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Newsletter for Writers - June 2012  

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ZenWritingRetreat
NEW EVENT LISTING!
August 3-5, 2012

Zen Mind, Writer's Mind
Alexander, North Carolina


Lake Logan Retreat

 Sept 30 - Oct 7, 2012  

The 10th Annual
Fearless Writing on the Blue Ridge Retreat
Early Bird Deadline Extended to July 20, 2012!
Canton, NC (Lake Logan)



Montreat in Fall
November 10 & 11, 2012
Follow the Pen: A Two-Day Journey to Fearless Writing
Montreat, North Carolina

 
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FromtheBookFrom the Book


My experience at Medjugorje
was my point of spiritual
integration. There have been
other times in my life
when I was aware of making a
major shift.

I can vividly recall the
moment at which I decided that
I could choose not to have
depression run my life.

This was a vivid moment
at the beginning of a long
process. My week in
Medjugorje, however,
turned my life inside out
immediately and permanently.


Marys Way YBND

Peggy Tabor Millin

 Mary's Way: Cultivating a Peaceful Heart inTrying Times

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Rock and Write
Practice. Practice. Practice.

Process before product.

Writing requires silence, solitude, space, and the courage and awareness to search our shadow side.

Write from the belly, not the brain; write from the heart, not the head.

The body with its intuition and our willingness to listen to what the body says are our greatest assets as writers.

Writing and publishing are not the same thing. If we write, we are writers. If we publish what we write, we are published writers. A published writer is not a better writer. A published writer is simply a writer who is published.


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Upcoming Retreat


Experience the
10th annual Fearless
Writing on the Blue
Ridge Retreat for Women.

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This 6-day, 7-night retreat provides ample time to sink into your writing. Here is the answer to all those times you've said, "If I only had the time!"
We inhabit our own village of cabins on the lake front. 

Spaces still available for
Peggy's
retreat at
 Lake Logan, North Carolina
Sept. 30 - Oct. 7, 2012.



Wordly Wise from Peggy Tabor Millin Peggy
 
Visiting Silence,
Meeting Self


Silent solitude makes true speech possible and personal. If I am not in touch with my own belovedness, then I cannot touch the sacredness of others. If I am estranged from myself, I am likewise a stranger to others.

Brennan Manning


My friends said they were leaving town. I asked, "May I stay at your house?" They said, "Of course." Finding myself a silent 3-day retreat 15 minutes from home was just that easy.

I'd told my husband what I wanted for my birthday: silence and solitude. I get hungry for it, ravenous, my soul becoming skeletal without this necessary food. My body exhausts itself without this nurturance.

blue ridge from Lake Logan My friends' home sits on a hill overlook the French Broad River valley. The Great Smokey Mountains fill the horizon with shades of blue, purple, and gray. My first two days were cool and rainy and I spent hours on their screened porch, almost at treetop level.

From my journal:
My practice is to listen to my body and my intuition and to "do" what "feels" right. I meditate, read, nap, cook, eat, wash dishes, bathe, nap again, journal, digest the rich teachings of Joel Goldsmith. I watch my mind, searching to see if I want to make one activity more worthy than another or if my mind skips to undone things at home and back again.

I'm surprised to find myself present with doing nothing but the next thing. I am able to sit and watch the clouds and able to transform the noise of the freeway that rises from the valley into the sounds of a stormy ocean.

Time stretches here. I'm not bored or lonely or worried or Millin's Hickory hurried. I am present to myself; the outside world with its lists seem to have vanished from my head.

I come into myself and the world comes right. I can do nothing meaningful except from this inner place.

I recommend you try it: silence, solitude, not doing. This is not easy. I've been on this road a long time and I still ignore my craving and longing for the food that truly nurtures me. Some find solitude and silence frightening: the idea of what voices might speak if the daily tapes of the mind are shut off. I understand. I'm not saying they are not.

And, I also know that the voice wanting to be heard is your own belovedness, your own true self that waits to embrace you and to lead you to the highest expression of your gifts. To be writers, to speak our truth, I believe we must be willing to enter this place.

