April 2009

Vol 4, Issue 4

 
                       CHD Awareness Pamphlet

IMH Newsletter

Greetings!

 It is so difficult to read an article or turn on the television to see another teen or child unexpectedly die from an unknown Congenital Heart Defect due to lack of awareness. Many of us have friends, a coworker, or a relative who has a "heart murmur" or "hole in the heart". Many celebrities affected by CHD are making this public, making it even more transparent that this disease does not discriminate against gender, race or socioeconomic status. This medical condition is often times not given the proper terminology at diagnosis of a Congenital Heart Defect or Disease, which is why CHDs are misunderstood by many. It is our goal at It's My Heart to make this a household name to bring about more dialogue amongst the communities.

I encourage each of you to join our movement to educate the general community through our National Awareness Campaign. Our most recently announced national fundraiser is gaining momentum in the Greater Houston area, and it is our desire to see it expand into communities across the United States. It is called the "Heart Cents Fundraiser". It is a simple way to "use your cents to help make sense of CHD".  This fundraiser does many wonderful things for our children such as teaching them about CHD and to help support our outreach goals. Our plan is to use the funds from our Heart Cents Fundraiser to develop a Public Service Announcement that will be distributed nationally.  It has been geared toward schools, but can be used in the workplace, too.

We had the pleasure of piloting this fundraiser here in Houston, Texas, at Carmichael Elementary and Kujawa Elementary of Aldine Independent School District. They were both a huge success! The teachers, students, and their parents are now more aware of CHD.  As a reward for their fundraising efforts, students enjoyed a party for their entire class. We would like to publicly give special thanks to our first two schools that jumped in and allowed us to host a "Heart Cents Fundraiser".

If you are interested, submit your school and/or be the chair for this fundraiser. Programs such as this will increase awareness and educate our community to recognize the signs and symptoms of CHD. Classes  or offices can compete against one another to raise the most change within their school or place of business. Winning classrooms win a party hosted by IMH (i.e. pizza/popcorn/ice cream sundaes). Click here for more information or to submit the school/business details to hold a fundraiser.

From the Heart,

Corrie Stassen
National Executive Director
 Dr. Heart to Heart 

 I just don't know what to say when everyone comments on how perfectly healthy my child looks.  She has a CHD! I know her heart is sick. I feel like they don't believe me.
 
Outsiders (and even other family members) words can really hurt.  Our emotions are on overload and our senses are on overdrive.  Many well meaning people will make comments that will hurt for various reasons. 
 
During a crisis it is hard to give emotional energy dealing with well wishers seemingly thoughtless comments.  Take inventory.  Is this someone who will be around you and your child?  If so, you may need to educate them on how certain comments make you feel.
 
It is hard to believe, but even acquaintances and almost complete strangers can be affected greatly by what you and your family are going through.  They may have heard how serious your child's heart defect is and expected to see a very sick looking child.  So they are shocked to see a "normal" looking child on the outside.  Have a standard response ready for these situations.  Maybe something like, "Yes, she does look healthy, it is hard to believe her heart is so sick."
 
Use words like, "I feel ___ when I hear you say ____."  Stay away from saying things that would put the other person on the defensive.  For example, "You make me feel ____."  In the second example, you are blaming the person for your feelings.  The first way allows the person to see how you interpreted what they said.  You are giving them the opportunity to then share their true motives.
 
Those closer to the situation may actually think they are helping with their comments. The intention could be to help you feel better.  If their intentions are to encourage you and they find out what they are saying is not, they will want to know so they can change.  Guide them in what you need.  As your needs change, let those close to you know.  Train those close to you to ask what you need and then tell them!
 
Remember, no one really knows how to walk this journey or how you are going to feel along the way.  Each person is figuring it out as they go.  Everyone is unique.  Voice your feelings when you can. Learn which people in your life are good to talk when you feel a certain way.  
 
Lastly, do not let anger build over others comments.  Find a way to release the hurt.  Some people find writing is therapeutic; others seek counselors to share and get advice, or even a walk or exercise to clear your head.  Ultimately, you are in control of how you feel, don't give others the power over your emotions. 

Dr. Heart to Heart would love to hear your questions, please e-mail newsletter@itsmyheat.org.

