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June 27, 2010          Vol. 2 No. 4
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Greetings!

In this issue is another article in our new  series, Kol shel Mussarnik (The voice of a mussar student). This week we hear again from Sonia Voynow who is part of the Mussar Pathways program in Philadelphia. This is an article that was published this week in Philadelphia's Jewish Exponent. In the future, we will have articles by Ilene Wasserman and Elliot Ratzman. We urge our readers to send us articles on how mussar has impacted their lives.

We also would like to hear any questions our readers might have on mussar for our Ask The Madrichim articles. Please send your questions to us at madrichim @mussarleadership.org.
Mussar Pathways 
The Fall 2010 Mussar Program at Temple Beth Zion-Beth Israel

Mussar Pathways classes will be held at Temple Beth Zion-Beth Israel in Philadelphia on Tuesdays from 7:00 to 9:00 PM beginning on September 28, 2010. These weekly sessions will have two components:
  • For the first hour, everyone will participate in the Rabbi's Shiur

  • During the second hour, everyone will join in one of three small groups (va'adot)--Chadashim, Vatikim, or Mazkeh Ha-Rabbim.
Read more about Mussar Pathways classes.
IN THIS ISSUE
Mussar Pathways
Kol shel Mussarnik
Steps to Practice
Ask The Madrichim
Middah of the Week - Savlanut (Patience)
Pasukim
Parasha - Balak
D'var Torah - The Middle Path
Meet the Madrichim
Rabbi Stone's Book
Kol shel Mussarnik
How a code of ethics helped this mother deal with her son's chronic affliction
Sonia and Noah Voynow
Sonia & Noah Voynow

As a psychotherapist, I can recognize the signs of post-traumatic stress. Pa- tients often re-experience terror years after a hor- rific experience; they increasingly avoid anything that might serve as a reminder of the original trauma, and as a result, become more isolated.
So, I was surprised when, around 10 years ago, I began to experience similar emotions. Read the entire article here.

Steps to Practice
Steps at Safed
Safed Steps
Step 3 - Set a Specific Time and Place for Chesbon/Journaling

Be orderly in your mussar practice. Set a specific time and place for chesbon/journaling. Late at night or early in the morning, when most everyone else is asleep, is the time of least distraction. Whatever time you set, keep it consistently. Use the time to review your previous day in terms of your middah. Focus on how your practice of your middah affects others in your life.
 
Ask The Madrichim
Responsum
There were no questions this week

The Madrichim invite you to send us your questions about mussar and your mussar practice.  Write to us at  madrichim@mussar leadership.org. We hope that your questions will help us to create a dialogue about all facets of the program.
Middah of the Week
Sefer
Nekiyut (cleanliness) נְקְיוּת

Let not stain or ugliness be found in your possessions
or in your home, and surely not on your body or clothes.
 
(From Cheshbon ha-Nefesh--Accounting of the Soul--by Rabbi Menachem Mendel of Satanov. Available from Feldheim Publishers.)

You can download and read Rabbi Stone's shiur on Nekiyut (cleanliness) here.
Pasukim
sefer
Nekiyut (cleanliness) נְקְיוּת

A pasuk (plural, psukim) is a scriptural verse. It is a good practice to find a pasuk that reminds you of your middah and repeat it (or sing it, if possible) to help in cultivating that character trait.
 
The root of נְקְיוּת (nekiyut) is נָקָה which means "to be empty, be clear, be pure, be free, be innocent, be desolate, be cut off." The word נְקְיוּת is not often found in scripture. Another word for cleanliness, טָהֵר (tahayr), is found more frequently. The word טָהֵר means "clean (ceremonially-of animals), pure (physically), and pure, clean (morally, ethically)."

"The words of the LORD are pure [טְהֹרוֹת]." Psalms 12:6.

 .אִמְרוֹת יְהוָה, אֲמָרוֹת טְהֹרוֹת
"The fear of the Lord is clean (טָהֵר), enduring forever" Psalms 19:10.

.יִרְאַת יְהוָה, טְהוֹרָה--עוֹמֶדֶת לָעַד
"Create in me a clean (טָהֵר) heart, O God" Psalms 51:12.

.לֵב טָהוֹר, בְּרָא-לִי אֱלֹהִים
"Purify (טָהֵר) our hearts to serve You in truth" Musaf Amidah for Shabbat. V'tahayr libaynu l'ovd'cho be-emet.


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Parasha
Sefer TorahPinchas
Torah: Numbers 25:10-30:1
Haftarah: 1 Kings 18:46-19:21

God rewards Pinchas for his zealous action by granting Pinchas His pact of friendship (or covenant of peace) and His "pact of priesthood for all time." God then tells Moses to attack and defeat the Midianites for their role in enticing the Israelites into sin.

