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Weekly Middah
August 16, 2009

Greetings!
 
This is one in a series of weekly middah emails that the Mussar Leadership madrichim will be sending over the summer. We hope that these messages will support you in your practice until we beginning meeting again in the fall.

With this edition we call attention to the beginning of the of the month of Elul, a month of preparing for the new year.
 
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In This Issue
Steps to Practice
Middah
Pasukim
Torah Portion
Rosh Hodesh Elul
Steps to Practice
Safed Steps

Step 10 (continued)


Add one mitzvah to your daily practice. Last year, the Mussar Pathways program focused on enhancing observance of three mitzvot - saying the morning and evening Sh'ma, saying the blessings before eating, remembering the Sabbath day and keeping it holy.

2. Much of our practice of mussar is focuses on becoming aware of our need to be grateful. Reciting the blessings over food is an opportunity for us to practice the middah of Gratitude (Hoda'ah). On the other hand, in last week's parsha, Moses taught that eating without blessing is stealing from God. (See Brachot 33a-35a).

Chabad's Brachot Wizard is a handy guide to which blessings go with which food.

Middah
sefer

Calmness | Nichutahנִיחוּתָא

The words of the wise are stated gently. In being good, do not be called evil.

(Rabbi Menachem Mendel of Satanov, Chesbon HaNefesh).

Pasukim

It is a good practice to find a pasuk (a scriptural verse) that reminds you of your middah and repeat it (or sing it, if possible) to help in cultivating that character trait. The Hebrew word for this week's middah, nichutah (נִיחוּתָא), though found in the Talmud, does not appear in scripture. Here are some other words from scripture that mean Calmness. 

דממה - whisper, calm
He calmed the storm, and the waves grew silent. (Psalms 107:29)   יָקֵם סְעָרָה, לִדְמָמָה;   וַיֶּחֱשׁוּ, גַּלֵּיהֶם         

שׁקט
 
- to be quiet, be tranquil, be at peace
I will calm down and no longer be angry. (Ezekiel 16:42)

שָׁקַטְתִּי, וְלֹא אֶכְעַס עוֹד
קר - cool, calm, self-possessed
The one who stays calm is discerning. (Proverbs 17:27)
וקר- (יְקַר-) רוּחַ, אִישׁ תְּבוּנָה

Torah Portion
Torah scroll
Shoftim

(Deuteronomy 16:18-21:9)

The first verse of Parashat Shoftim sets a tone of much of what follows in the parashah:

Shoftim v'shotrim teiten l'kha b'khol sh`arekha Asheir Adonai Elohekha notein l'kha-lish'vatekha V'shaftu et ha-`am mishpat tzedeq. (16:18)

"Judges and officers shall you appoint in all your cities-Which HaShem your God, gives you-for your tribes; And they shall judge the people with righteous judgment." (Artscroll, Stone Ed.)

Reading this verse out loud, one is struck by the gentleness and softness of the verse. The "sh" sounds of the verse permeate throughout giving the verse a feeling of calm, quiet, and security-the sound that would encourage a disturbed child to sleep in peace. There are seven sounds ("sh") that are utterances of quiet peace. Without even translating or understanding the words, the reader is lulled by the sweet surrender, as this parashah begins. Also, the number seven has many other positive associations in the Tanakh: rest on the seventh day, rest on the seventh year, freeing of Jewish slaves after the 49th (7x7) year. Although people can tremble when they think of judges and officers, Moshe seemingly made an effort to encourage the people to feel secure, calm, and supported in this new modus operandi, the appointment of judges. So, the reader now and the listener then are brought into Moshe's speech with a positive and hopeful attitude.


Excerpted from Parashat Shoftim by Eleanor Pearlman
http://www.ajrsem.org/index.php?id=183

Rosh Hodesh Elul
Shofar
 
Rosh Hodesh Elul begins at sundown on Thursday August 20. Elul is to be spent preparing for the upcoming High Holidays. Because God judges and "sentences" the entire world on Rosh HaShana and Yom Kippur, it is only fitting that we try to correct our flaws and repent before that time. That way, when we come before God for judgement on these holidays, we will find favor in His eyes (assuming our repentance was sincere) and be judged for a good year.

The Talmud (Yoma 86b) writes "Rav Meir used to say Great is repentance, that because of an individual who repents, the entire world is forgiven, as the verse says (Hoshea 14:5) 'I will rectify their waywardness, I will love them gratuitously, for My anger has turned away from them.'"


 Adapted from "The Month of Elul - The Power of Repentance"
by Rabbi Yehudah Prero (http://www.torah.org/learning/yomtov/roshhashanah/vol3no13.html)




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The Madrichim
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