We've gotten a huge e-mail response from folks alarmed at how many Christian young people seem to be jettisoning their faith. Here are some of the insights and helpful tips from GRTL readers:
It's About Calling Them to Service
From Bill: "[I]n our young high school we shut down for a week in the spring for mission trips designed to help our students live out there faith and realize that serving others while sharing the love of Christ is what God has called us to do. Praise God that we have seen our students graduating with a very real, alive Christian worldview. Many are continuing to seek ways to serve others through short term missions trips, but we are also seeing some who are considering going into full time ministry, both here and abroad. That quote from the Baylor study [that students who are actively serving tend to hang onto their faith] is exactly what we are seeing and we are so thankful that God helped us to see that our students needed opportunities to live out there faith as they serve others."
It's About Calling Them Out
From Jolene: "As a teacher my husband called students to a higher standard, challenged them first, to think, and second, to think Biblically, and given opportunities for rising to the occasion to those thought "beyond help" or with a reputation of unworthiness in regard to simple responsibilities. Within days of the start up of school, a few "tough guys" began to respond to my husband's mentoring and nurturing and challenging. They tried (sometimes succeeding) to change their electives to include more of his classes. They respond to challenges to live honorably by taking on the hardest physical labor involved in agriculture class rather than letting someone else do it or leaving it undone. In biology pond experiments, they volunteer for the grittiest, messiest, or sweat-equity portions of a project. They smile when someone else gets commended for a job well done. And they absolutely glow, yet with humility, when congratulated themselves. They seem to take on honor as an inward motto, and begin to walk in ways that lead to reaching the mark."
It's About Being Good Role Models
From Bill: "Years ago I polled the youth in our church and asked, "How many adults in this church have a walk with God such that when you're their age, you want that kind of walk? The average answer was two...or less!"
From Anne: "The true solutions come down on our knees, asking God to work out the condemnation, hypocrisy, etc. People don't want to see better Christians. They want to see Jesus. They are starving for Him... not a better us!!...We need a heart for Him... not a more polished suit."
From Ron: "Unfortunately we Christians tend to do one of two things. We either preach a message that is contrary to our actions or we change the message to match our actions. Either way we come across as hypocritical and it makes us totally ineffective in our witness for Christ."
It's About Living the Truth
From Allen: "Living in the truth will expose and reveal God. Those who reject Him (or us) will at least have been exposed to the truth. We're not compromising truth with these new perceptions, but becoming truth through them."
From Beth: "Many christians have slipped into becoming "religious" and not spiritual. These kids aren't dumb and they're watching to see how we adults are living Jesus before them in everyday situations...we're bombing right and left here on the homefront! If we really took the time to see how are lives are matching up to Jesus', we'd be humbled, I'm sure."
It's About Being Honest and Trustworthy
From David: "You said (and I think very rightly and accurately) that millennials are looking for mentors not mass media. Taking that fact a bit further, it is also accurate to say that they require us to prove our difference over time so they can see we are trustworthy. A lot of this starts with our leaders being honest, open, and bold."
Write me
here if you know of programs or people who seem to be doing an exceptional job in inspiring faithfulness in young people (I'm out of the country right now but look forward to hearing from you anyway).