Just Lose It with Berta Newsletter
Volume 1
Issue 34
08-26-2010

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Hi !


 

Welcome back!  From my client's and you, I believe that last week's e-zine helped everyone get back on track. I'm truly happy that you are already feeling much better about yourself and the remaining days of summer. The weather has definitely shifted here in New England, and I can't say that I miss the bloat that hot, humid weather causes. Well, to be honest, I do love the heat, but the swelling fingers and toes...not so much!  I hope that you have all felt the difference, as well; but rather than think that the worst is over and take a lackadaisical approach to the rest of the summer, I want you to step it up a little bit so that you can end this summer feeling victorious and slimmer, even if it's "just" getting back to the number you started the season with.  Yes, I said "just," not to minimize, but to emphasize that maintaining over the summer is a huge accomplishment. Yes, we would prefer to go down, but remember, it's not a linear journey, and to end the summer in the same place you started is quite an achievement! Therefore, no matter where you find yourself this week, know that you are in a good place. If you went down, stayed the same, or even up a bit, there is always "right now" to get it back together.
 
In today's Tea Time, I speak about a somewhat mysterious phenomenon that most of you are prone to without even realizing it!  Keep reading to see if you, too, are a Sleepeater.
 
In today's Did You Know, I address what I believe to be one of the largest catalysts to disease and imbalance within our bodies.  Find out how to tell if you are at risk and what you can do about it.
 
And in My Favorite Things to Eat I give you something you need more than you want! It is definitely one of my favorites, but for health more than taste. Keep reading and find out how to float your way to happiness. 
 
Have a great week!


Berta

Tea Time with Berta:
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A little for you, and a little for me.
 
 
A funny thing happens to us when we're not paying attention. The problem? You hardly even realize it's happening since you're not even consciously in the same room with yourself at these moments. I'm speaking about the unconscious eating you so often indulge in.  You know how it goes: you're chatting and cooking, having a stress free hour or so, just tasting this and that to make sure it's properly seasoned. Could this style of cooking account for those times when you sat down to eat at your own dinner party and you weren't at all hungry?  At times, you might have even thought to yourself, Wow, I've got this thing down! I cooked it up and dished it out and remained in complete control!  I can't recall ever being on top of it like this!  I
don't think I need to go on with the obvious ending of this particular story; instead, let me share a client's story.
 
A client and friend was doing an amazing job, having lost about 60 of the 100 pounds she planned to drop.  It was slow going, to say the least, but happily, it all did eventually come off.  But here is an interesting discovery I made quite by accident. Every week, I would routinely review her food list for the previous week, and I would never see anything that stood out. Her issue was mostly one of portion control, and we were dealing with it, or at least we thought we were.  I say we thought we were, because neither of us had any idea that portion control was not her only issue; it was only the issue of which we were aware!
 
Our story takes place on a winter evening when Sylvia decided to have a bunch of kids and adults for an impromptu dinner. The plan was to feed the kids while the adults visited in the living room.  As it happened, I had a clear view of the kitchen from my perch on the couch, and watched as Sylvia busily served up plates of spaghetti to the ten kids. As I watched, not spying mind you, just casually observing, I was astonished at what was unfolding in that kitchen. To my utter amazement, this woman whose fierce determination had enabled her to monitor every ounce of food that had entered her body for the last year, was scooping up a forkful of spaghetti, placing it on the child's plate, and then forking up an equal portion and placing it into her mouth. Unbelievably, after serving each child's plate, she received an equal serving!  By the time the kids' meals were in front of them, Sylvia had consumed the equivalent of a very large dish of spaghetti!  I was stunned, and not wanting her to think I was spying, I quickly scooted out of sight and waited for dinner with the rest of the group.  When the adults were served, Sylvia enjoyed a glass of white wine and a moderate, healthy meal. She looked fabulous and felt confident in her ability to control her portion. 
 
