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Volume II
Issue 3
01/20/2011                                                                                                                                
    
 
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 Hi

 

Welcome back! It seems that January has gotten away from me, and so I thought I would devote this week's issue of Just lose it to just that: the time and numbers that get away from us.  Often I dream of reaching one goal or another-to the point where I can almost taste it!  Then, I lose sight, make an excuse for wandering off task, and before I know it, time has passed and I am no closer to that dream than I was the day I dreamt it.  The point is that time passes inevitably,  but we don't reach our goals inevitably, unless we get down to business, that is.
 

When a new client, or a discouraged one, asks how long it will take to lose the weight, I can only think that if they would just stop worrying about time and focus on the process, they would be there in an instant. They would also eliminate the discouragement that is usually the result of thinking about "all the time it is taking."  Therefore, the theme for this week's "Tea Time" is numbers!
 

And, did  you know that we really can't, and are not supposed to, digest the meat that we eat!  If you want to hear my take on this controversial subject, then scroll down to the  "Did You Know."
 

In my "Favorite Foods" section you will find a meal that I am planning to make this evening! It will not only satisfy your taste buds, but will keep you feeling full and satisfied!
 

Enjoy your read!
 



 
              Tea Time with Berta                  
 
 
 

 

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 Flub number 3:  the numbers game
 


 Sorry to have to say it girls, but you are the only reason you are not living in the body that you say want! You, and you alone.Your weight is no one else's fault or problem.  Your weight will not affect anyone else's health or wellbeing.  This is a journey that you must make alone, and once you can see that, once you understand and own it, then you will have arrived at your own personal truth and taken the first step towards achieving your goal.  Easy for me to say, but not so easy to hear when you are the one looking at the number of steps ahead, if you can even see that far down the road! Look, I know it can be daunting, and that is why I am writing today about flub #3:  the numbers game.

 

Time is kind of a delicate subject when thought about in the context of weight loss, and nothing has messed up more people than the age-old question, "How long will it take?" People ask this of me all the time, and to be honest, I just don't know!  Nobody does. I do know that if you religiously adhere to every recommendation I make, you will lose your weight very quickly, and while many are able to do so, many more cannot remain strong for an extended period of time.
 

Today I am addressing those of you who have started a program of weight loss-for fun, let's just say it's  my program! Okay, so you are on the plan and feeling great. The number on the scale is going down, a pound or two every week, and you are in heaven, relishing your success and enjoying your new, healthier life. Or... maybe that's not quite what's happening? Nope, it's not. Why? Because of flub #3! 
 

What happened once you got on track? I'll tell you: you began to hop on and off that scale like it were a new cardio craze-Hip Hopping, if you will. Well, if you were working up a really good sweat, I would have said, "Go for it!"  And while I'm quite certain you were sweating, I also know it wasn't from the cardio! You were literally sweating the small stuff, the one or two pounds that will one day add up to the big drop! Really! You see, you are expecting the number on that scale to plummet like a thermometer in February. I can promise you that it will, but...it's all a matter of...yep...time.  Not minutes, not hours, not days. Nope. It's going to be weeks, months, and possibly years!

 

Is that too much time?  Have I said too much?  Scared you off? Been too honest?  Well, it might take that long, and it might not. The most important thing is this: do not get addicted to the numbers-the number of days on the calendar; the number of minutes and seconds on the clock; the number of pounds on the scale.  It will mess with your head!  You know to whom I speak.  I know you do, because I see you every day. My committed clients come in feeling great, only to get on the scale, look at the number and decide that all is lost and it just can't be done! 

 

Please! Please understand that it is only a number. In the span of a week, it will fluctuate up and down until it finally settles somewhere for some time. I call it "The Loop".  You need to know what your numbers are and own them.  The loop spans about 4 pounds. When you are dropping down, you will see some lower numbers, then you will see the numbers go back up, and every once in a while a new low number shows up and you stop seeing one of the upper numbers. It's all in the loop.  

