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Why is it called Speaking is Sexy?
When what someone says and how they say it sends chills up and down your spine, that's sexy!
Whether you're giving a speech, having a conversation, saying your wedding vows, teaching your kids, exhorting your sales team, or talking in your sleep, if someone is listening, you are inspiring them. It's important to remember that whenever you speak, someone is influenced by each word you say.
Be a positive influence. Be an inspiration. That's very sexy. |
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If you are...
- Currently speaking in public,
- Thinking of speaking in public, but procrastinating like crazy,
- Afraid to speak in public,
- Envious of people who speak confidently in public, or
- Would just like a few tips on how you can speak better than they do...
This Newsletter will give you tips and techniques to become the cool, confident speaker you've always longed to be. |
SPEAKER'S TIP #12
Expect to Be Brilliant
When you get up to give a speech, what reaction do you hope to get from the audience? What will be your grade on your own inner report card? Do you expect to give an extraordinary speech that will have them on their feet whistling and stamping, or do you expect to be a flop? Do you expect to go from start to finish smoothly, confidently, without a hitch or a glitch, or do you expect to forget something really important in the middle? What are your expectations when you get up to speak? Have you ever split yourself in two while talking in front of the room? One half of your brain is busy giving your speech and thinking, "This is the information you came for. This is the message you want to hear. Listen up, because this is really interesting stuff and you'll gain terrific benefits from it," while the other half is playing saboteur going, "Uh-oh, did I leave anything out? Are they listening? They look bored. They're not paying attention. I feel faint. My mouth is dry. My hands are shaking. They think I'm making a fool of myself. Why did I think I could do this? I'm no good. I'm a failure! Aaarrrrghgghg!" You've heard the popular saying: "If you believe you can, or you believe you can't...you're right!" It absolutely applies to overcoming fears about public speaking. Whatever you choose to believe about your ability to impress an audience will come true. It's a fact. People who expect to be successful achieve their expectations. Whether you're running a business, writing a book or making a speech, if you believe you can, you will. If you can sincerely say to yourself, "I know my subject, I've rehearsed what I'm going to say, I'm prepared to respond to anything the audience might ask of me, I'm ready to do a bang-up job and I expect to speak extremely well..." then there's no doubt about it. You've set yourself up for success. Your expectation is firm and realistic, you've prepared yourself for this moment, you expect to succeed. Consciously or unconsciously, you've chosen to be a winner. You won't be focusing inward on "How am I doing?" while you're speaking. You'll be concentrating on giving the gift of your knowledge, making your message land. You won't trip over your tongue, or forget something important, suddenly get hot flashes or dry mouth or feel faint. None of those things will happen because you've chosen to be brilliant.
Believe that you can and expect that you will! Your expectations always determine your choices. When you expect to be a successful speaker, you'll make the choices that ensure that you are. Expect to be brilliant. You'll be amazed at what you can achieve!
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Want to use this Speaking Tip in your Newsletter or Blog? You can as long as you include this entire blurb: For over ten years, Marion Claire has coached entrepreneurs, executives, professionals and just plain folks to become the confident speakers they longed to be. She's the author of the forthcoming book, "Speaking Is Sexy: How to Inspire with the Power of Your Voice", due in 2010. She will also help you write your speeches for almost any occasion. For more information about Marion and her programs, check out her website at http://www.marionclaire.com
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Just about anyone can become a confident speaker. All you need to know are a few tricks of the trade and you, too, can wow them on the podium. " How to Speak to Any Audience with Charm and Chutzpah" my three-session coaching program, will help you: Learn how to make your audience your new best friend
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Discover techniques that'll make your listeners hang onto your words from start to finish
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Check your fears at the door and feel like a superhero whenever you get up to speak Give yourself a gift that will last a lifetime. Amaze yourself and amuse your friends. Let me help you become the speaker no one believed you could be. For more information, email Marion@marionclaire.com. |
What do people say about Marion Claire?
"Marion's coaching sessions were inspiring. I learned more in two hours than a whole weekend seminar. She really impressed me with her professionalism, her delightful attitude and great passion for coaching. Marion's encouragement and support have given me the confidence to stand in front of a large audience and actually enjoy giving presentations."
~ R. Sawdayi, Shopzilla, Inc.
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Need a Dynamic Speaker at Your Next Meeting or Event?
Choose from:
- You Can Be a Sexy Speaker! Let the Power of Your Voice Make You Irresistible in Front of Any Audience
- Five Secrets Every Great Speaker Knows: How to Leave Your Fear at the Door and Love Being the Center of Attention
- When You Speak, Everybody Listens: The Four Things You Must Do to Persuade Your Audience to Follow You Anywhere
...or, ask me for a talk that addresses your special needs. Feel free to contact me if you have a last minute cancellation by your previously scheduled speaker. Marion@marionclaire.com |
More about Marion Claire
For over 20 years, I suffered from agoraphobia, the fear of crossing open spaces. In those days, getting up to speak in front of five people or five hundred was a major trauma. For days beforehand I shivered in fright, felt faint, fought down waves of nausea, and imagined all the embarrassing things that could possibly happen, from forgetting my name to fainting dead away. It was a sheer act of will to force myself to go through it at all.
That was then, this is now! Today I speak in front of groups of all sizes, shapes and interests. If I can go from a terrified puppy to a calm, confident lioness, so can you! I'll be happy to share my secrets to becoming an elegant, compelling speaker at any professional or personal event. Whatever your speaking problem, let me help you overcome it. Contact me at Marion@marionclaire.com.
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