"Thank you for your wonderful book, Dr. Shoshanna.
It has really turned my life around. The guidelines
in it were prescriptions for happiness for me."
Sara, Chicago
THE FANTASY ADDICT
A
Fantasy Addict is a man who falls in love, not with
a woman, but with his fantasy of her. He is addicted
to the high he gets from his fantasies and will go
to all lengths to keep them alive. When the real
woman begins to emerge in the relationship, he
disappears.
REPETITION COMPULSION
This is
the unconscious compulsion to repeat a painful
situation or relationship over and over, in the
hopes that it will turn out differently this
time.Usually, however, each time gets worse, bringing
more pain and disappointment. The only solution is
to go back to the original situation, face it fully,
and work it out.
GHOSTS OF PAST
RELATIONSHIPS
These ghosts are memories,
dreams and longings that linger from past
relationships which are not complete. A man can hold
onto the memory of a former wife or lover and
idealize her so much that it prevents him from being
available to anyone in the present. When these men
leave, it is because they are not ready to be
present and love again.
Find out more in the book.
Why keep going on the same old way?
Take
new steps today to make your relationships new.
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ABOUT DR.
SHOSHANNA
Dr. Shoshanna is a
psychologist, relationship expert, speaker and
workshop leader. She is the author of many books,
including The Anger Diet (30 Days To Stress Free
Living) McMeel,Zen Miracles (Finding Peace In An
Insane World), Wiley, Zen and the Art of Falling in
Love, (Simon and Schuster), What He Can't Tell You
And Needs To Say, (Putnam),Save Your Relationship,
(www.truthaboutlove.com) and Living By
Zen, (www.livingbyzen.com).For more information, see
her personal website at http://www.brendashoshanna.com
