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    Focus On The Gift, Not The Giver              

      For some people, just the mere thought of giving a speech makes their stomach turn flip-flops, their hands go all sweaty, and it's suddenly really hard to breathe. If asked, these folks will say, "I don't know why I freeze up and feel like I'm going to die, I just do." Or they'll look deep into their past and remember the time in the 6th grade spelling bee when they got so nervous they couldn't spell their own name. They don't remember why they failed. All that has stayed with them is the 30 pairs of eyes staring at them, the teacher in the corner glaring at them, and that awful shaky feeling that came over them from head to toe, making uttering a coherent word all but impossible. After an experience like that, who wouldn't be afraid of getting up in front of the room to speak?

      The interesting thing about the fear of speaking is that it's not actually saying the words that people are afraid of. Speaking is easy. We do it all day, every day. The fear comes from what we think the reaction of the audience will be. Doesn't matter who the audience is, something buried deep in our subconscious tell us, "Whatever you say, the audience won't like it. So save yourself from embarrassment, humiliation, ridicule, failure or anything else bad you can think of. Don't get up to speak!"

      However, there's another part of you... the conscious part... that knows that you have something to say that's important for people to hear. You can provide a service or a product or advice or something else that will make their lives better. You know you have a great gift to offer. You also want to help people benefit from what you know. The conscious part of you knows they'll be glad to have your gift, and that they'll like and appreciate you for giving them the chance to get it. There just seems to be that gap between knowing that the audience needs what you have to give and actually giving it.

      What can you do to bridge that gap?

      There's a saying that's been around for awhile, "If you believe you can, or you believe you can't, you're right." The key word is believe!

      What do you believe about yourself and the gift you want to give your audience? Do you believe your audience needs to receive your gift? Do you believe you have the expertise you need to present it in the best possible light? Do you believe it actually will make life better for the people who get it? If you can answer 'yes' to these questions, you're halfway to creating a speech you're going to be happy to give.

      Here's another great saying: "Focus on the gift, not on the giver!"

      When you focus on how terrific your gift is, when your attention is devoted to showing the audience how much they'll benefit from it, how important it is, how much it's going to change their lives, you'll be so busy thinking about them... you'll be so clear about the good it's going to do for them... that you won't have room in your head to think about anything else.

            When you are focused on the good you're doing for someone else, you can't possibly be thinking about yourself. When you believe that your message is valuable and important, you won't need to think about how you're delivering it. The human brain is so constructed that we can only handle one thought at a time in any given moment. We think sequentially... one thought after another. As long as we are totally focused on thinking about the great good we're offering to the audience, we'll forget completely to think about ourselves. We won't have time or room in our brains. It's just a physical impossibility. It's only when we stop focusing on the message that we have time to think about the messenger.

            What would your life be like if you could get up and  speak? What would you have that you don't have now? What would you think of yourself if you could overcome this little problem? How would you feel if, the next time you have to face an audience, you'd know you have a gift

worth giving, and that your audience will benefit hugely from everything you have to say?

      Think about that. Think about the great gift you have to offer. Think about how you'll feel when your audience comes up to thank you for making their lives better.

      Focus on your gift. The rest will take care of itself.