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Welcome to this week's article, Happiness Stands Alone. You may have heard the phrase, "Misery loves company but happiness stands alone". You may think you are willing to stand alone in your happiness, but there could be some subtle patterns that actually prevent this. Read more about it below.
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You may have heard the phrase, "Misery loves company but happiness stands alone". Have you asked yourself if you're able to stand alone in your happiness? You may think you are, but there are subtle patterns that may actually prevent you from standing alone.
In my own personal journey, I've always had a deep desire to be connected - to God, the Divine, the earth, and people. Feeling connected has always been soothing and comforting to me, as I know it is for many others whom I help. Yet, we must be vigilant that this desire for a connection doesn't turn into a dependency. Once it does, it becomes a paradox in which we actually become lost and feel disconnected because we forget who we really are.
I've found that this happens most often in people who have a hard time staying happy while with their loved ones. This occurs when their loved ones aren't as happy as they are. At this point there is an unconscious tendency to no longer stay happy because they are afraid of losing the connection with their loved one. This fear generates dependency. Ask yourself, am I afraid of losing my connection with this person? What do I think or believe will happen if I do lose my connection with them? Be honest in your assessment.
You may believe losing a connection means you will lose this person or that the relationship will end. This isn't necessarily so. Losing the connection with the other person is simply a temporary differentiation of vibrational "spheres". Temporary can mean a day or it could be a much longer length of time. You can still be happy while they take their time to raise their vibration to meet yours. And by staying in your vibrational "sphere" of joy, you have broken the chains of dependency and are free. And when we have done that, we reconnect with our authentic selves - who we really are. For we really are Free and Joyful Divine Spiritual Beings in a human body.
It's important to understand that when we summon the courage within and stay in our joy, we actually create the opportunity for our loved one to raise their vibration to meet ours. They may appear to resent our joyful state of being, but really they are observing us - watching curiously and slowly becoming open to discovering joy within themselves.
To sum it up, when we are joyful, but become fearful of losing a connection to a loved one, our fear of loss may generate dependency. This dependency stops our flow of joy and makes us forget who we really are. We then actually lose feeling of all connection and become untrue to ourselves. So, instead let's face our fear of loss and be courageous enough to stand alone in our happiness while inviting our loved ones to meet us where we are. It's really a win-win for everyone!
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At Passage To Inner Joy, my mission is to align people with who they really are by way of my healing and counseling services. By helping clients overcome their fears and self-imposed limitations, I am able to assist them in experiencing the abundant love and joy that is ever-present.
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Thank you all for your continued support and I look forward to supporting you further in your personal journey of healing, growth, and self-discovery.
With love and joy,
Pamela Dussault
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