So, you are in a great relationship and in love with your significant other who totally consumes you...In fact, you love spending so much time with your "Boo" that you neglect all the people and things that truly matter to YOU.  Before you lose yourself in another person, remember that relationships are healthier when each person has personal time, personal projects, and personal goals.  So, pull away at times, and take time to give yourself some TLC.  Don't be afraid - real love will be waiting for you after you reclaim your independence and take care of YOU.

The vast majority of us dream of becoming financially independent.  Actually, some of us dare not dream that big - we just dream of days when we are no longer living from paycheck to paycheck and are able to take a long vacation without hyperventilating about returning to the "real world."  I am no expert on the subject of becoming financially independent, but I am educating myself on getting there real soon.  One of the best things you can do for yourself financially is to live within your means.  Don't splurge with your friends with money on dinners you cannot afford; do not spend all your money at the mall; and do not fall prey to many of the "get rich quick" scams out there.  Get a financial adviser, spend wisely, and SAVE.  It takes years, sacrifice, and money to become truly financially independent, but it is a journey worth taking NOW.

Oftentimes people get bent out of shape when SPIRITUALITY is mentioned.  It does not mean you have to go to church, the Buddhist Temple, or get baptized (even though religion and spirituality can go hand in hand).  Spirituality is really about getting to know yourself and finding a connection with your inner self, so you understand who you truly are.  Finding that spiritual connection is one of the best gifts you can give yourself to be truly independent. Getting spiritual allows you to develop your independent style and make higher and better decisions of the heart.  So, always take time for you and your spirit.  Take time away from your hectic (or not so hectic) schedule to rest your mind and think about enjoying life in the moment.  Take a spiritual journey by taking long walks on a beach or going on a long solitary drive sans the crazy music.  Meditation brings you closer to your spiritual center, so it is something worth trying. For an easy fix, just take a couple evenings off, go home and shut down everything that creates the regular "background music," submerge yourself in the bath with some scented candles for a good 15 minutes, and be one with yourself - "whoooosaaaaaaah."  A healthy spirit makes good for the heart, body, mind, and soul!