After the plague that killed some 24,000 Israelites, God tells Moses and Eleazar to take a census of the Israelite men who are 20 and older, according to their ancestral houses. This census was to be used to apportion the land. The Levites are counted separately because they would not receive a share of the land.

Five sisters, the daughters of a man named Zelophehad, approach Moses and the other leaders. They explain that their father died without sons and they want to claim his share of the land. Moses asks God what to do, and God tells him that the women have made a just claim. Whenever a man dies without a son, his property shall be inherited by his daughters. If there is no daughter, the property will go to other male relatives.

God tells Moses to ascend Mount Avarim so he can see the land from there before he dies. Moses asks God to select a worthy successor and God tells Moses to appoint Joshua to lead the people after Moses' death.

God instructs Moses about the daily sacrifices and the additional (musaf) offerings for Shabbat, rosh chodesh, and festivals.
D'var Torah
The righteous shall flourish like a palm tree.
Palm
The Middle Path

On the tenth day of the same seventh month you shall observe a sacred occasion when you shall practice self-denial. You shall do no work.
(Numbers 29:7)

Our rabbis taught: You shall practice self-denial. You might assume that you must sit in heat or cold in order to afflict yourself, therefore the text reads: "You shall do no work;" just as [the prohibition of] labor [means] sit and do nothing, so does affliction [signify] sit and do nothing. (That is, deny yourself certain things, but do not seek out activities that cause affliction.). (Talmud Yoma 74b)

Dr. Kaplan reminds us that the prohibitions should not be construed as mortification of the flesh. "Thus, while abstinence from food and drink and the other forms of bodily gratification on the Day of Atonement is commanded, self-torture for the purpose of mortifying the flesh is discountenanced. When we refrain from indulging our physical appetites for a limited period, in order to devote ourselves for a time more exclusively to demands that rank higher in our hierarchy of values, we are not denying the physical appetites their just place in life; we are simply recognizing the need of putting them in their place." (Rabbi Isaac Klein, A Guide to Jewish Religious Practice, p. 211)

Our Torah, about which King David stated, "The Torah of the Lord is perfect... Making wise the simple," advocates no mortification. Its intention was that man should follow nature, taking the middle road. He should eat his fill in moderation, drink in moderation. He should dwell amid society in uprightness and faith and not in the deserts and mountains. He should not afflict his body. On the contrary, the Torah explicitly warned us regarding the taking on the stringent regemin of the Nazirite. (Rambam, Eight Chapters (Rabbi Moses ben Maimon) 1135-1209, Spain and Egypt)

Rabbi Isaac said: Are not the things prohibited in the Torah enough for you that you want to prohibit yourself other things? A vow of abstinence is like an iron collar, such as is worn by prisoners, around a man's neck. Someone who imposes on himself such a vow is like a man who meets a detachment of soldiers with such a collar and puts his own head into it. Or he is like a man who drives a sword through his body. (Talmud Yerushalmi Nedarim 9:1)


The Torah does not define "practice self-denial" (literally: afflict your souls/yourselves). The rabbis rule that it means fasting rather than any more extreme mortification of the flesh. Unlike some other religious traditions, Judaism by and large does not promote asceticism (although some of this can be found in the sources). Why do you think this is the case? What does it say about the nature of the world? About our physical appetites? Why do we fast on Yom Kippur?

Adapted from Torah Sparks, Parashat Pinchas, July 3, 2010 - 21 Tammuz 5770.

Meet the Madrichim

Rabbi Ira F. Stone Rosh Yeshiva
Rabbi Stone
Beu Trey
Beu Trey

Mindy Shapiro
Mindy Shapiro

Miki Young
Miki Young

The Madrichim invite you to send us your questions about Mussar and your Mussar practice. Write to us at madrichim@mussarleadership.org. We hope that your questions will help us to create a dialogue about all facets of the program. Click on their pictures to learn more about a particular madrich.
Rabbi Stone's Book on Mussar Practice
A Responsible Life
A Responsible Life
"Love your neighbor" is the central obligation of Jewish life. Mussar, a late 19th century Jewish renewal movement, focused on this precept as a means of self-improvement and spiritual growth. Through the practical applications of Mussar, one can learn how to awaken to a spirituality that is compassionate, moral, and generous. In this book, Rabbi Ira Stone provides a contemporary theological framework for understanding Mussar and describes how participation in a Mussar group can offer support and guidance for this powerful spiritual practice.

A Responsible Life is available through Amazon
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Mussar Leadership is a community of learners dedicated to transforming themselves, their relationships, and their institutions by fully integrating the values of Mussar into daily practice and daily life.

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