Terry Hershey
The Song
November 7, 2011

When we honestly ask ourselves which persons in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand.  Henri Nouwen

 

Oh the comfort, the inexplicable comfort of feeling safe with a person-having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together; certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping and then with a breath of kindness blow the rest away. Dina Craik

               

In 1942, the Nazis were actively and forcefully rounding up Jews in France. In the picturesque farming village of Le Chambon-sur-Lignon (in southern France), Reformed Church minister Andre Trocme inspired an entire village to change lives. And, as it turns out, the world in which we live. 

 

Each of the citizens of Le Chambon-sur-Lignon voluntarily risked their lives to hide Jews--in homes, on farms, and in public buildings; Jews who were being rounded up by the Nazi SS for shipment to the death camps. (It is said that there was not a single home in the village that did not shelter a Jewish family.) Le Chambon-sur-Lignon became known as the "City of Refuge."  Whenever Nazi patrols searched the village, the Jews were sent, surreptitiously, out into the woodland countryside. One of the villagers recalled, "As soon as the soldiers left, we would go into the forest and sing a song. When they heard that song, the Jews knew it was safe to come home."  

 

It is estimated that as many as five thousand lives were saved--many given passage to Switzerland. One reason for this display of compassion? These French villagers were descendants from the persecuted Protestant Huguenots. Their own history of persecution connected them to the plight of the Jewish people hiding in their homes.
Perhaps that is true, I do not know.
I only know that for whatever reason, the villagers choose love.
And the rest, well, the rest is history.

Two things about this story struck me.
One, the extraordinary power of compassion (and the courage to practice compassion in a world that measures and weighs and judges).  Two, the power of love and music to bring each and every one of us, home. Home, the place where we are given value and love and dignity.

 

Some time ago I wrote a Sabbath Moment about the Gumboot Dance . A dance of life and joy that is born out of darkness and slavery and oppression. I have no idea what it's like to be a slave. I have no idea what it's like to be hunted down, in order to be killed. But these stories affect me. And these stories affect the way I live my life today. 

You know what I wonder? 

What song did the villagers sing?
What kind of music represented freedom and well-being and love and home?

Or maybe it's not that important. The song, I mean. Although, it is certainly our knee-jerk reaction to figure it out. But maybe, just maybe, the song is compassion.  Plain and simple.
Whatever it is, the song brings people out of hiding, out of unease, out of fear. And that, well that is music worth singing.
 

And if I'm honest, it makes me wonder if I have the courage to sing the song that will invite people--all people--in my world, to a safe place (without judgment or bigotry or prejudice).

I did an interview some time ago--ostensibly about health-care, but more about the reason that our public discourse has disintegrated into a shouting match. I wondered, aloud, if we have forgotten what the villagers knew: we belong to one another, and there is a song that brings each and every one of us home.

Sadly, I believe, we have buried the music in rhetoric.
We have buried the music in the need to be right.
We have buried the music in the need to win.
 

 

When a woman in a certain African tribe knows she is pregnant, she goes out into the wilderness to pray and listen until she hears the song of the child she bears. This tribe recognizes that every soul has its own vibration, expressing its unique flavor and purpose. Then the mother to be teaches the song to the other members of the tribe. 

The tribe sings the song to the child at birth.
They sing when the child becomes an adolescent, when the adult is married, and at the time of parting and death.

But there is one other occasion when the villagers sing this song. If at any time during his (or her) life, the person causes suffering to another member of the tribe, they gather in a circle and set him in the center. They sing the song, to remind him not of the wrong done, but of his own beauty and potential. When a child loses the way, it is love and not punishment that brings the lost one home.

I cannot tell you your song. But I can tell you this: you have one.
Count on it.
And if you sit still, you may hear it. Really.
It is the song that reminds us we are beautiful, when we feel ugly.
It is the song that tells us we are whole, when we feel broken.
It is the song that gives us the power to Gumboot Dance, when we feel shattered.
 

