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Why is it called Speaking is Sexy?
When what someone says and how they say it sends chills up and down your spine, that's sexy!
Whether you're giving a speech, having a conversation, saying your wedding vows, teaching your kids, exhorting your sales team, or talking in your sleep, if someone is listening, you are inspiring them. It's important to remember that whenever you speak, someone is influenced by each word you say.
Be a positive influence. Be an inspiration. That's very sexy. |
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If you are...
- Currently speaking in public,
- Thinking of speaking in public, but procrastinating like crazy,
- Afraid to speak in public,
- Envious of people who speak confidently in public, or
- Would just like a few tips on how you can speak better than they do...
This newsletter will give you tips and techniques to become the accomplished speaker you've always longed to be.
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MARION CLAIRE coaches solopreneurs, business owners, middle managers and executives who want to become calm, confident, unique and sexy speakers who influence and inspire others with the power of their voice. www.marionclaire.com
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What's Marion Up To Now? Featuring my Summer Special on Speeches for Special Occasions Do you need to speak at your son's wedding, your daughter's engagement party, your mother's milestone birthday or your father's retirement party? Not sure what to say or how to say it? Need someone to help you become a unique and sexy speaker for this very special occasion? Let me make it easier for you. We'll work together over the phone, fast but thorough, and you'll have your speech in record time. Why struggle all by yourself when you can get it done the easy way? Email me at marion@marionclaire.com Subject: I need a speech!, or call 310/659-8956 and tell me what you need. Take advantage of my Special Summer Discount between now and September 3rd. Be smart. Get help. You'll be delighted you did! ~~~~~~~~~~~~
My book, SECRETS OF A UNIQUE & SEXY SPEAKER, is moving along just fine again. The book is a Handbook of Speaking Tips used by experts that you can keep in your pocket or desk for a bit of quick help to make you look and sound like a sexy professional speaker.
If you'd like to be on my special Advance List to be the first to have the opportunity to purchase a copy, please send your request to me at: Marion@marionclaire.com
This is a book for speakers of all levels, from beginners to experienced. You're sure to find in it helpful Speaking Tips for any type of speech or speaking occasion that will save you time and uncertainty and make creating your next presentation a joy instead of a struggle!
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YOUR UNIQUE AND SEXY SPEAKER AT YOUR NEXT EVENT!
"Marion Claire brings light into the room as she sets everyone at ease so they are ready to learn. Our team mostly had no experience in public speaking, and so were shy and stumbling at first, but gained confidence quickly under Marion's effective guidance. They were left with solid information that they could use as they practiced putting speeches together and then giving them. And as a seasoned speaker myself, I nonetheless learned a thing or two to make my speaking more effective."
~Pauline Field, Chair, www.5050Leadership.org
Looking for a speaker for your next event? Want to know what it means to "Be a Unique and Sexy Speaker!"? Let me show you ASAP!
You need a speaker who walks her talk. I'll be delighted to speak to your group in your neighborhood. Just let me know what you need. I'll customize a program for you and show your group time-tested techniques that'll make them the speakers they've always wanted to be.
Send me an email at: Marion@marionclaire.com or call me at 310/659-8956.
All you need to do is ask!
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Go to www.marionclaire.com and on the Home page, you will find a link to download this valuable speaking tool:
5 MAGIC KEYS TO CREATING ANY SPEECH!
Knowing the answers to these Five Questions will enable you to create a fabulous speech for almost any occasion. Download your Free Report now and make creating your next speech so much easier!
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Speaking Is Sexy Tip #18, Vol. 3
Do You Really Need To Rehearse?
You've been asked to give a speech at an important occasion on a subject you know well. It could be a company conference, an end of the year holiday party, your son's wedding or your colleague's retirement roast. You've done your research, created a great power point program, made sure you have all the equipment you'll need, and written a speech you're proud of. Your big moment is tomorrow and everything is ready. You won't be forced to stay up til the wee hours the night before, polishing your copy. In fact, you've done everything you can think of to make this a successful presentation.
There's just one thing you haven't made time for. When are you going to get out your secret weapon? When are you going to rehearse?
Do you really need to practice your speech out loud beforehand? You've read and re-read it a couple dozen times. You've transferred it to 3x5 cards or created an outline in large type that you'll have no trouble following. You've planned exactly where to change each power point slide or demonstrate a visual aid. You know which ones are your biggest jokes that have always worked before, and where to pause to give the audience time to laugh. You're ready... or so you think.
There are some speakers who seem able to stand in front of the room and crack jokes, tell stories, look us straight in the eye, shower us with their magnetism, and it looks like they just got up and did it, like they've never had to rehearse a single word ever in their entire life. You want to be like that. You've done all this preparation. You should be able to sail through it with no trouble, don't you think?
Do yourself a favor! Use your secret weapon!
How do you get to Carnegie Hall? Practice, practice, practice!
There's a ton of truth in that old joke. No matter how sure of yourself you are beforehand, if you don't rehearse your presentation, you're leaving yourself open for disaster. The speakers who seem to speak naturally, off-the-cuff? Don't kid yourself. They've given their speech many times before and they've probably rehearsed every time... when you weren't looking!