As you might imagine, I was anxious to review Sylvia's food journal with her when she came for her weekly weigh in.  I don't recall if she was up or down, and honestly that was insignificant. What we needed to discuss was not a matter of good or bad, right or wrong: it was a matter of behavior, or more to the point, unconscious behavior. As I had done every week for many months, I read her food journal, and low and behold, Sylvia happened to have completely omitted the kitchen caper with the kids.  I shared what I witnessed that evening, and Sylvia was as shocked to hear it as I was to have seen it. She had no recollection of that extra course, and I believed her since she was meticulous about owning up to every morsel she consumed each week.  The habit of tasting her children's food or anything else she cooked was so ingrained that she wasn't even aware of doing it.  She wasn
't sleepwalking, but she sure was sleepeating! 
 
This was an enormous eye opener for the two of us, and by bringing her "tasting" to consciousness, Sylvia was able to stop the behavior and lose the remaining pounds.  I gained an even greater awareness into how certain habits are so deeply ingrained that an outsider's observant eye is sometimes needed to pick up on them.  So, with Sylvia in mind, the next time you're cooking or serving food, please pay attention to what you're doing. If you're munching away, oblivious to the quantity you're taking in, you must stop yourself! This is not "free food"; these food calories contribute to your weight just like any others, and they might be the reason you aren't having the expected level of success. So, please raise your consciousness, not your intake!
 
Question:  If you eat in the middle of the woods and no one is there to see you, will you gain weight?
Answer: Not if the tree falls on top of you.
 



Did you know... 

that many experts say all disease begins in our the intestines? Well, today we're going to talk about the root cause of intestinal issues. When new clients first knock on my side door, they are there because they wish to lose weight. However, more and more people are coming not out of vanity or unhappiness with their appearance: they are coming in droves because their doctors have scared them. People are beginning to see that their weight is not only an external issue, but it is also a detriment to their present and future health.  The breakdown of the body is the inevitable result of bad eating habits. So, what are some of the signs of this breakdown? Is your weight the only clue? Well, of course not! It all started a long time ago, in the depths of your bowls! 
 
Before I can go "there" again in any depth, it is important that you understand that which is the precursor to intestinal issues, and thus the precursor to many known illnesses: the lack of friendly intestinal flora, also known as acidophilus and bifidobacteria. Flora is necessary for a healthy gastrointestinal tract, to be sure, but it is also necessary for a healthy immune system!  We are so lacking in this vital ingredient of intestinal health that the experts believe it is the cause of most illnesses. Maintaining a balance of the friendly flora, or acidophilus, that live in the digestive tract is crucial to good health because it trains the immune system to be competent, and not hyper-reactive. 

Friendly flora has been known to improve skin conditions from adult acne to eczema. It alleviates allergies to all sorts of foods, reduces symptoms of irritable bowel syndrome, leaky gut syndrome, acid reflux syndrome, ulcers, problems with Candida Albicans and other problems related to inappropriate and inflammatory immune system problems.  Also, a lack of friendly flora will impede the absorption of calcium, magnesium and dozens of trace minerals, possibly leading to endocrine and other imbalances. We need friendly flora for healthy metabolism, and children who lack them are much more likely to become obese!
 
So, how did we lose it and how do we get it back? To be honest, it's a miracle that any of us have healthy flora left given the nature of the average American diet.  Basically, any combination of the following when used over a long period of time will do it: antibiotics, steroids, salt, MSG, hard liquor, foods cooked at high temperatures or deep-fried, refined carbohydrates (white bread, pasta, candy, white sugar, corn syrup, etc.), and food preservatives (found in all lunch meats - ham, salami, hot dogs, etc). It's there in cheese, diet drinks and soda and many other processed foods.

 Also, friendly flora cannot flourish when there is an absence of fiber in the diet. Lack of fiber occurs because we take perfectly healthy fiber-rich foods like whole grains, sprouted seeds, raw nuts, fresh fruits and vegetables, and boil them at high temperatures for long periods of time.  Did you know that if you simmer high quality proteins like fish and legumes too long, the heat will destroy or suppress the growth of friendly flora in the intestines when you consume them? In addition, if you're in the habit of eating foods with preservatives daily, your flora is affected just as it is when you ingest daily antibiotics. 
 
