What you focus on you will receive! If you focus on what you do not want, you will get it and if you focus on what you want you will get it too! 

Wow, how does that happen? Here is the truth, your subconscious mind does not have a good/bad indicator light, it only has a magnetic light that attracts what you give energy or light to.  Knowing this and your unconscious does not hear, see, feel or know negatives it will by pass the words "no, not, don't want, and so on!

Take charge of your mind and say what you do want, desire and it will create it by sending the magenetic wave of energy into the universe and  events, experiences and reality will begin to match that desire, want or creation!    

 Want your creation, desire or want to come faster? Add gratitiude as if you already have it now.

Your  subconscious mind does not know fiction from reality so use it to the fullest by speaking, hearing, seeing, knowing in the present tense.. this your subconscious mind understands!  Yes, it understands the NOW.. that's it! Future pace it and you will loose it! Past tense it and it will believe it already was created and has past and no longer needs to send the magnetic energy out to attract it again!   

Here is how you know this is true... Think for a moment of something you said you would do "tomorrow" and it never happened. You know why? Your subconscious mind does not understand tomorrow so it never comes or happens!

Think for a moment of something in your past.. Has it ever happened again exactly like that? No, no experience can be created exactly again, yes, there are similarites but not exact..

If you are creating similar experiences, it is because you hold value to the belief that is creating the experience from the past.  If you keep choosing the same type of relationship expecting different results, it will not happen. The relationship  experience comes from the belief of how you value yourself and that is what will show up in human form.