In This Issue
Dr. Heart to Heart
Heart Journey
CHD Birthdays
Monthly Meetings
IMH Happenings
Donations
IMH Chapters
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"Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have."


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Comfort Bags Officer Needed
IMH's Comfort Bag program is in many hospitals around the country. 
 
Currently, we are providing Comfort Bags to Children's Hospital of Atlanta.  Do you live in Atlanta?  Would you like to assist families with CHD by coordinating the comfort bag program for this hospital?
 
Please contact info@itsmyheart.org 

Chapter Pages

Family Matching
 
Family Matching is growing by leaps and bounds.We are able to provide support to more families with varying diagnosis better than ever before.Our family matching directors' daughter passed away in Jan.
 
If you have submitted an application to family matching and have not received your match  please be patient it will be coming shortly.If you have had an email change in the last year please send an update to
familymatching@itsmyheart.org
 
If you have contacted your match we would love to hear your family matching experience please send an update and let us know!
 Heart Journey -  Delaney Novak

Delaney's story as told by her mom, Laura Novak.

I heard somewhere that Moms with preeclampsia produce a steroid that helps babies with heart defects.  I don't know if that is true, but I do know that my preeclampsia saved Delaney.  Because I was being induced at 35 weeks, there was a NICU team in the delivery room.  Because of all the medications I was on, Delaney was taken to the NICU for observation.  I am frightened to think what would have happened if she had been full term and not so closely watched.
 
She was a little lethargic, but that was normal with all the medications I was on.  She had a slight murmur, but that was normal because she was early.  They told me that she would probably get to go home with me.  So far all signs pointed to happy healthy baby!  It didn't take long for her condition to deteriorate.  Her oxygen saturation levels were dropping fast and they didn't know why.  They quickly put her on a ventilator, but there was no improvement.  When they did the echo, all they could tell was that there was something wrong with her heart.  They immediately transferred her to the Children's Hospital.
 
Within an hour of getting to the Children's hospital, the Pediatric Cardiologist diagnosed Delaney with Tetralogy of Fallot with Pulmonary Atresia.  She had a VSD, the right side of her heart was enlarged, an overriding aorta, and there was no blood flow through her closed pulmonary artery.  The breathing tube was removed and Delaney was stable.  About 24 hours later we got the call that is every parent's worst nightmare. They told us that, "Things are not going well with your baby and you need to get here as soon as possible." By the time we got to the hospital, Delaney was back on the ventilator but she was stable.
 
In a rare event that no one at this hospital had seen before, Delaney's umbilical line ruptured much like an IV in your arm.  All the IV fluids she had been receiving had been filling into her abdomen.  They built up around her heart and prevented it from beating.  They drained almost 2 ounces of fluid off her heart and everything returned to "normal".  They kept the breathing tube until after a Diagnostic Catherization could be performed.
 
Her Cath went as schedule and gave the doctors a clear picture of what was going on with her heart.  The breathing tube was removed and she was then scheduled for surgery to place a BT Shunt.  Because Delaney was so stable, her surgery was rescheduled 6 times over the next two weeks!  Surgery went very well, but it was devastating to see my tiny little baby in this great big bed surrounded by tubes and pumps and wires.  I felt so helpless.  Her recovery went well and at 6 weeks old we finally got to take her home.
 
At six months old, Delaney's oxygen saturations dropped from the 80s to the 70s and she had another Cath.  At 9 months she had her full repair surgery.  They removed the BT Shunt, closed multiple ASDs and VSDs, and they replaced a portion of her pulmonary artery with cadaver portion (conduit).  She came out of surgery looking GREAT.  With oxygen saturations at near 100%, her color had improved so much the she looked like we was coming back from vacation, not major open heart surgery!  Within 2 days, she was sitting up in bed, playing and bouncing!  How can you bounce when you just had your chest cut open?!
 
We were told that Delaney would outgrow the conduit - it would narrow as it stretched and the valve would deteriorate.  It would need to be replaced at some point between age 3 and 5, and again as she reached puberty.  In 2006, at 4 years old, her cardiologist decided to try opening up the conduit with a stint.  If they could open it up, it could put off surgery for another 6 month to two years.  It was very successful, and now 3 years later, technology has changed enough that instead of surgery, we are scheduling another Cath.  She goes in on April 16, 2009.  If all goes well, they might be able to keep stretching the conduit until it is back to its original size.  Instead of two or three more surgeries, she may only need one more!

