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Church As a Marital Priority
by Dr. Gary Chapman
This week we have been talking about priorities and how they affect marriage. We have looked at God, family, and vocation. Today we look at involvement in the church.
God established the church as a spiritual family. When we come to God, He places us in the church. He has uniquely gifted each of us to play an important role. We are responsible for how we use our abilities. Some have the ability to teach, to sing, to show mercy, to care for children, to give. Working together we accomplish God's purposes through the church.
How does this affect marriage? First, I should be encouraging my spouse to be active in a place of service. I should be helping with the children to make this possible. Second, I should also find my place in the church family. And third, I must not neglect my marriage and family while serving in the church.
There are seasons to life. I need not to the same thing forever. When my children need more attention, then I may need to do less at church and more at home. The key is balance. We have time to do everything that God wants us to do.
Article written by Dr. Gary Chapman. Based on the book, Now You're Speaking My Language by Gary Chapman. Published by Broadman and Holman. For a complete listing of Dr. Chapman's books and resources, click here.
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