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Mussar Leadership

Weekly Middah
September 13, 2009
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Greetings!
 
Mussar Leadership classes resumed meeting at Beth Zion-Beth Israel in Philadelphia on Tuesday, September 8, and will meet again on Tuesday, September 15.

In this edition of Mussar Leadership, we continue to focus on the middot that the Mussar Pathways students are observing, Seder/Order. Rosh Hashanah is on shabbat this week.

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In This Issue
Steps to Practice
Middah
Torah Portion
Rosh Hashanah
Steps to Practice
Safed Steps

As we begin the fall semester of Mussar Pathways, it is fitting that we revisit the steps of our practice.

Step 1

Commit yourself to the study of Mussar for at least thirteen weeks - one for each of the thirteen middot outlined in Rabbi Mendel of Satanov's Cheshbon ha-Nefesh. Once you have finished the first thirteen week cycle, start again with the first middah.

Middah
sefer

During the fall semester of Mussar Pathways, we will spend two weeks focusing on each middah.

Orderliness | Seder | סֵדֶר

All of your actions and possessions should be orderly - each and every one in a set place and at a set time. Let your thoughts always be free to deal with that which lies ahead of you.

(Rabbi Menachem Mendel of Satanov, Chesbon HaNefesh).
Torah Portion
Torah scroll
Rosh Hashanah
Torah - Genesis 21:1-34; Numbers 29:1-6.
Haftarah - I Samuel 1:1-2:10; Jeremiah 31:1-19

There is lesson about repentance that can be derived from a verse found in the Torah portion for the first day of Rosh Hashanah. When Ishmael, son of Hagar, was sent away by Abraham at Sarah's urging, Ishmael became ill and was in desperate need of water. The verse states that the angel told Hagar (Genesis 21:17): אַל-תִּירְאִי, כִּי-שָׁמַע אֱלֹהִים אֶל-קוֹל הַנַּעַר בַּאֲשֶׁר הוּא-שָׁם, "Fear not, for God has heard the voice of the lad where he is."
 
Rashi gives us insight into this verse, and into what was taking place in the Heavenly Court. The ministering angels were impugning Ishmael, saying, "Master of the World, this child, whose descendants are destined to put Your children to death by thirst, would You now cause a well to rise up for him?" He answered them, "What is he now - righteous or wicked?" They said, "Righteous [at least in regard to the above claim]." "If so," replied God, "I will judge him in accordance with his deeds at present." This is the meaning of the words הַנַּעַר בַּאֲשֶׁר הוּא-שָׁם, "where he is" - in the state he is now, that is how I will judge him. The Talmud in Rosh Hashanah (16b) learns from here that people are judged only in accordance with their present actions.

Since we were created in the image of God (צֶלֶם אֱלֹהִים, tzelem elohim), we too should not judge people for what we fear they might do in the future. As we read in Pirkei Avot (1:6), "Judge everyone on the positive side of the scale."

Rabbi Yisrael Salanter said that when he first started learning Mussar, he became angry at the world, but remained at peace within. As he studied further, he also became angry with himself. Finally, only the anger for him remained while his anger for others melted away and he began judging others favorably.


Adapted in part from Rabbi Yosaif Asher Weiss, ed. A Daily Dose of Torah, Volume 14: The Festivals and Days of Awe. Brooklyn, NY: Mesorah Publications, Ltd., 2007, p. 113.  
Rosh Hashanah
Sefer
The Talmud states in Rosh Hashanah (16a) that on Rosh Hashanah all humans are judged individually like sheep passing single file before their owner. This means that everyone is judged on his own merits, and no friend or family member can help protect him from his judgment and its verdict.

What seems almost contradictory to this is that the same Gemara (18a) says: "And they (all humans) are remembered by Hashem in one swift remembrance," which would seem to imply that all people are judged together. How do we reconcile this seeming contradiction?

Sifsei Chaim explains that there are really two aspects to the judgment of Rosh Hashanah. First, one is judged by his very own deeds - all one's mitzvot and sins get evaluated and examined individually, just as a farmer scrutinizes his sheep. However, every person is also judged in another way, which can affect the original outcome. Every person is part of a tzibbur, a community, a group of people, a congregation, a town, a city, etc. His actions have a direct result on his surroundings, for better or for worse. If a person's own action are insufficient to tip the scale of merits, he can compensate for this by having a positive effect on other people, which will change the outcome of his original judgment.

Every person must realize how his own actions can affect the double role he plays. A person is created individually to show him that it is up to him to achieve great accomplishments in his life as an individual. However, a person must also remember at the same time that he is a member of Klal Yisrael, and has responsibilities toward them. This will help him think about his actions in another light.

Rabbi Yisrael Salanter used to encourage his students to become people that רַבִּים צְרִיכִין לָהֶם, many are dependent on them, as a way of meriting favorable judgment. By one increasing his positive influence on others, even by just gaining friends and acquaintances, he will broaden his value in the second aspect of judgment, and will merit a favorable outcome.


Rabbi Yosaif Asher Weiss, ed. A Daily Dose of Torah, Volume 14: The Festivals and Days of Awe. Brooklyn, NY: Mesorah Publications, Ltd., 2007, p. 118.



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