 
Do you have a heart journey to share?  E-mail newsletter@itsmyheart.org  for more details.
CHD Birthdays
 
 eli mar bday       justin apr bday       ajay apr bday       hannah apr bday
Eli Baggett *         Justin Dunn          Ajay Greenwood   Hannah Penning 
March 29, 2006     April 2, 2000        April 2, 2003         April 3, 2008
 
delany apr bday       hailee apr bday       kaitlynn apr bday         carysme apr bday
Delaney Novak     Hailee Dockery     Kaitlyn Stinebaugh  Carysma Castillo
April 3, 2002        April 5, 2007         April 7, 1999           April 8, 2005
 
savannah apr bday       german apr bday       grant apr bday        blake apr bday
Savannah-Maria    German Avelar      Grant Geyer          Blake Galligan
   Villarreal            April 25, 2000       April 27, 2007        April 29, 2008
April 17, 2005
 
 TCH

Is your child born in May?  Please send us your child's birthday and picture so we can all celebrate your child's birth with you!

 

We also want to celebrate all your angels birthday's too! So, please send us their information so we can include them as well! E-mail to

newsletter@itsmyheart.org.
 
* Omitted last month, editor error.   
Monthly Meetings
Thursday, April 9, 2009

 

Meeting times and location vary by chapter.

 

For more information in your area, go to www.itsmyheart.org, Click on "IMH Chapters" to see specifics about upcoming events.  Make sure you sign up on line to receive e-mails from your chapter by clicking on the link at the bottom of this email.

 

As always, please be considerate about germs and take precautions if you've been around anyone who has been sick. Most of our children have compromised health.

IMH Happenings
Boston
Monthly Meeting
Thursday, April 9, 2009, 6:30pm - 7:30pm
MGH Yawkey Center, Room 4-930 (4th floor) at 55 Fruit Street; Boston, MA 02114

Fort Worth
Monthly Meeting
Thursday, April 9, 2009 7:00pm - 8:00pm
Cook Childrens Hospital in the Pavilion Basement Class Room

Fresno
Monthly Meeting
Wednesday, April 9, 2009, 7:00pm - 8:00pm
Woodward Park Library in the Mountain Room

Houston
Monthly Meeting
Thursday, April 9, 2009, 7:00pm - 9:00pm
Beth Wolff GMAC; 1775 St. James Place; Houston, TX 77056

UPCOMING NATIONAL EVENTS....
Meet & Greet at the Omni Hotel on June 26 from 5p-8p
National CHD Family Conference on June 27
National CHD Family Fun Day at the Houston Zoo on June 28
* more information at www.itsmyheart.org

New Jersey   
Monthly Meeting
Thursday, April 9, 2009, 7:00pm - 9:00pm
WFAN (Don Imus) Building at Hackensack - University Medical Center

 
To learn more about upcoming events or how to get involved, visit our chapters at www.itsmyheart.org.
Donations

In Memory of my Daughter Faith Drouet by Lindsey Drouet
In Honor of The Wolff Pack It's My Heart by Anna Moser
Kyle Mabe by Lorena Zertuche "Kyle is a great student and we are blessed to have him at our school!"

Donations "In Honor Of", "Memory Of", in recognition of a birthday, anniversary or "Just Because" can be made to It's My Heart. Not only will your donation go towards helping those affected by CHD, but also let someone special know you are thinking of them in a very special way.  All donations are tax deductible.  Your donation will further the work of spreading awareness of CHDs, fund programs such as the Comfort Bags and Care Packages to the hospitals, etc.

It's My Heart Chapters

It's My Heart is dedicated to our mission which is to provide support, spread awareness, educate and advocate for those affected by Congenital Heart Defects by creating alliances with fellow families, hospitals, support groups, and the community. Creating chapters of IMH throughout the country is imperative to our ability in achieving our mission.

 

The objective of chapter development advances our opportunity to increase awareness, support and thereby advocate for those affected by CHD.

 
If you are interested in organizing a chapter or becoming a Regional Coordinator in your area, please contact the It's My Heart National Office at (281) 578.7343 or (888) HEART.07 or e-mail
chapters@itsmyheart.org.


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coming soon.........
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