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Everyone Matters
Presentation at the Bioneers Conference
and other events and workshops with Miki Kashtan

In This Newsletter
Everyone Matters
IN-PERSON EVENTS AND WORKSHOPS
Bioneers Conference
Collaborating For Change
Training of Trainers
Empathy in the Workplace
FROM YOUR HOME
Personal Growth and Social Change: A Live Call with Miki Kashtan
Feedback without Criticism
NVC Integration and Mentoring Program
Consciousness Transformation Community
ONGOING PROGRAMS
Making Collaboration Real
Exciting New Format for the Leadership Program
ANNOUNCEMENTS
Guest Teacher at Starr King School
MIKI ON TV AND VIDEO
Conflict Hotline
Insights into Empathy - A Video Interview

Personal Growth and Social Change (Pt. 5)


Miki Kashtan Jan 2009

For anyone who accepts the radical notion of creating a world based on the principle of meeting needs as the core organizing principle, this means putting energy into envisioning in detail how different systems would work. At one and the same time this act of visioning supports us in knowing what we work for as well as in transforming our consciousness. Specifically, this activity frees us from the paralyzing belief that what is happening is the only possible way that life could be, and opens us in very practical and daily terms to the desire and subsequently the capacity to act differently and become daily agents of change.

Read more at Miki's blog, The Fearless Heart


 In-Person Events and Workshops
Everyone Matters: Interdependence in Action
 A presentation at the Bioneers Conference


Saturday, October 16th, 2010


More and more people talk about interdependence, and yet for most of us it remains a concept rather than a lived reality. This workshop will engage participants in exploring the cultural conditioning that leaves us isolated and invisible, and introduce concrete tools for embodying interdependence as a practice of peace: transcending self-sufficiency, opening our hearts to others, risking our own significance, and connecting across differences.

Register for Everyone Matters: Interdependence in Action

More about Bioneers: The annual Bioneers Conference is a leading-edge forum where social and scientific innovators focus on breakthrough solutions inspired by nature and human ingenuity. These visionaries are already creating the healthy, diverse, equitable and beautiful world we want to live in-our legacy for future generations and the web of life on which our lives depend.
Collaborating For Change   
A workshop at Hub SoMa with Miki Kashtan


Thursday, December 9, 2010
12:00-1:30 pm


Working towards sustainability on a global scale requires balancing entrepreneurship with collaboration; personal power and power with others; working with like-minded people and interacting with people whose opinions are different from our own; being open to the world and attempting to influence people with decision-making power.

This workshop provides a framework and a practice for making grounded choices in challenging moments; bringing empathic presence to all aspects of our work; and learning how to speak and listen in ways that foster trust, mutual respect, and understanding even in the midst of intense disagreements.
 

To register contact Hub SoMa at (415) 624-5881 or sanfrancisco.hosts@the-hub.net

Hub SoMa is located at The S.F. Chronicle Building - one block south of the Powell Street BART station. 901 Mission Street, Suite 105, San Francisco, CA 94103
circle of people
Training of Trainers


We are inviting you to join an advanced residential retreat for people teaching NVC - certified trainers and others with extensive training experience (such as the BayNVC Leadership Program)

Sample Topics
  • teaching skills for interdependence
  • teaching about power and power relations
  • advanced empathy skills and teaching empathy skills
  • body-based NVC practices, especially for inner work and self-connection
  • feedback giving and receiving about materials, activities, presentations, etc. we anticipate that everyone will have opportunity to share at least once
  • increasing capacity for living in full authenticity and interdependence
Come join us for an adventure in learning, connecting, laughing, and deepening!

Empathy in the Workplace
 

Friday, October 1, 2010 · 12 - 2 pm
First Congregational Church of Oakland
Cost:  Donations Accepted

Would you like to increase effectiveness and connection in your organization?
 
In this workshop we plan on exploring some basic principles related to empathic communication in the workplace. We are particularly hopeful that groups and organizations that may not have a training budget will send some key individuals to this event.

Learn more about Empathy in the Workplace and register here

 From Your Home
Personal Growth and Social Change: A live call with Miki

Join Miki for an in-depth discussion on Personal Growth and Social Change

 Sunday, October 3rd, 2010
 9:30 am PT


Many of us who practice nonviolence carry a vision of a world that works for all, where everyone's needs matter and people and the planet are cared for. None of us know what will or could bring about our vision.

 Will it be a miracle of a single leader transforming the cultural assumptions and practices?
 Will it be a world collapse which will create a void and an opportunity to restructure society?
 Will it be a critical mass of people who inhabit different forms of human relationship?
 Will it be a nonviolent revolution?
 Will it be alternative structures that gradually attract more and more resources and people to them?
 Or will it be something else none of us can imagine?


We invite you to join us as Miki leads us through an exploration of the relationship between personal growth and social change.

Register for the Personal Growth and Social Change call with Miki
Feedback Without Criticism
   


Learn to Give the Gift of Your Truth

This 5-session telecourse with Miki Kashtan is designed to support you in learning what makes giving and receiving feedback challenging and how you can turn these experiences into opportunities for learning, connection, and effective functioning. Work with examples from your own circumstances to make the learning practical and immediately applicable.

You will learn how to:
  • Overcome dread about writing performance evaluations
  • Trust your capacity to meet challenges when offering feedback
  • Become excited about creating a learning culture in your organization
  • Receive feedback without defending yourself
Learn More about the Feedback Without Criticism Telecourse and register here

Series Begins: Tuesday, October 5th, 2010
NVC Integration and Mentoring Program
with Miki Kashtan  

Are you eager to integrate NVC into all areas of your life? Do you want to immerse yourself in serious study of NVC principles and practice? Do you thrive on having a structure of support to ground your learning and integration?

