Upcoming 2010 Fall Events
Wisdom Wheel Retreat for Women Leaders
Oct. 6-10, 2010
Wisdom Walkers Retreat
Oct. 19-23, 2010 4 Pathways of the Wisdom Leader
Nov. 9 - 14, 2010 | |
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"But little by little, as you left their voices behind, the stars began to burn through the sheets of clouds, and there was a new voice which you slowly recognized as your own, that kept you company as you strode deeper and deeper into the world, determined to do the only thing you could do-- determined to save the only life you could save."
- An excerpt of a poem by Mary Oliver
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Restoring, Rediscovering & Reawakening
Your Leader Within |
Why Retreat?
Each of us has a personal periodic, internal tide, an instinctual cyclical rhythm that alternates between "accomplishing, energetic doing time" in which you engage in the activities of the world and a "retreating reflective time" in which you detach from the world. Reflective time is when you stop to stare out the window at the rain, gaze at the stars and day dream alternate realities that feed your imagination. When we do not value or attend to the retreating cycle as much as the accomplishing cycle, we betray our basic rhythm and risk becoming walking through life on autopilot; deplete in vitality and meaning. We have not allowed time to replenish our inner world.
Right now too few of us are tending to our cycle of being, of going within. We are suffering from "Hambre del alma", a starving soul. By not recognizing and feeding our longing for retreat, not declaring our need for inner silence and balance, we diminish ourselves. By not taking time for ourselves we starve our lives. |
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Am I Worthy of a Retreat? One question almost always presents the biggest obstacle: Do I believe I am worthy of a retreat? Is all this fuss necessary? Can't I just take a pill? Each of us must learn to value the "retreating going within" cycle as much as the "accomplishing, out in the world" cycle. Can you believe that a day spent alone is as important as going to work? Do you dare believe that retreating is as important as taking care of others? We retreat for many reasons throughout our lives; to reflect on our lives, to celebrate our wisdom, to morn, to create, to recuperate, but the underlying one is to reconnect with our purpose. Life becomes dull and meaningless not because of what we are doing, but because we no longer know why we are doing it. We fear not so much giving parts of ourselves away purposefully. What we fear is that our energy might be leaking away through small outlets that may be "going down the drain". |
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Questions & Exploration Sometimes people come to a retreat with questions or intentions to explore. Here is a sample:
- How can I relax and trust more?
- Why can't what I accomplish ever be enough?
- How can I bring more of my vitality into my work?
- How can I find my vitality?
- How can I let go of the things that weigh me down?
- What is appropriate for me in the next part of my life?
- How can I stop over committing to everyone but me?
- What is the best way to lift the sadness I feel?
- How can I recharge my creativity?
- How can I find joy in my life?
- How can I change the direction I am going?
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Research studies indicate that reflection time is a key component of great leadership and critical to personal growth and well being. To learn more on this topic refer to Primal Leadership; The Hidden Driver of Great Performance. By Daniel Goleman, Richard Boyatzis, and Annie McKee, HBR Magazine, December 2001 How much time do you devote to reflection every month? What steps can you take to claim "retreating time" for yourself on a regular basis? |
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