There's a world of difference between reading your speech to yourself and saying it out loud. Many things will be different aloud vs. just hearing them inside your head.
Does a sentence that sounded brilliant in your head sound like gibberish out loud? A sentence that sounds smooth and clear in your head, when you say it aloud you may find it's too long, too convoluted, or it contains too much information for the audience to swallow in one gulp. You need to break it up into shorter sentences. Every time you do that, your speech gets a little longer. How much time do you have? If you need to rewrite several sentences to make them clearer when you say them, will your talk still fit into its allotted time?
If you see that your speech is running too long, what will you cut out? Are you prepared to abbreviate a section or cut it out entirely on the spot? If it looks like you aren't going to have time for your killer joke, or your absolutely imperative call to action, what will you do? How will you know if your speech is going to accomplish all that you want it to in the 30 minutes you've been given to be brilliant?
When you rehearse, you'll find all the spots that run too long or too short. If the previous speaker steals some of your time, you'll be prepared to cut so that even though you have to 'speak shorter', you won't have to omit your most important points or, worse, try the patience of your audience because they've been sitting too long already and have tuned out.
The more you rehearse, the more comfortable you'll feel about every word, and the more comfortable you'll appear to the audience. They'll think you're one of those speakers who is able to create a speech effortlessly on the spot. They'll admire you and think you're brilliant. Only you will know about your secret weapon!
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There's Still Time!... In 2012 to become the Unique and Sexy Public Speaker you've always wanted to be!
Give yourself a break! It's easier than you think to overcome your nervousness and increase your confidence. You don't need to be reluctant to get up to speak ever again. Amaze yourself at how quickly you can get rid of whatever is holding you back! Let me show you how to become the speaker you'd really like to be!
If the thought of giving a speech absolutely paralyzes you, it's time to change your thinking! You can overcome those debilitating fears. Let me show you a special process that focuses specifically on getting rid of the limiting beliefs that keep you from speaking with confidence and joy. At the same time, acquire tips and techniques that will make you a calm, confident, unique and sexy speaker every time! Smooth and Polish your present speaking skills! You can easily learn useful techniques that will increase your confidence and make you sound like a pro. Need to give a major speech for an important occasion? Can you use some guidance on writing and delivering it? In a very short time, you can learn how to organize your thoughts, create a winning presentation, and speak from your heart with authority and enthusiasm. Give yourself a gift that will last a lifetime. Talk to me confidentially about your special speaking needs. I'm always available for a *free* half-hour consultation at 310/659-8956 or email me at Marion@marionclaire.com. |
What Do My Readers Say?
I look forward to reading your 'Speaking is Sexy' newsletter, which always has some unique, thoughtful and important information that will help me in both my business and personal life. You have great insight, wisdom and practical tips to help guide me in my many speaking opportunities and coaching experiences. Thank you, Marion!
~Mary Berney, MSW, Executive Coach, DISC Trainer Ж Ж Ж Ж Each month I read the tips in Speaking is Sexy and it helps me refresh my skills. As a lawyer, I need to be able to feel comfortable in giving speeches and the tips in the newsletter have continued to help me. Thank you Speaking is Sexy! ~Sharon Kopman, Attorney at Law
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Food for Thought
As I walked out the door to my freedom, I knew that if I didn't leave all the anger, hatred and bitterness behind, that I would still be in prison.
~ Nelson Mandela (Age 94 in July 2012)
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More about Marion Claire
Revealing an Embarrassing Secret
We all have an embarrassing secret that we don't want to reveal because we're afraid people will think less of us if we do so. For many, many years I hid mine. I was sure that people would look at me strangely or not want to be around me if they knew I was less than perfect.
Boy, was I wrong!
The thing about hiding the truth about yourself is that you are depriving yourself and the folks you come in contact with of the opportunity to have an honest relationship with you. True, you don't want to just blurt out your deepest feelings or most painful memories at inappropriate moments. You want to be sure your revelations will be received with kindness, consideration and sympathy, and not with distaste, anger or ridicule.
But it is far better to be open about the things you cannot change that have shaped who you are. Facing the secrets of the past helps you understand yourself and it helps others understand you. And with understanding come the gifts of appreciation, sympathy, empathy, and love.
So here's the embarrassing secret I used to be afraid to reveal.
For over 20 years, I suffered from agoraphobia, the fear of crossing open spaces. Sometimes I couldn't leave my house for more than five minutes, without scurrying back inside.
My enemy was not the great outdoors. It was simply fear.
Everyone experiences fear on occasion. And everyone's fear is a little bit different, personal to the individual. Mine was fear of being alone out in the world. I didn't feel safe by myself. Although I was perfectly content to live on my own, I needed the comfort and companionship of someone I knew well whenever I ventured out of the safety of my home. No way could I dream of getting up to speak in front of a room full of strangers!
I'm so proud to say that I overcame my fear. It took, first of all, the courage to admit there was something wrong. Then came the desire to fix it and to seek out the help I needed to overcome it.
And wow! Look at me now!
Today I speak in front of groups of all sizes, shapes and interests. If I can do it, so can you! Let me help you. Contact me at Marion@marionclaire.com.
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