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March 6, 2009 Vol 10, Issue 8

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Is Small the New Big?

Greetings!...

We had a terrific response to last week's point that the higher the ratio of godly adults to kids, the stronger the faith experience of the kids (I messed up how it was phrased in the newsletter, but I think this is correct).

We got tons of responses and some great one-liners, soundbites and zingers. I wanted to share them with you but am at a conference and don't have time to compile them all.

With few exceptions, small is the new big. Here's a caveat, though, for the many big organizations that are having a strong impact: big is good if it makes the small better. Big churches, youth programs, etc. should use their power and influence to connect people life-on-life as much as possible.

Below I'll share a story that gives strong evidence of this point. I hope you find it as inspiring as I did!

Make it a great week,

--Jeff

Jeff Myers, Ph.D., President (email me)
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Update on the Passing the Baton DVD course
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"The Spirit of God has Changed Our School"

Gratitude-man in prayerFor years I've said that one of the solutions for the lack of male student leadership in Christian schools and youth groups if for a trusted male leader to create a close-in mentoring group of influential young men (even if they're rough around the edges) and mentor them in biblical masculinity.

Everyone thinks its a great idea, but very few people have ever actually done it. So you can imagine my delight to hear from Blair A Bryant, Superintendent of Rainier Christian Schools sharing his experience of the profound difference this very idea has had in his school.

Here's what Blair wrote:

Jeff,
 
I agree strongly with the tentative conclusions that seem to be emerging. I have worked in Christian education since 1983. I have tried many different methods of raising up young leaders, but most thing I have tried have not created effective and sustainable leaders or programs to develop leaders.
 
In the last year I have been meeting with a group of 5 young men. I invited them into the group in September. They were given the opportunity to participate or walk away, but they had to be all in or all out. We have met each week for about I hour. The five young men are respected on our school campus, but would not have been seen as spiritual leaders. When they were invited into the group they were told that we would be changing the school and that they would become the spiritual leaders of our school.
 
We just had a spiritual retreat for our High School. These five boys took seats in the front row. They were not asked to do this. They stood and worshiped in front of the entire student body. At the end of the first day I did a male only session asking, "Where are the Godly Young Men?" These young men stood and gave testimonies from the year and what God was doing in their lives and expressed what they would like to see happen in the school. After they shared, other young men started to come to the mic and share, dream, confess sins, ask for help, and offer to help. It was amazing; young men that have never shared publicly stood and participated.
 
I am sorry to say that we have had a Christian school where student were reluctant to share, they have not enjoyed Chapel or times of worship and pray only if required. Many time I felt we had so completely inoculated them to Christ that they could never possibly catch Christianity.
 
As we went through the second day of our retreat, students were not only caught up in worship, but they remained at the altar in tears and prayer even after being released for lunch. By the last session the students surrounded the teaching staff, laying hands on them and praying in the power of the Holy Spirit. The teachers were overwhelmed and stood in shock with tears running down their faces.
 
By the end of the day students were asking for extra chapel and worship times through the rest of the week. Our speaker and worship band left on Tuesday afternoon, but the Spirit of God remains and has changed our school.
 
God bless,

Blair

Of course, breakthroughs like this are the beginning, not the end, of the process. But I'm mulling over how to apply the lessons Blair has learned to other areas of life--family, church, etc. Thoughts? I'd love to hear from you at jeff@passingthebaton.org
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