelity.
I hope you enjoy all of my newsletters.
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Commit Yourself to Noticing the Good in Other People
Most of us notice when someone does what we think is the "wrong" thing. This is true when someone does something we don't like. It is also true when someone does something we disapprove of. It is not hard to be critical and judgmental of others.
If this resonates with you I would like you to stop for a moment and think about how you being this way may be affecting the quality of your relationships with other people?
"What you send out is what you receive"
The Law of Attraction
You see, we expect things to go right. We expect things to go a certain way....the way we want. So when a person does the "right" thing we may take it for granted and say, "that's what they should have done".
The truth is that each day people do nice things for one another, but sadly often these go by unacknowledged. Every day people who are on the receiving end of kind deeds, miss the opportunity to acknowledge the person whether it be their partner, a child, or an extended family member. It seems that people find it easier to notice when things go wrong.
Life is a series of choices and each of us make choices on a minute by minute basis. We need to remember that when a person does something nice for us, they made the choice to do it, they didn't have to do it!
Everyone needs encouragement. Everyone needs praise. Everyone needs to know that they are appreciated regardless of how large or small their kind deed was. Thanking another person energizes that person and noticing the good in them helps that person be the best version of themselves they can be!
So begin right now by making an oath to yourself that you are not going to take for granted the good that other people do for you. Make a promise to yourself that from now on you are going to actively show your appreciation of others. Cody Bateman inspires us all to "act on our promptings by reaching out in kindness to others", not because of what people do for us but because they are part of our life.
It really doesn't take much. By sending a card you send the message that you are thinking of that person. By inviting someone to lunch you impart the message that they are worth spending time with and by saying something nice, you're letting them know that you like or appreciate something about them. It doesn't take much to make someone's day and by doing so you become a happier and better person.
No one who comes into your life is insignificant to your life!
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