 

Let me break it down. Say you weigh 150 pounds and you loop between a low of 148 and a high of 152. What that means is that while you are dropping down, you will see that 148 more and more often and that 152 less and less often.  The following week you might see a low of 147 and a high of 151.  During the span of a week, water retention and food passing through your body will account for fluctuations in the number on the scale. It's the loop.  You cannot do an emotional loop-de-loop and throw in the towel every time you see the high loop numbers, or you will fail again! Obviously, the more consistent you are, the faster the loop numbers will drop!

 

How long will it take?  Well, that is entirely up to you and how much weight you want to lose. Remember, you are the only one standing in the way of your progress.  Once you have checked your emotional baggage,there is nothing left to face but the food. Then all that's left is you and time.  How many days?  Does it matter?  Every day that you are clean will bring you that much closer to your destination; every week that you do not get thrown off track because you are retaining some water you will be closer to your destination. If you are consistent, aggressive weight loss looks like a steady decline of one or two pounds per week.  That's it! Sometimes more, and yes, sometimes less, but at the end of a week or month, you will be down from where you started. 

 

Not fast enough?  Really?  Think about it. It is really just a game.  You can put in 100% effort for short periods of time and throw in the towel as soon as that top loop number shows up a couple of times when you least expect it, or you can understand the loop and stop sabotaging yourself. You will stop setting yourself up for failure if... you stay steady and avoid the Hip Hopping; if...you forget about the numbers on the calendar, the clock and the scale; if...you didn't think of it as a race to be down 20 pounds for the friend's wedding next month. That's all there is to it!  Forget about the numbers game. The only numbers that truly matter are your blood pressure and cholesterol!

 

The fact of the matter is that one to two pounds per week add up four to eight solid pounds per month.  That doesn't sound like enough?  Well, are eight to sixteen pounds in two months any better?  How about 16 to 32 pounds in three months! Better still?  Three months go by like nothing, and try picking up a 32 pounds bag of potatoes!  Still not impressed?  How about 32 to 64 pounds in 4 months! I thought you would see it my way! This is what real weight loss looks like. It might seem to take forever at first, but what's the rush?  Stay steady and stop playing the numbers. Put in your time; after all, time passes whether you're going up or coming down. It's your choice, but I have to say, there's something great about feeling down.  

 

Did you know...

 

that human beings are not carnivores?  This is a controversial topic that drives meat eaters straight to the comfort of their steak tartare.  Sorry to burst your bubble, folks, but you might want to rethink your love affair with the cow!  Of course, we might have been carnivores at one point in our evolutionary history when we walked on all fours, but we have come a long way, baby. I know there is some rolling of the eyes going on out there, but humor me, and read on!

 

Scientifically speaking, there is a great deal of evidence to say that humans are actually omnivores, capable of digesting both meat and plants, but this classification is a bit misleading because while it is true that humans did, at one time, consume both plant- and animal-based foods, scientific studies done on the stomach contents of bog people have shown that their diets were more plant-based than formerly thought. Bog people subsisted on mostly seeds, nuts, and berries. These findings have caused scientists to rethink their assumptions about our ancestors' nutritional choices.

 

As I will begin to show you in a moment, the human body is no longer wired to crave uncooked meats, and it is not capable of digesting them. That should indicate that we have evolved away from carnivore status and are continuing to move to a place where we will  survive primarily as herbivores.  Some experts make credible arguments that we are already herbivores. Obviously, this is sure to raise the blood pressure of some carnivores (of course the saturated fats in their diets will have helped with this). In fact, if you're one of those thinking that you would like to delete this e-zine right about now and stop receiving this rubbish in the future, well then, my point is made. The controversy around the subject can bring out the McNasty in many!  However, if you will keep an open mind, perhaps you will be swayed by some of the information I am about to share with you, evidence that has me convinced that humans have already evolved into herbivores.
 

