Positive Energy Tip
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 Conversation Among Masters
Last week I attended a conference at a beautiful resort outside of Santa Fe, New Mexico. In addition to great food, laughter and invigorating morning walks along the river at the base of the Sandia Mountains, we had stimulating discussions about the importance of "truly" listening to our clients, learning to be fully present and non-judgmental, making our own self-care a priority so that we can better serve our clients and not taking things personally (to name just a few). This conference, called
Conversation Among Masters, is an
invitation-only event designed for master
level coaches, and the "conversations" certainly did get me thinking about what I can do to make the coaching process even better for my clients.
As I thought about the unique name of this conference, I realized that we are all "masters" of our own happiness and the "conversation" we have in our head controls the decisions we make and ultimately our destiny. We have a "conversation among masters" going on all the time!
So what kind of a conversation are you having most days?
Is your self-talk:
Negative or Positive?
Powerless or Powerful?
Self-Defeating or Affirming?
Outdated or Forward Thinking?
Generalities or Specific?
Limiting or Growth Oriented?
Problem Focused or Solution Focused?
Scarcity or Abundance Thinking?
Your destiny is shaped by the thoughts that you have and consequently the actions you take. Your
"conversation" has the power to create or the power to destroy. Choose to only pay attention to those conversations that will create the life that you want!
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Energy Challenge
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What Conversation Are You Having?
Pay attention to your self-talk and steer the conversation in the direction that will bring you success and happiness.
If you find it challenging to stay focused on the positive, write the following on a note card or in your journal and read it daily.
Today I am "in charge!"
I choose my thoughts,
I choose my attitude,
I choose my actions,
And through them I choose my destiny!
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