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You Don't Always Have to Listen to What the Experts Say
I'm sure we've all been told many times over that we shouldn't go forward with one of our dreams because some "expert authority" cautions against it for one reason or another. How many times have we been told as children, teens, young adults, "you shouldn't do that" because that omnipresent "they," say your idea is unrealistic and will never work?
Probably your earliest childhood dreams were dashed by a parent, teacher or practical counselor saying "that sounds great, but let's get real and get practical about making a living and dealing with the material world." In this process, our best laid plans and dreams are left unrealized. Had I listened to the expert authorities throughout my life, I would have done virtually none of the things I'm doing today.
Lately, it seems that in meetings, at work, with friends, associates and the world of philosophy, I've been hearing once again, all the good sound practical reasons why I should not or cannot undertake a new dream that I want to make real. At this point, I'm less inclined than ever to listen to what the experts say, and would rather follow my inner motivation that pushes me to find alternative solutions to the world's challenges. This is particularly true when it comes to the so-called "devil's advocates"- who love to downplay our aspirations with a lethal dose of punishing practicality.
Now granted, gathering information and being aware of the pitfalls and difficulties that we are going to encounter in a new undertaking are certainly helpful, and I'm not saying any of us should willy-nilly dive into the unknown totally unprepared, but this is a call to courage. Do not let practical circumstances dissuade you from following the inner vision that pushes us to forge a new path in transforming our society.
In an online article on INC. called "How to Accomplish the Impossible" author Harvey Mackay recounts this story from Former First Lady Nancy Reagan:
"Once, at the University of California, a student got up to say that it was impossible for people of her generation to understand the next generation of young people.
'You grew up in a different world,' the student said. 'Today we have television, jet planes, space travel, nuclear energy, computers...'
"When the student paused for breath, Nancy said: 'You're right. We didn't have those things when we were young. We invented them.'"
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