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Happy Valentine's Day from Family Crisis Center

Dear Friends of Family Crisis Center, 

 

Valentine's Day is one of the most romantic times of the year.  It is also a perfect opportunity to examine your actions in your relationships to make sure that you are treating your loved one's in ways that reflect trust, honesty, shared responsibilities, and respect (Take the Relationship Checkup below).  Remember that buying gifts is not the only way to express love; sometimes kind words and loving actions can go a long way.  February is also a great time to talk to the teens in your life about the importance of healthy relationships, and the dangers of teen dating abuse.  February has been proclaimed Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month, and what better time to talk about relationships than the most romantic month of the year.  If you are struggling with how to talk to your teens about this issue, consider attending the first ever Town Hall Meeting on Teen Dating (event information below) sponsored by FCC and Sexual Assault Services of NWNM.  We at Family Crisis Center wish everyone a happy, healthy Valentine's Day. 

Sincerely, 
  

Family Crisis Center

 

PS.  Check out the Teen Dating page on our website by clicking here, for  complete list of issues and resources available.

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Mayor Tommy Roberts proclaimed February as Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month in Farmington

 

WHEREAS, females between the ages 16-24 are more vulnerable to intimate partner violence, experiencing abuse at a rate almost triple the national average; and

 

WHEREAS, one in ten San Juan County teens (male and female) reported being physically hurt by a dating partner in 2009; and

 

WHEREAS, high school students who experience physical violence in a dating relationship are more likely to use drugs and alcohol, are at greater risk of suicide and are much more likely to carry patterns of abuse into future relationships; and

 

WHEREAS, young people victimized by a dating partner are more likely to engage in risky sexual behavior and unhealthy dieting behaviors and the experience may disrupt normal development of self-esteem and body image; and

 

WHEREAS, nearly half of teens who experience dating violence report that incidents of abuse took place in a school building or on school grounds; and

 

WHEREAS, only 33% of teens who are in an abusive relationship ever tell anyone about the abuse, and 81% of parents surveyed either believe teen dating violence is not an issue or admit they do not know if it is one; and

 

WHEREAS, by providing young people with education about healthy relationships and relationship skills and by changing attitudes that support violence, we recognize that dating violence can be prevented; and

 

WHEREAS, the establishment of Dating Violence Prevention and Awareness Month will benefit young people, their families, schools and communities regardless of socioeconomic status, gender, sexual orientation or ethnicity; and

 

WHEREAS, everyone has the right to a safe and healthy relationship and to be free from abuse.

 

NOW, THEREFORE, Tommy Roberts, Mayor of Farmington, NM does hereby proclaim February 2011, Dating Violence Prevention and Awareness Month, throughout Farmington, NM.  I urge all community members to work toward ending teen dating violence by empowering young people to develop healthier relationships, assisting victims in accessing the information and supportive services they need, creating better and more resources for young people in need, instituting effective intervention and prevention policies in schools and engaging in discussions with family members and peers to promote awareness and prevention of the quiet epidemic of teen dating violence.

 

 
 Valentine Poster

Tri-City Tribune Article on Teen Dating

by Donna Cadena 

Click here for more information on Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention in our community. 

Take the Relationship Checkup Quiz

 

Do you or your partner...

__Use put downs to embarrass?

__Call names?

__Control things like what and where someone can go?

__Withhold money?

__Act like the abuse is no big deal, deny doing it?

__Destroy property?

__Use threats or intimidation?

__Use threats of suicide or violence?

__Use physical violence?

  

If you answered yes to any of the above questions, you can get help at Family Crisis Center's 24 hour hotline 505-564-9192 OR by calling the counseling center at 505-325-3549 for a complete list of counseling services for the entire family.

 

Remember, everyone deserves relationships that are happy, healthy, and above all free of fear and abuse.