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Newsletter for Writers - April 2012
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May 5-6, 2012Follow the Pen: A Two-Day Journey to Fearless WritingMontreat, North Carolina July 21-22, 2012Women, Writing and Soul-MakingNorth Carolina Arboretum Asheville, North Carolina (Details Coming Soon)
NEW EVENT LISTING! August 3-5, 2012Zen Mind, Writer's MindAlexander, North Carolina Sept 30 - Oct 7, 2012 The 10th AnnualFearless Writing on the Blue Ridge Retreat Canton, NC (Lake Logan) November 10 & 11, 2012Follow the Pen: A Two-Day Journey to Fearless WritingMontreat, North Carolina Visit the websitefor more details and all things ClarityWorks
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From the Book
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I want to share the precious and deeply held belief that motivated me to write this book: writing is a means for us, as women, to find our voice, and, while on that journey, to reveal our soul. The writing process gently and inexorably strips us clean when we open ourselves to this exploration. Releasing our truth is worth the risk because, when we give voice to our deeper truth, we effect change across seemingly impenetrable barriers. We change the world one word at a time.
Peggy Tabor MillinWomen, Writing, and Soul-Making
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Likeable Links
| DRAFT is a series of columns about the art and craft of writing, currently online on the website of the NY Times. This particular piece is entitled "Desperately Seeking Synonyms." Who could resist a title like this?
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Peggy's Monthly Reminder
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Practice Makes Possible Practice. Practice. Practice. Process before product.Writing requires silence, solitude, space, and the courage and awareness to search our shadow side.Write from the belly, not the brain; write from the heart, not the head.The body with its intuition and our willingness to listen to what the body says are our greatest assets as writers.Writing and publishing are not the same thing. If we write, we are writers. If we publish what we write, we are published writers. A published writer is not a better writer. A published writer is simply a writer who is published.-Peggy Tabor Millinexcerpts from Women, Writing, and Soul-Making
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 | | Nikky Finney - Acceptance Speech (National Book Award for Poetry) | Beautiful & deep - where hard things to say meet beautiful words to say them.
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Wordly Wise from Peggy Tabor Millin Mary's Way Rebirthed
Twenty years ago Celestial Arts published my book, Mary's Way: A Universal Story of Spiritual Growth Inspired by the Messages of Medjugorje. Although the events in my life that led to its writing, publication, and reprinting were amazingly synchronistic, its sales were less than impressive. The Bosnian war impacted the number of pilgrimages and affected interest in the appearance of the Virgin Mary at this particular site.
In the nineties, before the Internet and e-mail marketing, the book found its own readership by -- I was told -- falling off shelves into the right readers' hands. When Mary's Way was remaindered*, I felt that at some point it would be reborn and reborn with a new cover that illustrated the universality of Mary's message instead of her iconic image from the religious perceptive. Last year, I began feeling the nudge that the time was right. Many of us experience time speeding up, change occurring so rapidly we can scarcely blink. The Internet and other technologies increase our awareness of change - we can now watch the glaciers melting and rain forests shrinking in real time. We have proven that we can literally shop until the global community drops. We now know we cannot quickly return to that way of life and increasingly sense that we are moving toward a disruption that will force a major shift in direction. Individually, we can choose to be inwardly prepared for outer changes. For this reason I chose a more apt subtitle for Mary's Way: Cultivating a Peaceful Heart in Trying Times. Otherwise, the content is the same except for an additional introduction and updated information on the visionaries. We all need light on our life path, something basic and good to guide us no matter how dark things might look. The "way" of Mary's Way shines light on the stepping stones of a way to live while we go about our daily lives. The message is not a new one, but it is one for our time. Mary herself, an aspect of the Great Mother, grounds us in the simple practices of prayer and love within the context of the tradition of our choice. More than once in the messages at Medjugorje, Mary has said that man, not God, created the differences among religions: to God all religions are equal. Mary's Way: Cultivating a Peaceful Heart in Trying Times will officially be launched in May. Simultaneously I will launch a blog called "Writing Out of Bounds." Keep in touch by liking my Facebook fan page  . Keep Writing!
