Really, did you know most of the time when you are telling someone else what is best for them, the truth is, you are telling them what you think is best for you! We naturally come from our own representation system or reality system of the world as we see, hear, feel and think it of ourselves.  Begin to listen to the advice you are giving to others, and you yourself will learn how to hear you again.

 The inner voice becomes one that you recognize through, telling others what you believe is best for them.

 The truth is you hear your own voice tone easier than you hear others voice tones.  Think for a moment of a friend or person that has a much higher or deeper voice tone than you. How does what the person say irratate you? Think again how you can say it to yourself, without irritation. Hear the difference? Mainly it is in the tone!

Technique: At the end of your day, sit down and ask yourself "What did I say today?" These words that you spoke are for you, so relisten and learn from what you said, for you. Giving and receiving is much easier when you are open to listening and accepting without a filter.

 You can go deeper and ask...

"What or where else does that apply to me in my life?"

 Hearing you teach you, begins to build the trust you lost in you again.

~Contact me to begin to understand the words you are saying to you!~

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Fear less, hope more, eat less, chew more, whine less, breathe more, talk less, say more, hate less, love more, and good things will be yours.

~Swedish Proverb