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Why is it called Speaking is Sexy?
When what someone says and how they say it sends chills up and down your spine, that's sexy!
Whether you're giving a speech, having a conversation, saying your wedding vows, teaching your kids, exhorting your sales team, or talking in your sleep, if someone is listening, you are inspiring them. It's important to remember that whenever you speak, someone is influenced by each word you say.
Be a positive influence. Be an inspiration. That's very sexy. |
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If you are...
- Currently speaking in public,
- Thinking of speaking in public, but procrastinating like crazy,
- Afraid to speak in public,
- Envious of people who speak confidently in public, or
- Would just like a few tips on how you can speak better than they do...
This newsletter will give you tips and techniques to become the accomplished speaker you've always longed to be.
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MARION CLAIRE coaches solopreneurs, business owners, middle managers and executives who want to become calm, confident, unique and sexy speakers who influence and inspire others with the power of their voice. www.marionclaire.com
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What's Marion Up To Now? Host/Emcee at the Women's Network of the West L.A. Chamber of Commerce on Thursday, September 27, 2012 at the Olympic Collection in West Los Angeles, featuring Guest Speaker, Capt. Evangelyn Nathan, Commanding Officer of the West L.A. Police Department. If you're in the vicinity, please come to this exciting networking event, dinner and wine included. To register, go to www.westlachamber.org and click on Events Calendar.
Time Is Running Out! Don't Miss my Summer Special on Speeches for Special Occasions Do you need to speak at your son's wedding, your daughter's engagement party, your mother's milestone birthday or your father's retirement party? Not sure what to say or how to say it? Need someone to help you become a unique and sexy speaker for this very special occasion? Let me make it easier for you. We'll work together over the phone, fast but thorough, and you'll have your speech in record time. Why struggle all by yourself when you can get it done the easy way? Email me at marion@marionclaire.com Subject: I need a speech!, or call 310/659-8956 and tell me what you need. Take advantage of my Special Summer Discount until September 30th. Be smart. Get help. You'll be delighted you did! ~~~~~~~~~~~~
Have you heard about my upcoming book, SECRETS OF A UNIQUE & SEXY SPEAKER? It's a Handbook of Speaking Tips used by experts that you can keep in your pocket or desk for a bit of quick help to make you look and sound like a sexy professional speaker.
If you'd like to be on my special Advance List to be the first to have the opportunity to purchase a copy, please send your request to me at: Marion@marionclaire.com
This is a book for speakers of all levels, from beginners to experienced. You're sure to find in it helpful Speaking Tips for any type of speech or speaking occasion that will save you time and uncertainty and make creating your next presentation a joy instead of a struggle!
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YOUR UNIQUE AND SEXY SPEAKER AT YOUR NEXT EVENT!
"Marion Claire brings light into the room as she sets everyone at ease so they are ready to learn. Our team mostly had no experience in public speaking, and so were shy and stumbling at first, but gained confidence quickly under Marion's effective guidance. They were left with solid information that they could use as they practiced putting speeches together and then giving them. And as a seasoned speaker myself, I nonetheless learned a thing or two to make my speaking more effective."
~Pauline Field, Chair, www.5050Leadership.org
Looking for a speaker for your next event? Want to know what it means to "Be a Unique and Sexy Speaker!"? Let me show you ASAP!
You need a speaker who walks her talk. I'll be delighted to speak to your group in your neighborhood. Just let me know what you need. I'll customize a program for you and show your group time-tested techniques that'll make them the speakers they've always wanted to be.
Send me an email at: Marion@marionclaire.com or call me at 310/659-8956.
All you need to do is ask!
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5 MAGIC KEYS TO CREATING ANY SPEECH!
Knowing the answers to these Five Questions will enable you to create a fabulous speech for almost any occasion. Download your Free Report now and make creating your next speech so much easier!
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Speaking Is Sexy Tip #21, Vol. 3
Do You Really Need Power Point?
Business Week Magazine Online recently published an article called "Death to Power Point" by Bob Parks** that advocates the 'less is more' philosophy... less Power Point may be more beneficial to your speech and your audience. Considering that millions and millions of computers are equipped with Power Point, and it's ubiquitous in presentations all around the globe, is this heresy or simply another way of thinking out of the box?
Admittedly, using Power Point can be called the lazy presenter's program of choice. Many folks simply put the key points of the speech outline on slides and then just read the slides. No need to remember the sequence of the talk, how Point A relates to Point B and so on, it's all right there on the screen. Having your outline on your slides also avoids the need to hold 3x5 cards or stand behind a podium in order to read your notes. You can move around the room and get right down among your listeners as the pointer highlights the items on each slide. Technically, Power Point can be your virtual assistant keeping you on track with a minimum of effort.
However, does using Power Point make you a better speaker? Is your goal simply to get your information across quickly and with the least effort on your part? Did the audience come simply to learn the subject or did they come to gain your personal insights that you've garnered over years of studying it, working with it, and teaching it to others. Would they get just as much if you simply gave them a handout of your slides, or does your presentation need the human touch that only you can provide?
There's also the Power Point resentment factor. That's the feeling of some listeners that they wasted their time attending this event when the speaker could have just sent the slides to their computer for them to read. If the speaker isn't someone whose experience and expertise make him worth listening to, why bother to show up? Most businesspeople are way too busy to attend a conference, workshop, seminar or dinner meeting that doesn't give them the big bang for their buck they came for.
So if Power Point has reached its saturation point, what should you do instead?
Tell a story!