We should all assume that we are probably at risk in one way or another and plan to do something about it. But, what?   You can purchase a good fiber and friendly flora supplement in a natural food store and possibly even at your local super market, but the better combination is a blend of fiber, pectin, and probiotic blends of Acidophilus, Bifidum, B longum, L Salivarius and L Plantarum.  What?  Not so hard! Just ask at a local natural food store, and they will hook you up.
 
Apart from the supplements, your diet should be free of hormones in meat or poultry, antibiotics, food preservatives and all antimicrobials that kill off the good bacteria. If you were to just buy organic, you would be fine. In addition, you should eat a serving of raw fruits and vegetables with each meal to provide live, active plant enzymes to help the digestive process.  Parsley and raw ripe pineapple are great choices.  Honey is also a healthy food and a good infection fighter; however, remember to eat it raw so it doesn't lose it's effectiveness. In other words, don't cook with it or use it to sweeten your tea. These foods are also great stress reducers!
 
Many people eat yogurt for the purpose of maintaining the balance of friendly flora, but to be honest, the yogurt isn't really sour enough. In fact, it is far too sweet. You would do better with kefir or buttermilk; both are much healthier for your colon.  You might be wondering why I would suddenly change my mind and tell you all to eat dairy, and I would answer that this is the exception. Although yogurt and kefir both start out as milk, a live bacterial culture is added to induce fermentation, making it change into something that is actually good for you. The types of bacteria used to ferment each tend to affect the flavor and texture of the products, which we experience quite differently.  Kefir is the better choice because it has a larger variety of bacteria in its culture. Yogurt often only contains only one or two acidophilus and or bifidus.
 
So how do you know when an improvement in the friendly flora in has been achieved?  Well, unfortunately, one place it can be seen is in your stools. Sorry, but there is no real way to get around the fact that your stools are the window to your intestines and the proof of intestinal health or hardship. Here is what you want to see:
 1)
Your stools should be large in diameter, indicating no inflammation of your GI tract.  They should generally be about one inch or larger in diameter and be medium brown in color. 
2) Stools should be well formed and in one piece. Stools that are smaller in diameter could be an indication of an inflamed colon. 
3) Your stools should float-well, most of the time! Floating indicates the presence of friendly flora in your colon. Please make sure that these are healthy stools that are floating. The loose ones that are barely formed and light in color are not the perfect floater you are looking for! If your stools sink more often than they float, this might indicate a lack of good flora in your intestinal tract. 
4) You should not see undigested food-usually vegetables-in your stools.
5) Skin that is healthy and smooth with very few eruptions is also indicative of a healthy GI tract.
6) Urine that is light yellow in color and does not have a strong odor tells you that friendly flora is producing B vitamins in the colon.
 
So, just to sum up, foods that produce poor quality stools include white rice, white bread, pasta made from white flour, any product made from white sugar or white flour and meats cooked at high temperatures. 
 
Foods that produce healthy stools include squash, pumpkins, carrots, yams, dark green vegetables (especially when eaten raw), whole grains cooked at lower temperatures, whole grain breads, hot breakfast cereal (oat bran), pasta from spelt, and raw garlic.
 
At all costs, avoid foods with preservatives! 
 
Well, that is about all I have to say today on this topic, but I assure you there is more to come!  It might at first seem embarrassing to discuss our bowels, but it shouldn't: they are vital to our ability to live long and healthy lives and an important indicator of our overall health. 
 
When you get to "My Favorite Things to Eat," you will find two recipes to increase the friendly flora in your body! 
 
 
Some of the information for this article came from Immune Restoration Handbook, 2nd ed. by M. Konlee and C. LeBeau.


 

 
 
My favorite things to eat!
 

 
Probiotic Powerhouses!
 
