March 2009

Vol 4, Issue 3

 
                       CHD Awareness Pamphlet

IMH Newsletter

Greetings!

 
On February 10, 2009, It's My Heart participated in Lobby Day in Washington, D.C. as a member of the coalition called the National Congenital Heart Coalition (NCHC). We used the personal stories you provided in book format to share with our lawmakers while advocating for the first ever Congenital Heart Disease specific legislation currently titled, The Congenital Heart Futures Act. The bill is asking for our lawmakers to mandate funding for a national Congenital Heart Registry, research and education. It is believed statistics are much higher than the often quoted "1 in 100" and more likely "1 in 60" are born with CHD. With a registry more accurate statistics will justify our lawmakers to increase their support and fund more research as well as educate our communities. There were 200 people in attendance, many representing IMH. Thank you to all who shared your stories and attended Lobby Day! We could not have done this without your support.

Our 3rd annual CHD Awareness Run/Walk - Noah's Legacy took place on Saturday, February 21, 2009.  It was a huge success! Over 1,000 people were in attendance and it was a beautiful day. To date, over $70,000 has been raised to support the programs and missions of It's My Heart. Rain threatened our event but it held out until we had everything packed and ready to leave. Our sponsors took part in having a booth and fun activities for the children with some specifically for adults. There were many rides and huge inflatables along with our DJ Rowdy Randy who did a fabulous job including our teens for karaoke. This special day will remain in my heart forever but pictures provided by our photographer at Life's Images will be treasured by many. You can access. a video montage online at www.itsmyheart.org. I am excited to announce our Top Fundraiser for the CHD Awareness Run/Walk 2009 is Team Henry, team captains Jeff and Allison Johnston and their son Henry.  Congratulations! We would also like to thank all those who participated whether you donated $5 or $50 because each donation helps us one step closer to meet the mission statement and goals of IMH. It is hard to believe we are already planning for the 2010 CHD Awareness Run/Walk - Noah's Legacy. If you are interested in volunteering and live near Houston, TX, please join us on Tuesday, March 10th at 7:00 p.m. If you live outside of Houston, our Chapters are also planning walks in their areas.  Your participation is key to having a successful walk. If you have a service or knowledge that would assist with an event, please email chapters@itsmyheart.org and we'll direct you to the chapter nearest you.

"Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday dear It's My Heart, Happy Birthday to you!" IMH is celebrating 4 years this month and the growth has been phenomenal. We want to thank each and every one of you for keeping up with IMH, requesting our literature, participating in meetings, events, fundraisers, and most of all, being a part of IMH. Even though you may hear this phrase often, its true non the less, "WE COULD NOT DO IT WITHOUT YOU!" We hope to celebrate many more years together making our communities more aware of CHD and bringing more support to families affected by CHD. Thank you from our heart to yours!

From the Heart,

Corrie Stassen
National Executive Director
 Dr. Heart to Heart 

 How do I deal with the GREAT news that my child's heart is repaired and doing wonderful and I am thrilled beyond belief BUT scared because they tell me that I do not need to come back for a year?
 
Congratulations on this milestone in your child's medical journey! You and your child are now on the proverbial easy street now, right?  Maybe, but for some the problem is it might not be so easy to put aside this part of your lives and move on burden-free through the next year.

It would be silly to tell a parent not to worry about their child, whether healthy or working through a medical condition. Sometimes it's smart to worry. It can force us to plan or to take safety precautions. Worry can even lead to wellness. If we didn't worry some about our health, would we eat right and exercise? Probably not. The difficulty comes when worry becomes chronic and/or interferes with life's tasks.  Excessive worry is part of many mental health disorders and can lead to physical illness.
 
In light of this, be sure to follow your child's physician's advice over the next year to address their health needs, and do monitor yourself for signs of excessive worry and stress.  The chart below shows some strategies you might employ if you find worry becomes troublesome in your life.  
 
"Some cognitive behavioral strategies for worriers: 

 

Worry Problem: Worry rarely saves us from anything. The truly bad things that happen to us are rarely anticipated and often aren't in our control.

 Cognitive Behavioral Strategy:  Challenge risk assessments: "Am I overestimating the risk?" "It feels likely to happen, but is it really?" Remind yourself that worries pass: "Will this even matter a year from now? Two years? Ten?"
 
Worry Problem: Frequently seeking reassurance (Web searches, medical tests, frantic phone calls) often perpetuates a worrying habit. Any relief from the reassurance tends to be short-lived, and the worry comes back.
Cognitive Behavioral Strategy: If you often seek reassurance from someone, wean yourself gradually with that person's help. Set time limits on your Web searches.
 