For starters, human beings are born with a little nuisance of an organ called the appendix. Today, it has no function; in fact, when it becomes infected and must be removed, we notice no difference in our day-to-day lives. In earlier ages, the appendix allowed humans to digest and process raw meat.  Since the organ no longer works in any way, we presently cannot eat raw meat, nor do we even want to!  For this reason alone, we cannot accurately consider ourselves carnivores; carnivores are supposed to crave and consume only raw meat...really raw meat...live, squirming meat really excites them. Me, not so much.

 

An argument I read ages ago puts things in perspective.  Imagine a crib, and in that crib we place a toddler.  We then drop in an apple and a fluffy white bunny.  The toddler will instinctively move to eat the apple and play with the bunny.  Next, let's place a lion cub into another crib. Drop in an apple and a fluffy white bunny. What's the lion cub going to do? You've got that right: it will instinctively move to play with the apple and eat the bunny!  So there's a fundamental difference, wouldn't you say? (I have the sneaking suspicion that my in-box is going to be jammed tomorrow!)

 

Here is another important point: animal fat is saturated fat.  The human body cannot process saturated fats, cooked or otherwise. The human body cannot break saturated fats down to create energy nor can it eliminate them fast enough. Consequently, it stores them in the arteries. The result is clogged arteries and cholesterol levels that will eventually kill millions of us.  Now, let's look at that lion again. He eats raw meat exclusively and does not suffer from high cholesterol or clogged arteries, ever!

 

Let us continue by looking further at the equipment that comes standard with the human body. The intestinal tract provides a fascinating context to help us digest what some scientists are theorizing. In humans, the small and large intestines combined  measure about four times a person's height.The approximately 27 feet of twisting, turning intestines are lined with tiny pockets. Why is the human intestine so designed?  
 

 Simply put, a long stay in the digestive system allows plant-based foods to be relieved of all of their nutrients. Unfortunately, waste from meat stagnating for hours in the intestines begins putrefying, and resultant substances containing fat and cholesterol are deposited into those pockets, causing all sorts of problems. A carnivore's intestinal tract, on the other hand, is only about twice as long as its body.  It is fairly straight and pipe-like, thereby allowing fats and cholesterol to pass through and out before they begin putrefying. So, if you think about it, our intestines might be trying to tell us something-maybe that we are designed to process plant-based foods, because we're obviously not so efficient with the animal-based stuff?

 

To put some teeth into the argument, we should compare some of them! The carnivore's teeth are long and pointed for piercing and tearing flesh. They are the opposite of the human's 20 molars, flat-edged for grinding plant-based foods.  Additionally, herbivores have eight incisors that are used for biting into fruits and vegetables. The least prominent human teeth are the four canines. Like our little pinkies, the canines will continue to become smaller and smaller.  Were you ever to come across someone with a really good set of canines (who's not in the cast of True Blood), you had better wonder about his evolutionary status and then think about running!

 

Continuing to look to our bodies for evidence of our evolutionary status, we move to the story told by saliva.  Our saliva is alkaline to help us digest carbohydrates, or plant-based foods. The saliva of a carnivore is acidic.  I wrote about the dangers of having an acidic body in an earlier e-zine, and you might want to check it out here (Alkaline or Acidic?).  The gist of the article is that an acidic body is not a healthy body. Consuming plant-based foods will return the body to a healthy alkaline state.

 

Now let's look at some of our other organs.  Carnivore's kidneys and livers are larger than ours, proportionally speaking, making it possible for them to handle excessive organic waste from animals.  Their livers secrete more bile, allowing them to break down the raw, high-fat meats. Our bodies can't do this.  In fact, we have to cook our meat completely to prevent getting sick from it. The bacteria alone in cooked meat has been wreaking havoc in our intestines; I can't imagine what raw meat would do to us...well I guess I can, but I would rather not.  Meat makes us sick, period. Vegetables make us healthy, period. 

 

Now let's make a comparison with our nonhuman counterparts, the primates.  Primates are omnivores because they are able to consume both plant and animal products. But the amount of animal foods they instinctively consume accounts for only one percent of their total caloric intake. One percent! Most humans get 50 percent of their daily calories from animal products.  

