Relationships Change - How do You Deal With It
Last week we had the first weekend of the latest NLP Practitioner Certification Training and it was such a great reminder for me about how magic happens when the time is right.
No matter how many times you hear something it can still be an "Oh Shift" moment. I've presented this course 100's of times and yet I am always in awe at the commitment people have towards building a good life and being the best person they can be.
One of the first things we look at is the Presuppositions of NLP, which are beliefs that were held by people who were consistently excellent at what they did. By taking on these beliefs, your perspective of the world changes and your relationships transform.
One of the presuppositions or beliefs is to respect each person's model of the world. That can be challenging when we don't agree with them. It's so easy to judge others when they don't think like us.
It doesn't mean you agree with the person, it just means you are willing to respect them as a human being who has different life experiences to you and therefore sees the world through different eyes. When we approach them from this place, our communication completely changes.
What came out of this was a great conversation about relationships and friendship and how does this apply when you don't agree with someone you care about.
What if you don't agree with their behaviour? The question was, do you tell them? To find out... read the rest of this article on my new blog. 