Worry Problem: Worries don't need immediate attention. You're the boss, not your worries.
Cognitive Behavioral Stategy: Try scheduling "worry periods." Give the worries your full attention for 15-20 minutes at a set time each day. If they intrude at other times, try to delay them to the next worry period.
Worry Problem: Worry doesn't give you more control or certainty.
Cognitive Behaorial Strategy:  Challenge your need for certainty by recognizing that certainty is just a feeling, not reality, and control has limitations.
 
Worry Problem
: Worries aren't a sign of personal weakness. Recognize that you and many others have "sticky brains" that make you vulnerable to excessive worry.
Cognitive Behavorial Strategy: Give your worries their due, but also learn ways to shut them down. Doing something physical can help. Getting into social situations can also pull you out of a rut."*

*Source: Adapted from Shearer and Gordon, "The Patient with Excessive Worry," American Family Physician, March 15, 2006, p. 1054
 
Lastly but perhaps most importantly, as a parent you have a connection with your child unlike any other. Trust that and rely on that in conjunction with medical advice to know when/if your child may need medical intervention before that one year mark

Dr. Heart to Heart would love to hear your questions, please e-mail newsletter@itsmyheat.org.
Walk Team Pictures
team 8  
        Parker's Posse                 Joshua's Joggers
team 9   team 12 
        Ike's Army                          Jackie's Jubilee 
In This Issue
Dr. Heart to Heart
Heart Journey
CHD Birthdays
Monthly Meetings
IMH Happenings
Donations
IMH Chapters
Donate
Join Our Mailing List!

Quote of the Month

"Today, see if you can stretch your heart and expand your love so that it touches not only those to whom you can give it easily, but also those who need it so much."

- Daphine Rose Kingma

Visit our Yahoo! Groups

Family Matching
 
Family Matching is growing by leaps and bounds.We are able to provide support to more families with varying diagnosis better than ever before.Our family matching directors' daughter passed away in Jan.
 
If you have submitted an application to family matching and have not received your match  please be patient it will be coming shortly.If you have had an email change in the last year please send an update to
familymatching@itsmyheart.org
 
If you have contacted your match we would love to hear your family matching experience please send an update and let us know!
Comfort Bags Officer Needed
IMH's Comfort Bag program is in many hospitals around the country. 
 
Currently, we are providing Comfort Bags to Children's Hospital of Atlanta.  Do you live in Atlanta?  Would you like to assist families with CHD by coordinating the comfort bag program for this hospital?
 
Please contact info@itsmyheart.org 

Chapter Pages

More Team Pictures
  
team 4
Team Henry 
 
FancyAbbyFriends  
 
 Em & M's Sweet Hearts

team 1
Team Conner
 
team 6
 Three Hearts
 
team 2
Sweet Beats
 
More pictures can be found online! 
 Heart Journey - Jill Winter

jill winterMost people, when asked to describe heart disease refer to heart attacks. However, as we all know, there are a wide variety of heart related issues, or even mysteries, that require attention and additional research. I believe my story is one that could open the public perception on the subject as it provides a glimpse into the life of someone with congenital heart disease and how it affects daily and long-term life.

I was born 31 years ago, along with my identical twin sister, in a suburb of Minneapolis, Minnesota. We arrived precisely on our due-date; I was the second born, weighing 7lb 4oz. Awaiting me was a team of surgeons ready to repair my pulmonary valve, which they already knew was not completely functional. Within hours of my birth they did an emergency open-heart surgery to open up my completely closed pulmonary valve, the prognosis was uncertain. After a long, but successful operation they were able to open up the tiny valve to allow it to do its vital work in the heart. I was then diagnosed with post pulmonary valvatory heart disease and after recovery would be able to go home to my family.

I recovered fairly quickly and the only evidence that I had had surgery was a scar that ran down my chest, a terrible scar that would grow in length as I did. As time past and I grew as a normal child it came to my parent's attention that my chest wall did not appear to be growing and expanding as it should be. It was then discovered that the structure of my rib cage was not solid and my parents were told my breast bone would eventually require additional support. This required two additional surgeries when I was 11 years old. The original surgery involved the insertion of a metal support bar in my chest to keep my breast bone from collapsing; it was to remain inside supporting my breast bone for up to two years. However, after six short months it began to push out of my side and they were forced to remove it early. Even though it came out early it was a great improvement for me and enabled me to return to the life of a normal child. Other than my scar from the multiple surgeries, the only other visible sign I was any different was that my lips would turn blue when I got real cold, like in the swimming pool, for example. But other than that I was back to normal life.

