At a young age, we formulate ideas of what a relationship should look like, through our experiences with our parents' relationship, television or movies, and overall environment. We change these ideas as we grow older, often because we find we are not experiencing the relationship we had hoped for and so we tend to settle into the belief that our expectations are too high, or that our dreams and desires are merely fairy tales that don't exist. Our relationships become mediocre at best.
Then one day out of the blue, someone walks into our lives that shatters our reality by giving us the experience of love that we had hoped for long ago. Sometimes, it's enough to get us out of the mediocre (or in my case, abusive) relationship that you are in. Often, these intense connections of love shift and change us forever. That is their purpose - to open us up to a deeper love and bring back our dreams. But this person isn't always meant to fit into our dream even if their love or ours is something amazing that was never felt before. Yes, we will always have connections with this special person, and that makes it very hard to heal and move on when it's clear that it's not going to work out. This is where the block to letting love in comes into play.
To release the block, we need to understand that love was being given, regardless of the person not meeting our conditions for the relationship. What we felt WAS REAL, and it's the belief that it wasn't that hurts us and prevents letting in love again. What we need to do is release these beliefs along with understanding that we have placed conditions on our receiving love, i.e. "if he/she loved me they would or wouldn't _________" . These beliefs and conditions can be challenging to pinpoint, but with a little help, they can be brought to our attention and be cleared.
In conjunction with this, I offer a specialized healing to assist with letting in love, by trans-figuring the hurt, disappointment, grief, beliefs, perceptions, patterns and conditioning on the cellular level, thus clearing the path for the love to enter and nourish you. You may