As I mentioned in the "Did You Know" article, good or friendly flora is vital to your health and overall wellness; therefore, I thought it apropos to include two very good recipes for doing just that.  The first one you take more as a medicinal supplement and the second one you will actually enjoy!
 
Make your own fiber/pectin/probiotic blend. Pretty sexy, huh?
 
In a bowl combine:
1 cup ground psyllium seed or freshly ground flax seed.
½ cup citrus or apple pectin
¼ cup of a blend of probiotics (without maltodextrin added). The blend must include, at minimum, L Acidophilus and B Longum. (You can pick these up at your local natural food store)
 
Mix all ingredients and store in refrigerator.
 
Use one teaspoon in a glass of water before meals, 1 to 3 times per day. Continue using until stools are normal in appearance-large diameter, medium brown-and float on water most of the time. Then reduce to one serving daily to maintain. 
 
Quick Kimchi!
 
Kimchi is a South Korean household meal.  Koreans eat more than 1.5 million tons of these pickled vegetable dishes annually. It has been a staple food for centuries and is now becoming more widely available in American supermarkets! You can pick it up at an Asian market, but it is not too hard to make yourself, if you like!
 
Kimchi is not only a great probiotic, good for producing high levels of beneficial bacteria, but it is also loaded with vitamin C and phytonutrients.  The crushed garlic is thought to act as a decongestant.  Kimchi also contains powerful antioxidants that are great for boosting the immune system and reducing infection.  It is rich in capsaicin, which is believed to kill harmful microbes and it also has ginger, which is an Ayurvedic remedy for coughs and colds.  However, the point of adding this to the list of my favorites is because of its probiotic qualities.  You already know that our intestines are home to trillions of beneficial microbes that can be decimated by illness, stress, poor diet, and antibiotics. When these create an imbalance, harmful bacteria begin to grow, wreaking havoc with our immune system and overall health. 
 
For Kimchi to be effective, scientists say, it should be properly fermented and eaten two to three weeks after it's made, when the lactic acid and bacteria and vitamin levels peak. 
 
Here is what you need:
You will first need a one-gallon glass jar with a tight-fitting lid.
 
2 Napa cabbages
1 medium daikon radishKimchi
¼ cup coarse sea salt
1 cup water
4 green onions, cut into 2-inche lengths
7 garlic cloves, minced
2 tbsp. minced or grated ginger
2 tbsp. Korean chili powder (available at Asian markets)
 
Rinse cabbages and cut crosswise into 2-inch lengths.  Peel the daikon, cut lengthwise into quarters, then into pieces about ½ inch thick.
Dissolve salt in water. Place cabbages and daikon in a large bowl and pour the salt water over them.  Let sit at least 6 hours or overnight.
Drain the vegetables, reserving water.  Return the cabbages and daikon to the bowl and add green onions, garlic, ginger, and chili powder.  Mix well. Pack the mixture into a 1-gallon glass jar.  Slowly pour the reserved salty water over the vegetables to cover, leaving about 1 inch of space on top.  Tightly close the jar.
Place the jar in a cool; dark place for 2 to 3 days, depending on how pickled you like your Kimchi. Refrigerate for up to 2 weeks.
  
 
Bon Appetite!!

                                                          




 
Where to go and what to do to GET STARTED!

If you can say Yes! I am ready to get started!  this is the link to the blog page that will explain how to go about doing it. You don't have to read it all in one sitting! Please take your time, absorb my words, and when you fully understand where I intend to take you, read on.  The journey we will take together might be a long one, but it promises to be unforgettable. The first step is committing to yourself. From there, you will begin the work of finally identifying why you are where you are, and how you got there. The moment you can honestly own your personal truth, you will have reached your goal. The rest is simply a matter of time.  Enjoy the ride!  
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Berta is a respected weight loss counselor who has educated and empowered hundreds of women JUST LIKE YOU to lose the excess weight that prevents them from living their dream and becoming the woman they were meant to be.

 

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