 

So, I believe the health problems in this country arise from the fact that Americans are eating like carnivores, consuming animal protein daily-not monthly or even bimonthly! Just think about it, most people I know have an animal protein with almost every meal of the day! Think about your average day-how much have you had so far today?  (Once again, I am not speaking about fish!)

 

Lastly, let me explain other reasons that you should limit your intake of  meat-especially red meat. Eating too many animal proteins can congest your organs and cells.  Eating too much red meat puts a strain your kidneys: that's why carnivores' kidneys are so much larger than ours.  People who face kidney failure and other kidney issues should absolutely restrict their intake of animal proteins; the rest of us should take heed!  Again, excessive animal proteins make our tissues acidic. This can give rise to issues with arthritis, osteoporosis and degenerative bone disease.  How many people do you know who suffer from one or more of these health issues?  All of them?

 

Red meat contains more toxins than any other food offered for consumption in this country.  If it's not organic, you can be sure the animal has been plied with pesticides, sulfa drugs, hormones, antibiotics, chemicals, and other toxins necessary to get the fatted calf to market. Since all of these toxins are stored in the animal's fat-fat that we can't process when we eat these animals-we basically agree to carry their toxins with us, forever, in loving memory of that  fantastic steak dinner! 

 

Lastly, you might not know that meats, grains and juices are zapped during the  process of irradiation, with radiation equal to that emitted in 10 to 70 million chest x-rays. This process is meant to kill or prevent microorganisms from growing. The FDA has allowed this since 1990, even though the process destroys 95% of vitamin A, 86%of vitamin B, and 70% of vitamin C.  It also reduces essential fatty acids, flora (for more info on flora, check out "Friendly or Deadly?") and necessary enzymes in our foods.  Therefore, avoid foods marked with a "Radura" label. If the whole product was not irradiated, you have to look for the fine print that tells you which ingredients were "treated with irradiation."  Reading glasses-don't leave home without  'em.

 

Well, that's the skinny on what I think about classifying humans as carnivores. I just think that too many arguments can be made for team herbivore! I know that we should eat food that brings us life and health. Sorry, but I think we should avoid foods that deplete us of good health!  If you eat healthy whole foods, greens, grains, legumes, and small amounts of fresh water fish (organic), your body will reward you with health, and you will suddenly find you don't have to fight the big fight!

 

Choose life!

 

 

 My Favorite Things to Eat!

lettuce wraps

 

 The Perfect Lunch!

 

This might be a bit of a stretch for some, but I guarantee that if you give it a chance, you will love it!  Simple preparation and perfectly healthy ingredients make this a keeper!  Best of all, the recipe comes to you from my dear friend Kim Foreman Sterling.  Kim has a wonderful Facebook page called "My Raw Journey."  If you are interested in learning more about raw food, you'll find great information and wonderful recipes on Kim's page!

 

I know you'll enjoy this one!

 

What you need:

 

2 Large green lettuce leaves

1 Whole small avocado

Fresh Sprouts

Hot Sauce and Lemon

 

What to do:

           

Using the lettuce leaf as a wrap, top with avocado, sprouts and hot sauce. Roll it up as you would any wrap and enjoy.

 

This takes all of 60 seconds to prepare, and it's so filling and satisfying!

 

Thanks, Kim!

 

Bon Appetit!


 


  
Berta is a respected weight loss counselor who has educated and empowered hundreds of women JUST LIKE YOU to lose the excess weight that prevents them from living their dream and Berta by mantlebecoming the woman they were meant to be.

 

Her gift, and the reason her program is SO SUCCESSFUL, is her ability to break down every detail of your weight loss journey so you can be prepared for the challenges and understand the emotional components behind them. 

 

This on-line program has been designed to bring you the same experience of her methods and common sense explanations that Berta uses in her successful private practice, at a fraction

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