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Communication Tool #4: Watch Your Words
by Rev. William Batson
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29
We need to be wise in how we choose and use our words. It is not necessary, nor is it wise, to say everything we are thinking. The godly wisdom of Solomon is once again helpful here,
"Watch your words and hold your tongue; you'll save yourself a lot of grief" (Proverbs 21:23, MSG).
A practical way of doing this is to think before you speak. I find that I can save myself a lot of grief if I think about the following questions:
T - Is it true?
H - Is it helpful?
I - Is it inspiring?
N - Is it necessary?
K - Can I say it in a kind way?
As you watch your words and engage love as your motivation, you have a far better chance at success. "A person finds joy in giving an apt reply- and how good is a timely word!" Proverbs 15:23.
Article is based on the book, Tools for a Great Marriage by Rev. William Batson. Published by Family Builders Ministry, copyright 2008. | 