Peggy
*sold at a reduced price by the publisher after sales slowed
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Books to Explore - What Peggy is Reading | | The House in South Road by Joyce Storey This edition of The House in South Road integrates three books to tell the complete story of the author's life, from her birth near Bristol in 1917 to her writing of her story at age 66, and the stroke that left her blind. The reader visits pre-war life in Bristol, an era of chocolate factories and glamorous silent movies, follows Joyce through school, first job, first love, and into a mismatched marriage. We experience the war through her and continue to cheer on her dreams and increasing independence as a woman. I gobbled this book up like the feast it is. I was enthralled by the voice, the rich detail, and the pacing. The author's daughter, also the book's editor, says, "Joyce's story is riveting not just because of her strange background, not because it records part of an age gone by, but because she tells it with such brutal honesty and self-deprecating humor. And because, above all, she was a born story-teller, with an instinctive feeling for the power of words and their dramatic effect." I agree with every word of these sentences. I would add as well that good story telling does not always translate into writing as good as this. I would like to use this book as a text on memoir writing; it can teach writers so much. I was sorry when I'd finished. One note, the book is published in England but is available through online book dealers. |
News You Need to Know | | Inch Magazine, published by Bull City Press in Durham, NC, is a quarterly publication devoted to tiny poems (one to nine lines) and tiny fiction (less than 750 words). Submissions by established and emerging writers are being accepted for consideration. Deadline is ongoing. For more information: http://bullcitypress.com/submissions/
Narrative Magazine is now accepting submission for the annual Narrative Prize. This $4,000 prize is awarded for the best short story, novel excerpt, poem, or work of literary nonfiction published by a new or emerging writer. The deadline for entries for each year's award is June 15. See complete submission guidelines at: www.narrativemagazine.com/node/421. To see all submission categories available, see the website at: http://narrativemagazine.com/submit-your-work
Enter the 2nd annual Ridge to River Contest for an outstanding work of outdoor creative nonfiction. Winner receives $500, an MSR Pocket Rocket stove, and publication. Adventum, a biannual literary magazine of outdoor adventure writing, photography and haiku, publishes creative nonfiction, essays, and memoir pieces that explore some aspect of personal experience in the outdoors. Deadline: May 15, 2012. More details at: www.adventummagazine.com.
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NC News for Writers
| | Registration for the NC Writers' Network 2012 Spring Conference in Greensboro closes at the end of the day this Thursday, April 19th! If you're interested in attending a workshop at this event, don't delay. See the website at: www.ncwriters.org
Asheville Wordfest 2012 - HOME: Place and Planet will take place May 2-6, 2012 in Asheville, NC. This is the festival's fifth year of celebrating the voices of poets from many cultural and aesthetic contexts. Explore the schedule and event details here.
News from the NC Arts Council: Poet Carl Sandburg spent the last 22 years of his life in North Carolina and these years were among his most productive. Connemara, his home in Flat Rock, is now a national historic site. As a condition of making the designation, Sandburg's widow required that the rooms and furnishings be kept exactly as they were at the time of his death. Visitors to the comfy lived-in home will feel as if the family just stepped out for a while. For more information, visit www.nps.gov/carl. While you're in town, visit the fourth annual Blue Ridge Bookfest, a free literary festival on the campus of Blue Ridge Community College, Friday and Saturday, May 18 and 19. Visit www.blueridgebookfest.org/bookfest for a complete schedule.
The Candy Maier Scholarship Fund for Women Writers is a nonprofit established to help Western North Carolina women attend writing workshops, retreats, and classes. Up to 50% of program costs (not including transportation and other personal expenses) can be applied for. Many ClarityWorks participants have contributed to and benefited from this program. Visit their website.
Scholarship in exchange for cooking for Zen Mind, Writing Mind, Peggy's August 3-5 retreat in Alexander, North Carolina. Involves planning, grocery shopping, and cooking vegetarian food from Friday dinner through breakfast Sunday. For more information, email info@greattreetemple.org. |
ClarityWorks Participant Spotlight: Laura Cyphers
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"Close the door gently." Did I really say that to my anxious friend? When I get home from work I am still going over my after-school conversation with Rhoda in my head. Rhoda trudges into my classroom, sighs, puts her face in her hands and looks as if she might cry. I ask, thinking it is probably just a bad day, "What happened? Was it your seventh period French class again?" But, any questions seem to make things worse, to add to the despair on her face.
"Yeah, that... and I don't know... if... if...I can afford to stay in my home--my home of fifteen years," she stretches her mouth sideways to etch out this heart-wrenching confession.
She had gone through a divorce several years back. She had gotten the house and, she thought, some security, but things have turned sour on her--the market, the profession, and the ex- husband.
She's in trouble. I feel my inner superwoman caretaker rise up to help and I vow to say nothing. Instead, I say, "Why don't you just move in with me?" She looks stunned. Her mouth opens as if ready to say, "Okay." But she doesn't. She says, "I don't know. I don't know how that would work out." Then she stands up, looking even more dejected than when she came in, and walks to the door. That's when I say: "Close the door gently."