Keep Writing!

 

Peggy   

 

To read about creating a retreat for yourself, read Peggy's newest blog entry on Writing out of Bounds 

 Books to Explore - What Peggy is Reading

 Blue Nights by Joan Didion
From the jacket: "... this new book by Joan Didion examines her thoughts, fears, and doubts regarding having children, illness, and growing old." This description probably doesn't send you racing to the bookstore, but like her previous book, The Year of Magical Thinking, Blue Nights pulls you deep into the mystery of life and the very real journey of being a parent. Literature is literature because it makes us think, wakes us up, and changes us. Didion and Blue Nights will do just that. Besides, her language is so saliently honest I will follow it anywhere.


Still Life by Louise Penny
The first in a mystery series by Canadian author, Louise Penny, Louise Penny Still Life introduces us to Chief Inspector Armand Gamache, the almost mythical village of Three Pines, and the culture and landscape of Quebec. Gamache falls somewhere between a detective and a philosopher, while still being human. His insights give the book depth.

At least three people independently recommended this series before I capitulated and checked out a book. I did not begin with Still Life and wished I had, so I strongly recommend reading this series in order. Penny pairs strong writing with a strong sense of place and history. This book is winner of the New Blood Dagger, Arthur Ellis, Barry, Anthony, and Dilys awards.
NewsYouNeedNews You Need to Know
Writing SubmissionsCreative Nonfiction seeks your true stories, well told, on any subject or theme. Submissions should be fewer than 4,000 words, written in narrative form, with compelling scenes, descriptive characters and dialog. Open year-round. Visit www.creativenonfiction.org for details

Changes in Live, a monthly online newsletter, is seeking personal essays from women of all ages. New writers are encouraged to submit their work. For submission guidelines and details, visit www.changesinlife.com

WOW! Women on Writing Summer 2012 Flash Fiction Contest, deadline for submissions is August 31, 2012. The mission of this contest is to inspire creativity, communication, and well-rewarded recognition to contestants. Entries are between 250--750 words. Click here for complete submission guidelines.


NCnewsNC News for Writers
Pen-Journal2012 Great Smokies Writing Program has released their schedule of classes for the fall. There are numerous offerings for writers of all levels and all genres including poetry, memoir, fiction, and writing for young readers. Visit their website for complete class listings.

Women on Words Poetry group meets at Malaprop's Bookstore/Cafe on the third Thursday of every month at 5pm. New members are always welcome. Women on Words is a poetry group where the members inspire and critique the presented poems.

Lenoir-Rhyne University offers a new Master of Arts in Writing through the Center for Graduate Studies of Asheville. Visit their website for more information and application details.


SpotlightClarityWorks Participant Spotlight: Julia Ryan
The Silence of the Ryans
I feel love, but I don't speak love; I got that from my mother. When I feel sad, I fight back tears; I got that from her too.

My four siblings share my inability to vocalize the three intimate, most-longed-to-hear words in the English language, "I love you." We communicate mostly by email and occasionally, we put it out there in the form of an "XO." We also show solidarity in our war on tears. We are Ryans, like the Ford F150, built tough.

I live a far piece from Ohio, where we grew up, raised by a single mother who summoned enough courage to leave a cheating and mentally-abusive husband in search of a better life for us. My four siblings stayed close to the mother ship, while I, the middle child, fled the grey skies, potholes and long-abandoned GM plants only to return occasionally, mostly for holidays, wedding and funerals.

As far as I know, my mother never told any of us that she loved us. She'd sign a letter or card, "Love, Mom," but that was as close as she ever came. And while I don't recall ever seeing my mother cry, there is that one story of how she wept when she gathered us to share the news that we were leaving my father. I was six at the time and have no recall. In any event, five apples fell amazingly close to the tree.

My mother died a month ago. We knew it was coming, as did she. In her last year, I stepped up my travel to Ohio, and when heading home, it took all I had to carry the combined weight of my burdened heart and my boarding pass. Giving her a gentle hug, I'd part with a simple, "I'll be back soon," which really meant, "I love you immensely." I never doubted her ability to break the code.