I was able to lead a fairly normal childhood right through young adulthood before things would again change for me. By the time I reached twenty-five, I began to get tired really rapidly, was short of breath and felt lethargic and I would then learn that my pulmonary valve had stopped functioning properly. There was now excessive blood flow backing up in my heart and it had caused the right side of my heart to almost double in size. I saw several doctors at this point and my case was taken to a board of heart doctors at the University of Minnesota for evaluation. At the time there was not a lot of research done on pulmonary valve replacement and my doctor was uncertain of the outcome or longevity for me thus to provide me the best care and opportunity to return to normal life he wanted my case to be reviewed by a team of the best doctors and the decision would then come from that team and not just one doctor in regards to any potential solution. Upon lengthy discussions and review it was decided to put in a bio-prosthesis heart valve (a porcine or pig valve). Because I was so young they felt this type would be the most beneficial, allowing me to lead a normal life where I would not be dependant on any drugs, including Coumadin. So I embarked on another major surgery.

On November 25th, 2002 I had my third open-heart surgery. When the specialist team went inside, they found out that I had never actually had a valve, or if I had it had disintegrated; there were only remnants of leaflets but no actual valve. The inserted my new pulmonary valve and examined the rest of my heart. They then found an aneurysm on the right side of my heart which they removed, and they also had to repair my tricuspid valve, which was leaking due to overuse because of the lack of functionality from my mostly absent pulmonary valve. I spent 9 days in the hospital and I was on coumadin for 6 weeks. I was told my valve would last anywhere from 7-10 years, and was given a new bill on life.

My life did return to normal for a time and I enjoyed every minute. At that point however, it was not to last, there were still changes occurring in my heart. Several years later I began to experience a racing heart, even in my sleep it felt as if I was climbing a mountain, so back to the doctors I went. This time I was in Texas and in September of 2005, I was diagnosed with atrial tachycardia and extremely rapid heartbeat. My doctors tried to control it with medicine with no results, so they attempted a catheter ablation - also unsuccessful. I was put back on several different medicines for 6 more months, and in July they attempted another catheter ablation, which worked. Unfortunately, however, there where too many dysfunctional nodes and because of the location of some of the arrhythmias (my AV node), they could not repair my racing heart. They explained to me that my AV node was creating the largest of the racing heartbeats and if they ablated the AV node my heart would die, the only solution would be to then install a pacemaker to be the new pacer of my heart. After two long weeks of personal research and talking with my doctors, the decision was made to put in the pacemaker. I had the surgery on August 11, 2006. Afterward, I was in a brace for several days and not able to drive for three weeks. It dramatically improved my energy levels, and, therefore, my quality of life. It does require ongoing medical care and I must see my electrophysiolgist every 6 months. But, once again I was able to return to a normal life and for that I was thankful.

My return to normal life was shorter this time however and in April of 2008 I spent my birthday at the emergency room due to extreme pain in my chest. They released me after several tests and told me to see my cardiologist and that they could not find the answer to the pain. The next six months was spent going from doctor to doctor to find an answer as to why I had so much pain and to find a resolution. I finally found out that my lower part of my ribcage had overgrown inward and was putting pressure on one of my lungs, and my liver, it needed to be fixed. Back to the operating room, on October 21, 2008 I had surgery to remove the excess overgrowth of rib cartilage. It eliminated the horrible chest pain I was having and has returned me to good health.

I am glad to be back in stable and good health. I know that I will probably not escape having to have another valve replacement, outside of a miracle.  But I do hope, of course, that by the time of my next surgery, significant progress will have been made, such that I may not have to have another open heart surgery but perhaps a less invasive surgery to replace my valve. In order for that to occur more research must be done and more funds must be provided to the research for congenital heart defects and valve replacement. To help in that effort I am telling my story so people can hear how congenital defects affect the daily life of an individual and understand why funds and research are needed to improve the quality of life for those with these conditions.

As you can see my life has already benefited from many advances in technology and for that I am extremely thankful, but as I mentioned we must not stop there, it is extremely important to continue to dedicate funds to advance our understanding. I believe that my story will help many, as it highlights the complexity of the heart, the benefits gained in the quality and longevity of life through advancements in technology, and the need to further research this life-giving organ.

 
Do you have a heart journey to share?  E-mail newsletter@itsmyheart.org  for more details.
CHD Birthdays
 
jordan feb bday         angelina mar bday            everardo sanchez         daniel march bday
Jordan Davis     Angelina Sorrentino  Everardo Sanchez Jr   Daniel Shadek          
Feb 25, 2008    March 4, 2007          March 7. 2007            March 11, 2003
 
chris march bday            ciara march bday         zachary march bday         hunter march bday
Christopher Ahlborn Ciara Nunez         Zachary Wright       Hunter Vinson  
March 16, 2008       March 17, 2008    March 20, 2004       March 21, 2004
 
 
andrew mar bday        marlon mar bday        
Andrew Ojeda    Marlon Castro      Sean Gandolfo
March 26, 2008  March 27, 2008   Feb 26, 1989 - March 23 - 1989
 
 
 
 
 TCH

Is your child born in April?  Please send us your child's birthday and picture so we can all celebrate your child's birth with you!

