The Love Tank
 by Dr. Gary Chapman

I liked the metaphor the first time I heard it: "Inside every child is an 'emotional tank' waiting to be filled with love.  When a child really feels loved, he will develop normally, but when the love tank is empty, the child will misbehave.  Much of the misbehavior of children is motivated by the cravings of an empty 'love tank.'" I was listening to Dr. Ross Campbell, a psychiatrist who has treated hundreds of children and adolescents. 

As I listened, I thought of the hundreds of parents who had paraded the misdeeds of their children through my office.  I had never visualized an empty love tank inside those children, but I had certainly seen the results of it.  Their misbehavior was a misguided search for the love they did not feel.  They were seeking love in all the wrong places and in all the wrong ways. 

I also realized that many of their parents were suffering from an empty love tank and that much of the misbehavior of married individuals was growing out of an empty love tank.  This week we are visualizing this tank, inside all of us and talking about how to fill it.

Article written by Dr. Gary Chapman.  Based on the book, The Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman. Published by Moody Publishing.  For a complete listing of Dr. Chapman's books and resources, click here.  
 

For Your Husband:

Drop by your husband's workplace unexpectedly and whisk him away for lunch.

Initiate something special in the bedroom. 

For Your Wife:

Take some time out of your busy schedule to cook your wife a meal.  Serve the meal by candlelight using your wedding china.
 

Get into the habit of buying her silly souvenirs when you're out on a date.  Purchase (or make) a special box where she can store her keepsakes.