Two weeks after my last visit with my mother, my brother Pat phoned, "It's time. We will stay with Mom tonight." Understanding the gravity of the question to follow, he nearly chuckled when he asked, "Do you want me to hold the phone to her ear?"

"No need. She knows." My mother's daughter to the end.

"Do you want me to call you when it is over?" Dear Pat. Had my other siblings elected him as the one to keep me posted? Or as the oldest son, had he stepped up to this role? The latter, I suspect.

Expecting the call would come in the middle of the night, I asked Pat to send a text message. Without judgment, he accepted my communication plan.

At 1:11 a.m., an inappropriately cheerful musical note alerting of an incoming text message interrupted my non-slumber. I didn't reach for the phone that lay beside me in bed. Instead, I silently backed away from it and into the loving cocoon, Art, my fiancé, who pulled me close and held me as my love for my mother spilled from my eyes.

At the conclusion of my mother's funeral service, our family did something uniquely "Ryan." One by one, the five of us with our partners and our combined eleven children filed past the casket and each placed close to her body a tiny ceramic message bird carrying a small scroll with our final words to our dear mother and grandmother. The twenty-one-bird salute gave us an opportunity to say that which we had left unspoken. In my case, "Mom, we had a good life. You were a great mother. I wish you deep peace. I love you, Julie."

My mother left behind a message for us too. Five envelopes, one addressed to each of us, which held a poem she had typed--not written by her, but selected by her--that began, "When tomorrow starts without me . . ." At the top, she wrote my name and at the end, her handwritten closing, "All my love, Mom."
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Julie Ryan's story, The Silence of the Ryans, originally appeared online at Midlife Collage, winning the Mother's Day Julie Ryanwriting contest this year.

Julie is an Ohio native, now happily settled in Charlotte, North Carolina. She is an avid yogi, runner, traveler, and sometimes writer.

For more information about Midlife Collage, visit www.midlifecollage.com 
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KudosAnd the Kudos Go To...
...Alice Owens Johnson for being an International Merit Award Wiiner in the Poetry 2012 Alice Owens Johnson International Poetry Competition. Her poetry was judged exceptional in a remarkable international field. The letter from the Atlanta Review, sponsor of the contest, states, "From Iceland to Indonesia, New York to New Zealand, Poetry 22012 was truly a global celebration of the art of poetry"... this award "means that your work was judged to be on a world-class level, and that it was in serious competition for prizes and publication.  Your name will appear on a page of honor in our Fall Contest Issue."

In addition, Alice's poem "Piggly Wiggly Goes to the Funeral Home" is a finalist (out of 2600+ entries) in the Wergle Flomp Humor Poetry Contest sponsored by WinningWriters.com. And, the honors continue with the selection of her story "Tears and Flapdoodle" for publication in a textbook on humor and critical thinking to be published in the fall of 2012.

Alice has been a participant in many ClarityWorks classes and retreats. Her work has appeared in the O. Henry Festival of Short Stories and she was awarded the first prize in the literary magazine The Crucible.  Two of her short stories appear in the anthologies I Thought My Father Was God, edited by Paul Auster and Alice Redux: Tales of Alice in Wonderland and Lewis Carroll and others were published in Pembroke Magazine and The Guilford Review.



...Robin Gaiser
for being a finalist in the Grateful Steps Publishing's E-PUB Short Story Contest. Robin placed third with a short story titled Yellow, a story of loss in Viet Nam, and the aftermath of the tragedy back in the States, had its birth in a Peggy class. It has been chosen by Grateful Steps Press via a panel of judges including Keith Flynn and Laura Hope-Gill to be included in an anthology featuring well-know authors of WNC plus newcomers to the writing community.  This is the first short story contest sponsored by Grateful Steps with 40 some entries coming in; ten were chosen for the anthology.      
Her work will be published in hard copy and e-book along with ten other contestants.
An awards ceremony to honor the finalists is planned.
 
Robin is also an accomplished musician and composer and in mid-June released her third album,Garden Child, to honor the birth of a granddaughter.




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