 

We also want to celebrate all your angels birthday's too! So, please send us their information so we can include them as well! E-mail to

newsletter@itsmyheart.org.
Monthly Meetings
Thursday, March 12, 2009

 

Meeting times and location vary by chapter.

 

For more information in your area, go to www.itsmyheart.org, Click on "IMH Chapters" to see specifics about upcoming events.  Make sure you sign up on line to receive e-mails from your chapter by clicking on the link at the bottom of this email.

 

As always, please be considerate about germs and take precautions if you've been around anyone who has been sick. Most of our children have compromised health.

IMH Happenings
Boston
Monthly Meeting
Thursday, March 12, 2009, 6:30pm - 7:30pm
MGH Yawkey Center, Room 4-930 (4th floor) at 55 Fruit Street; Boston, MA 02114

Fort Worth
Monthly Meeting
Thursday, March 12, 2009 7:00pm - 8:00pm
Cook Childrens Hospital in the Pavilion Basement Class Room


Fresno
Monthly Meeting
Wednesday, March 4, 2009, 7:00pm - 8:00pm
Woodward Park Library in the Mountain Room

Houston
Monthly Meeting - CPR Refresher Course
Thursday, March 12, 2009, 7:00pm - 9:00pm
Beth Wolff GMAC; 1775 St. James Place; Houston, TX 77056

Walk Committee Meeting 2010
Tuesday, March 10, 2009, 7:00pm - 9:00pm
Beth Wolff GMAC; 1775 St. James Place; Houston, TX 77056

 
New Jersey   
Monthly Meeting
Thursday, March 12, 2009, 7:00pm - 9:00pm
WFAN (Don Imus) Building at Hackensack - University Medical Center

Fundraiser @ Fuddruckers
Thursday, March 12 (11am)- Friday, March 13, 2009 (1pm)
Voorhees Fuddruckers, 1170 White Horse Road, Voorhees, NJ 08043

 
To learn more about upcoming events or how to get involved, visit our chapters at www.itsmyheart.org.
Donations

Many donations were received for the walk.  A list by team can be found on the website at
 

In honor of Isaac Smith, son of Chad & Melissa, by Tiffany Bergman
Contributor: Melissa Pettit
Kristi Mungovan and Ethan for CHD by William Mitchell
In Honor of Justin Dunn Birthday - from The Justin Dunn Congenital Heart Foundation
General Donation from Arturo Bautista, M.D.
Contributor: Karen Guidry, For use where needed most.
Contributor: Matthew Enzer
In Honor of Issac Smith, by Amy Turner
For my daughter Marliyah Buchanan by Melissa Cantu
Donated in Parker Schaffhausen's Name by Linda Schaffhausen
Supporting the organization by Jin Wu

Donations "In Honor Of", "Memory Of", in recognition of a birthday, anniversary or "Just Because" can be made to It's My Heart. Not only will your donation go towards helping those affected by CHD, but also let someone special know you are thinking of them in a very special way.  All donations are tax deductible.  Your donation will further the work of spreading awareness of CHDs, fund programs such as the Comfort Bags and Care Packages to the hospitals, etc.

It's My Heart Chapters

It's My Heart is dedicated to our mission which is to provide support, spread awareness, educate and advocate for those affected by Congenital Heart Defects by creating alliances with fellow families, hospitals, support groups, and the community. Creating chapters of IMH throughout the country is imperative to our ability in achieving our mission.

 

The objective of chapter development advances our opportunity to increase awareness, support and thereby advocate for those affected by CHD.

 
If you are interested in organizing a chapter or becoming a Regional Coordinator in your area, please contact the It's My Heart National Office at (281) 578.7343 or (888) HEART.07 or e-mail
chapters@itsmyheart.org.


Check out the IMH Chapter nearest you:

Fresno, California
Central Louisiana
Indiana
Boston, Massachusetts
Michigan
Northern New Jersey
Southern New Jersey
Cleveland, Ohio
Columbus, Ohio
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Portland, Oregon
Memphis, Tennessee
Austin, Texas
Fort Worth, Texas
Houston, Texas
San Antonio, Texas
Central Virginia

coming soon.........
Daytona Beach, Florida
Seattle, Washington
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