I replay that whole conversation once more, but this time I rationalize everything. I used the word "gently" because she needed the privacy to cry and because if you don't gently close the door, it slams shut hard from the suction caused by the outside breeze through the crusty, painted-one-too-many-times, high school windows. We have done this thing before, this closed-door thing where we share and comfort one another during hard times. And, we do comfort and listen to one another. And lately, often. And, I offered for her to stay in my home because that's what friends do when other friends are in need. Isn't it?
I take off my shoes and socks and slip on flip-flops, the sweat of my toes leaving moist marks on the blue foam soles. I also recognize the sweat of my armpits and the stink of my feet as reminders of what I'm like when I come home-tired, sticky, and fatigued. Today, I come home to imagine what I might be suggesting by using the word "gently." Diction always matters. Closed doors with Rhoda on a Friday also matter. I try not to lie to myself.
I try to recall her exact response- the shock, then the recognition, and then the silence. I remember wishing her hair were not so dark, or her skin so tightly fitted around carved out lips. I hate that she stood up. Standing up means I wasn't there enough or that I was too impulsive. I recognize all of my words as failure, I see little Puritan judges filing in to claim residence in the long "your honor's bench" inside my head. They take their stern, wooden seats and smile with contempt. I flip them off and mumble incantations of long curses at their bad hair and boring clothes. I pour a glass of wine. I open the refrigerator, but don't feel like fighting the last two weeks' worth of containers to find the newly-made tuna salad. I close the door.
I reside in my tears, my shame, and the pain I feel I have caused. I do what I can to let it all go. I say my prayers and fall into almost sleep. When my cell phone rings, I think it's my alarm. It's Rhoda.
She blurts out, "Gina, I said I didn't know, not because I won't consider living with you, but because I don't know..." There is hesitation then a nervous blow in the phone. "I haven't been honest with you." Wide awake, I push the phone hard against my ear. "It's just, well..." She sighs and I stop breathing. "I don't know exactly how I feel about, about you." I exhale. I hear her swallow. She starts again, but she sounds out of breath. "At first, I thought I might be confused by my loneliness and by my mounting problems. Then, I was sure I was going through a mid-life crisis. But, there you were being there for me in a way that no one has been. And, I am happy we're friends." At this, she pauses again. "But a friend doesn't get woozy and distracted in the middle of a crisis by the way you gesture with your animated dish-pan hands. And then, I find myself saying things just to get you to softly say things back. So, that's the kind of 'I don't know' I meant."
I'm speechless for a moment, but manage to say, "I used the word 'gently' when I told you to close the door today, and I have worried over it since."
We talk for many hours into the night. Before I fall asleep, I apply lotion to my chapped hands and realize that she noticed. There is nothing wrong now, nothing at all wrong with "gently," especially if it keeps doors from slamming too quickly shut.
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Laura Cyphers is originally from Coeburn, Virginia, but has lived in Bristol, TN for the last twelve years. She currently teaches English at a local high school and spends her free time avidly reading and writing. She attended Peggy's Lake Logan retreat in the summer of 2007 where she gained the courage to continue her writing. She has had poetry published in Jimson Weed, UVA Wise's Literary Magazine, and plans to get her M.F.A. in the near future. Although she has mostly written poetry over the years, she is dabbling in a variety of genres and is especially interested in essay and creative non-fiction. Laura is also a member of our Daily Writing Prompts Community, and was inspired by the prompt "close the door gently" for this piece.
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And the Kudos Go To...
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Karyn Tunks, for publication of her children's book, Jubilee! The books is available for sale on Karyn's website. Visit her website at www.karyntunks.com to learn more about Karyn, purchase the book, and read about the "story within the story." Karyn was a participant in Peggy's Fearless Writing Retreat in Bon Secours, Maryland. Congratulations, Karyn, from the entire ClarityWorks community!
And to long-time ClarityWorks community member Heloise Jones, a finalist for the Thomas Wolfe Fiction Prize, awarded by the North Carolina Writers Network. Helen was one of only 11 finalists out of the 140 entrants for her story "Rules." This story is the beginning of Helen's second novel. Heloise shares that she loves the character, a pregnant teen from the coal fields of West Virginia. Congratulations on this accomplishment, Heloise!
ClarityWorks enjoys celebrating the accomplishments of writers who have attended our classes, retreats and workshops. We want to share your writing success with our ClarityWorks' community! Send Peggy a "kudos" note at pmillin@clarityworksonline.com.
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