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Weekly Middah
July 5, 2009

Greetings!
 
This is one in a series of weekly middah emails that the Mussar Leadership madrichim will be sending over the summer. We hope that these messages will support you in your practice until we beginning meeting again in the fall.

With this edition we have two new sections - one suggests passukim you can use to support your middah work, the other calls attention to the beginning of the Three Weeks.
 
We appreciate hearing your comments. 
In This Issue
Steps to Practice
Middah
Pasukim *NEW*
Torah Portion
Bein ha-Metzarim *NEW*
Steps to Practice
Safed Steps

Step 5


Find a phrase (a pasuk) that reminds you of your middah and repeat it (or sing it, if possible) to help in cultivating that character trait. For example, for the middah of Truth one might sing, V'tahayr libaynu l'ovd'cho be-emet, ("Purify our hearts to serve You in truth").  See our new  Pasukim section below.
Middah
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Cleanliness | Nekiyutנְקְיוּת

Let not stain or ugliness be found in your possessions
or in your home, and surely not on your body or clothes.


(Rabbi Menachem Mendel of Satanov, Chesbon HaNefesh).


Pasukim

A pasuk (plural, pasukim) is a scriptual verse. It is a good practice to find a pasuk that reminds you of your middah and repeat it (or sing it, if possible) to help in cultivating that character trait. Here are some possible pasukim for this week's middah - Nekiyut (Cleanliness).
 
Psalms 19:10
The fear of the Lord is clean, enduring for ever.
 .יִרְאַת יְהוָה, טְהוֹרָה--עוֹמֶדֶת לָעַד
Psalms 51:12
Create in me a clean heart, O God.
.לֵב טָהוֹר, בְּרָא-לִי אֱלֹהִים
Torah Portion
Torah scroll
Pinchas

(Numbers 25:10 - 30:1)

  From the First Aliyah
The Lord spoke to Moses: "Pinchas son of Eleazar, the son of Aaron the priest, has turned my anger away from the Israe.lites, when he manifested such zeal  for my sake among them, so that I did not consume the Israelites in my zeal. Therefore, announce: 'I am going to give to him my covenant of peace. So it will be to him and his descendants after him a covenant of a permanent priesthood, because he has been zealous for his God,  and has made atonement for the Israelites.'" (Numbers 25:10 - 13)



Why wasn't Pinchas anointed with Aaron and his descendents long before his extraordinary zeal (Harizut) in avenging God's name? Why was it necessary for Pinchas to be rewarded with a "covenant of eternal peace" [the priesthood] rather than having it as his right?

The mystical sources teach that the soul of Pinchas came from the same soul-source as Cain. Cain killed his brother Able. The Zohar says that any kohen who murders is disqualified from the priesthood forever, and thus Pinchas, through Cain, "forfeited" his right for his offspring. Cain lost the priesthood for Pinchas, and only Pinchas extraordinary zeal earned the priesthood for himself and his descendents.

How did Pinchas actions heal the damage that Cain's killing created? The name Cain comes from the same root as kinyan, meaning "acquisition," as Eve, Cain's mother, said "I have acquired a man with God." (Genesis 4:1) In Jewish thought, 'acquisition' is synonymous with 'existence.' We talk of God "acquiring Heaven and Earth." God's "acquisition" was the action by which he brought Heaven and Earth into existence.

In Cain's eyes, he was the only acquisition in this world, its only existence. This is the root of all evil. For there can be no room for the Other/other in a world which is filled with the self. If the world is filled with the glory of the self, how can there be another? The inability to see the Other/other is the root of all idolatry. It is the root of all jealousy, and jealousy ultimately leads to murder. For the self has no more effective means to remove jealousy than to remove the source of jealousy the self.

However, the sense of self can have a positive side. For every single person is obliged to say to himself "the world was created for me." (Sanhedrin 37) In some way, we are supposed to look at the world as though we were the only kinyan in it. In the Book of Chronicles it says that "The heart of King Yehoshofat, (son of David) was raised up in the ways of God." A heart can be high with ego and evil, or it can be raised up with a zealousness to serve God.

When Pinchas took it upon himself to avenge the vengeance of God, even though he was not obliged to do so, he tapped into the positive side of Cain's unregenerate egocentricity.

For it is only when someone does something that they do not have to do can we recognize the paradox of the heart that is raised up to serve.


Adapted from an article by Rabbi Yaakov Asher Sinclair based on Shem Mishmuel (שם משמואל), a nine-volume collection of inspirational essays on the Torah delivered by Rabbi Shmuel Bornsztain, the second Sochatchover Rebbe, between the years 1910-1926.
 
Bein HaMetzarim
Walling Wall
 
This week begins the three week mourning period between the 17th of Tammuz and the Fast of the 9th of Av (Tzom Tisha B'Av).

These three weeks are known as Bein haMetzarim ("between the straits," i.e. between the days of distress - between the 17th of Tammuz and 9th of Av. The name is taken from  Lamentations (Eichah)  1:3 "All who pursued her overtook her in narrow straits." (כָּל-רֹדְפֶיהָ הִשִּׂיגוּהָ, בֵּין הַמְּצָרִים).

The fast of the 17th of Tammuz (Tzom Shiva Asar B'Tammuz) begins at sundown on Wednesday. This fast day commemorates the breaking down of the walls of Jerusalem by Nebuchadnezzar in 586 BCE and by Titus in 70 CE.


Mussar Leadership classes will resume meeting at Beth Zion-Beth Israel in Philadelphia in September 2009. For more information about who we are, visit our website.

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The Madrichim
Mussar Leadership
Rabbi Ira Stone
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