 

Yesterday I did a workshop in Tubac, AZ, about intimacy.  I told the story about "the song."  And I told them about a woman who came to me for advice--regarding a "relationship issue."  I asked her, "Tell me; what did you do this week that was just for you? What did you do that was nourishing, reviving, replenishing, reaffirming?"  (When do you hear your song?)  Her puzzled look was her answer. 

Because here's the deal: In order to be intimate, you need a self. 

When I am close, I know you; when I am intimate, I know myself.

When I am close, I know you in my presence; when I am intimate, I know myself in your presence.  In other words, I don't need to walk into the relationship heavily defended... needing to impress or prove or fix or be rescued. 

 

Tonight I watched the sunset from Mount Hopkins near Tubac.  In the southwestern sky cloud formations--the color of burnt umber--linger, like a flotilla of great ships at anchor in the harbor blue sky.  As the sun disappears behind Elephant Head and the horizon beyond, the silence is encompassing and complete.  But on this one night, in the silence I hear music, faint at first, now a crescendo in the changing colors of the clouds, tangerine and peach and lavender.  As I listen, I swear I can hear Paul Simon filling the sky with Homeward Bound.  Go figure.

            

Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing,
there is a field. I'll meet you there.
When the soul lies down in that grass,
the world is too full to talk about.
Ideas, language, even the phrase "each other"
doesn't make any sense.
Mevlana Jelaluddin Rumi - 13th century
     
 
  
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Poems and Prayers

  

His Choir
Sing, my tongue; sing, my hand;
sing, my feet, my knee,
my loins, my
whole body.
Indeed I am His choir. 
 

St. Thomas Aquinas


When Someone Deeply Listens to You

When someone deeply listens to you
it is like holding out a dented cup
you've had since childhood
and watching it fill up with
cold, fresh water.
When it balances on top of the brim,
you are understood.
When it overflows and touches your skin,
you are loved.
When someone deeply listens to you
the room where you stay
starts a new life
and the place where you wrote
your first poem
begins to glow in your mind's eye.
It is as if gold has been discovered!
When someone deeply listens to you
your barefeet are on the earth
and a beloved land that seemed distant
is now at home within you.
John Fox

 

As the light of dawn awakens earth's creatures

and stirs into song the birds of the morning
so may I be brought to life this day.
Rising to see the light
to hear the wind
to smell the fragrance of what grows from the ground
to taste its fruit
and touch its textures
so may my inner senses be awakened to you 

so may my senses be awakened to you, O God.

Celtic Benediction

 

  

 

Be Inspired

 

Terry recounts a story of a nativity play... What is it about the roles we play?  And can we change despite the risk?

 

Simon and Garfunkel -- Homeward Bound   

 

FAVORITES from Last Week: 

  

It's all right -- Curtis Mayfield

 

Pray along with Gregorian Compline (Night Prayer)--The Order for Compline ACCORDING TO THE HOLY RULE OF SAINT BENEDICT (still in use by many traditional minded catholic Benedictine monasteries today http://www.prinknashabbey.org/).  (This is music that goes straight to the heart.) 

 

Together to heal -- Terry talks about the power of having a hand to hold

Fred Rogers Accepts the Lifetime Achievement Award at the 24th Annual Daytime Emmy Awards.  In his speech he says, "So many people have helped me to come here to this night. Some of you are here, some are far away and some are even in Heaven. All of us have special ones who loved us into being. Would you just take, along with me, 10 seconds to think of the people who have helped you become who you are, those who cared about you and wanted what was best for you in life."

 

Terry Hershey recounts the story of a woman with only a few months left to live. In her remaining time she goes around to all of the people who have been nice to her even when she wasn't in a good mood and thank them for their kindness. It's not necessarily the big things... but the little kindnesses that count.  When we acknowledge them we truly celebrate life.  

 

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