This online program is designed for people who don't have easy access to local trainer support, and who are eager to embark on a serious study of NVC. It can be taken at many different levels of experience, but is not designed for people who are just beginning their journey of NVC.

Here is what course participant, Ronnie Hausheer, is saying about the Integration Program:
"This course is blowing my socks off! Miki has structured the material in a way that supports my exploring important topics within NVC. Participating in class and doing the exercises between classes is making me conscious of when and how I apply NVC consciousness in my daily life."

More information about registration and topics this quarter here

Consciousness Transformation Community

Next Open Call: Thursday, October 21st, 2010
5-6:30 PM PT


ButterflyIn February, 2010, I announced the Consciousness Transformation Community (CTC), which was a wild dream at that time, and since then over 50 people have joined. CTC revolves around 17 core commitments, and is based on a dream I have had of working with and supporting people who are committed to consciousness transformation. I am overjoyed by the results so far, and am hopeful that over time more people will find out about this community. Anyone who is ready to commit to whatever it takes to live an interdependent, conscious, responsible, compassionate and caring life is invited to join.  My goal is to create a web of support for all of us who aim in this direction so that we are not alone in creating the monumental change we are longing for within and around us, and so that we have fun along the way. 

New members are invited to join CTC at any time. The next open CTC call is on Thursday, October 21, 2010, from 5:00pm - 6:30pm Pacific Time. 
Contact ctc@baynvc.org for information about CTC and to register for an open call. You can also listen to the recording of some calls by clicking here.
 

 
How CTC Works

CTC is NOT a training program, and is not interchangeable with any other training offered by BayNVC (such as Foundation series or the Leadership Program) or any other NVC trainer. My intention is for involvement with CTC to be a separate commitment taken on in addition to any other learning of NVC. CTC is intended for those whose commitment to living fully the NVC consciousness in all they do is high, and for whom consciousness transformation is a top priority in their life, including a commitment to pass it on to others in some capacity.  More info here on how CTC works

 Ongoing Programs
Making Collaboration Real: Empowering the Workplace with Nonviolent Communication   

A 5-day retreat and an optional Year-Long Program

Dates: * May 9-13, 2011* September 20-24, 2011* January 9-13, 2012

Join us for this international program were we intend to immerse participants in ongoing study and mutual support to become change agents within their organizations.  This approach can be particularly powerful for teams of people working together inside organizations whether they are all in one location or spread around the world.
 
You can expect to acquire tools for:
 
* Fostering a workplace environment of trust, shared vision, and strength to face obstacles
* Transforming conflict by co-creating strategies based on the needs of all parties
* Bringing authenticity and presence to your work without appearing "touchy-feely"
* Taking full responsibility for your impact on others
* Mobilizing internal resources to achieve goals
* Supporting groups in making quick collaborative decisions
* Changing the dynamics of employee reviews to inspire professional development
* Turning your customers, especially unhappy ones, into fans
 
For Registration and more information about the program and trainers
Exciting New Format for the Leadership Program   

Roxy and FrancoisI am so excited about the new face of the program that I would almost want to participate! We have asked Kit Miller, Arnina Kashtan, and Jorge Rubio, longstanding members of the global NVC training community, to join Roxy Manning and Francois Beausoleil for one each of the three retreats. I can't wait to see what new insights, experiences, and learning they will bring to the rich tradition we have created over the many years the program has been offered.
 
Francois
If you have done the program already, I invite you to consider coming back. You will get the same comprehensive coverage of materials with entirely new angles given the different styles, experiences, and gifts that each of the guest trainers brings with them.
 

Join us for the BayNVC Leadership Program. Click here to for more details and to apply.

  Announcements
Guest Lecturer at Starr King School
 

We are pleased to announce that Miki has been asked to be a guest lecturer at Starr King School for the Ministry in Berkeley. In her capacity as guest lecturer, she will be guiding aspiring religious and cultural leaders of different faiths to practice empathy while exploring the horizon of global difficulties we now face.

The intent of her participation is to give students core processes for dealing with their own encounter with the depths of difficulty while also assisting others to navigate troublesome situations generated by a complex world.

Starr King school educates Unitarian Universalist ministers and progressive religious leaders for society using an educational approach rooted in Unitarian Universalist values.

More information about the Starr King School for the Ministry
  Miki on TV and Video
Conflict HotlineA Live, Monthly Call-In TV Show
ConflictHotlineAug09

   Berkeley Community Media - Channel 28
   Online worldwide streaming BETV.ORG 

            1st Thursday of every month

                  7:30pm Pacific time


On the show, Miki Kashtan, co-founder of Bay Area Nonviolent Communication, works with a cast to demonstrate how we can transform difficult situations and support the creation of a world that works for all. Miki and the cast work with real life situations, either from callers or from their collective experience as Nonviolent Communication (NVC) practitioners and trainers.


We are currently seeking volunteers who are willing to help promote and publicize this show and Miki's new blog.  Contact the BayNVC office if you are interested.  510-433-0700 or nvc@baynvc.org

 CONFLICT HOTLINE

Thursday, October 7th

7:30 pm


A DVD of Conflict Hotline Highlights is also available from BayNVC.

Excerpts from the
Conflict Hotline
Workplace Communication (part 1 of 6)

Miki with conflict hotline guests
Watch on YouTube!

You can also search YouTube for Miki Kashtan for many other videos.