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Do any of these apply to you?
- You're currently speaking in public.
- You're thinking of speaking in public.
- You know you need to speak in public but you're procrastinating like crazy.
- You're afraid to speak in public.
- You envy people who speak confidently in public.
- You'd like a few tips on how you can speak better than they do.
This Newsletter is for you. Each issue offers a Tip on some aspect of public speaking. You'll learn, as painlessly as possible, tips and techniques to become the cool, confident speaker you've always longed to be.
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SPEAKER'S TIP #1
The audience is your friend!
When you think about facing an audience, do you visualize them with their pockets full of rotten apples and tomatoes, just waiting to throw them at you? Do you hear a chorus of 'boos'? Do you want to run away and hide where no one can see you?
Whoa! Take it easy! Take a deep breath. That's not going to happen. Honest!
It's a total myth that the audience is waiting to criticize you. The truth is the audience is on your side. They want to hear what you have to say. They want to applaud you because you're giving them something they need and are totally grateful for.
 Think of a nest of baby birds, looking up at the Mama Bird, with their mouths open, chirping away at her, "Feed me! Feed me!" They can't wait to be fed.
Your audience is just like that. They're waiting for you to feed them the knowledge you have and they came to get. They want to leave the room knowing something they didn't know when they walked in. They want to take your knowledge home with them, and they're so happy you're here to give them what they want.
Your knowledge is the gift they came to receive. Do you know anyone who's not happy to receive a gift? They'll love you for giving them something valuable they can use and make a part of their lives. They'll remember you as the one who gave them this terrific gift, and they'll want to hear from you again.
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Want to use this Speaking Tip in your Newsletter or Blog?
You can as long as you include this entire blurb: For over ten years, Marion Claire has coached business owners, executives, artists, entrepreneurs and just plain folks to become the confident speakers they longed to be. She's the author of the forthcoming book, "Speaking Is Sexy: How to Inspire with the Power of Your Voice", tips on how to be a consummate speaker, due in Winter, 2010. She will also help you write your speeches for almost any occasion. For more information about Marion and her programs, email Marion@marionclaire.com or visit www.marionclaire.com. |
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Why is it called "Speaking Is Sexy"? Every time we say a word, we're inspiring someone with the power of our voice. Think of some great speakers: Franklin D. Roosevelt: "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself!" John F. Kennedy: "Ask not what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country!" Martin Luther King, Jr.: "I have a dream!" What they said and how they said it sends chills up and down our spine. That's sexy!
Whether you're giving a speech, having a conversation, saying your wedding vows, teaching your kids, exhorting your sales team, or talking in your sleep, if someone is listening, you are inspiring them. The results you get depend on what you say and how you say it at that moment. It's important to remember that whenever you speak, someone is influenced by each word you say. Be a positive influence. Be an inspiration. That's very, very sexy.
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 Looking for a dynamic, entertaining Speaker for your next Meeting or Event?Let me customize a talk especially for your group. Choose from such topics as "How to Speak Like a Pro" or "How to Inspire with the Power of Your Voice" or I'll create a speech that specifically addresses your needs. Feel free to contact me if you have a last minute cancellation by your previously scheduled speaker. Email me at Marion@marionclaire.com or visit www.marionclaire.com. |
About Marion Claire
For over 20 years, I suffered from agoraphobia, the fear of crossing open spaces. Often I couldn't leave my house, couldn't sit in a theater, couldn't enjoy dinner with friends in a restaurant. My anxiety level was over the top. No way could I dream of getting up to speak in front of a room of people! And yet, today I speak in front of groups of all sizes, shapes and interests. If I can do it, so can you! Ask me how! Email me at Marion@marionclaire.com or visit www.marionclaire.com. |
 Take your speaking skills to the next level!It's a lot easier than you think to become the confident, exciting speaker you want to be. In just a few short sessions, you can tweak the skills you already have and learn the simple techniques professional speakers use to shine on the platform. Whatever the occasion, let me help you become a dynamic, delightful speaker. Email me at Marion@marionclaire.com or visit www.marionclaire.com. |
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