Probably 99% of the subjects that a speaker may present in the course of her working life lend themselves to storytelling. We're not talking about the "Once upon a time..." Mother Goose variety. Rather we're looking for metaphors, similes, aphorisms, personal experiences and whatever verbal images you can create that will give the audience a visual picture of what you're talking about. Humans understand and remember information better when they can relate it to something in their own experience. Couching your message in stories draws the audience into the action, encourages them to nod their heads in agreement or recognition, and gives them the feeling they are active participants instead of just passive spectators.
If you can turn your laundry list of facts and figures into a treasure hunt, your complex theory into a dialogue or a two-sided challenge, if you can relate your new process to taking a journey, running a race, competing and winning a prize, whatever image you can conjure up that challenges the audience to come along on the ride with you, that's your story. Your key points are the signposts on the highway to your goal or the episodes in your story, and your audience will be visualizing your journey right along with you.
Who needs Power Point when you can verbally create visual pictures using your personality, your experience, and above all, your desire to give the audience something valuable to take home with them?
What makes your presentation special is that you're the one who's giving it. You're one-of-a-kind. Anything you say is unique to you. Giving the audience insight into who you are doubles your effectiveness, and the audience will be much more likely to be influenced and inspired by what you say. You'll be the unique and sexy speaker they want to hear from again!
**http://www.businessweek.com/articles/2012-08-30/death-to-powerpoint
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There's Still Time!... In 2012 to become the Unique and Sexy Public Speaker you've always wanted to be!
"After working with Marion Claire, my fear of speaking in front of a group of people is practically gone. I still get a few pre-speech butterflies, which Marion assures me are totally normal, but my former severe anxiety has disappeared. Marion taught me simple techniques to release my pre-speech tension and build up my confidence. Her knowledge and easy-going manner make her very easy to work with. She's the real deal and I'm happy to recommend her."
--David Feldman, CPA
www.feldover.com
Give yourself a break! It's easier than you think to overcome your nervousness and increase your confidence. You don't need to be reluctant to get up to speak ever again. Amaze yourself at how quickly you can get rid of whatever is holding you back! Let me show you how to become the speaker you'd really like to be!
If the thought of giving a speech absolutely paralyzes you, it's time to change your thinking! You can overcome those debilitating fears. Let me show you a special process that focuses specifically on getting rid of the limiting beliefs that keep you from speaking with confidence and joy. At the same time, acquire tips and techniques that will make you a calm, confident, unique and sexy speaker every time! Smooth and Polish your present speaking skills! You can easily learn useful techniques that will increase your confidence and make you sound like a pro. Need to give a major speech for an important occasion? Can you use some guidance on writing and delivering it? In a very short time, you can learn how to organize your thoughts, create a winning presentation, and speak from your heart with authority and enthusiasm. Give yourself a gift that will last a lifetime. Talk to me confidentially about your special speaking needs. I'm always available for a *free* half-hour consultation at 310/659-8956 or email me at Marion@marionclaire.com. |
What Do My Readers Say?
I look forward to reading your 'Speaking is Sexy' newsletter, which always has some unique, thoughtful and important information that will help me in both my business and personal life. You have great insight, wisdom and practical tips to help guide me in my many speaking opportunities and coaching experiences. Thank you, Marion!
~Mary Berney, MSW, Executive Coach, DISC Trainer Ж Ж Ж Ж
Each month I read the tips in Speaking is Sexy and it helps me refresh my skills. As a lawyer, I need to be able to feel comfortable in giving speeches and the tips in the newsltter have continued to help me. Thank you Speaking is Sexy!
~Sharon Kopman, Attorney at Law
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Food for Thought
Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring... all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
~ Leo Buscaglia
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More about Marion Claire
My Secret Vice
If you're anything like me, there are things about yourself that you'd rather keep secret from the world. They don't have to be particularly serious or embarrassing. They may just be silly little vices, holdovers from your childhood that make you feel good but might make others look twice at you with one of those expressions that says, "When are you going to grow up?" Remember the movie "Citizen Kane" and his childhood sled that he called 'Rosebud'? I would venture to guess that we all have a secret like Rosebud. We don't talk about it. We don't want others to know about it. It may not even be a thing but rather a belief, a habit or a vain hope that we know will never do us any good, but we keep hanging onto it, anyway. My secret vice is a bad habit. I'm a procrastinator. If I'm going on a trip, do I start throwing things into the suitcase days ahead and make sure I have enough clean underwear and the proper outfits for every possible occasion? Of course not! I wait til the night before. I'm the one frantically doing the laundry at 2a.m., trying on slacks and shirts to see if they match, snatching extra pairs of shoes out of the closet, lifting my suitcase, finding it's too heavy, and then pulling stuff out again just as frantically as I put it in. I publish this newsletter twice a month. Do I write my Speaking Tips in advance? Are you kidding? Seeing the deadline in front of me apparently focuses my attention better than anything else because more often than not I only manage to get the copy ready at the very last minute for it to get out on time. I'm a professional speaker. Yet often I'm creating my presentations just a couple of days, sometimes hours, before I have to give them. That's a deep, dark secret. No one is supposed to know that. I'll bet you, though, that I'm not the only professional speaker who's guilty of this bad habit. Of course, I've already done the research. I know who I'm speaking to, how long I'm going to speak and what the focus of my presentation will be. I've talked to whoever invited me to speak and I know all the details I'll need. Still, actually sitting down and creating my speech... boy, do I procrastinate! I suppose there's a deep psychological reason why I like to leave things to the last minute. Maybe someday it'll bother me enough to find out what it is. In the meantime, I confess that there's something about the adrenaline rush of being up against the gun that appeals to my sense of drama. I just seem to get the job done better and faster when I don't have all the time in the world to accomplish it. That's my secret vice. Well, one of them, anyway.
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