Here are some ways to get a Conversation for Connection started:

• What is new for you?
• What have you been doing to enjoy this summer?
• I noticed in the news this morning . . . (at parties this is best if it is something positive that would not provoke a strong negative emotional reaction from others.)
• What are you passionate about?
• How did you meet our host?
• I understand you have extensive experience in _____ and I'd love to hear about it.
• What are some of the current trends you are seeing in your work? How are you benefiting from those trends?
• (Ask your host in advance who will be attending - check out their Linkedin Profile to see what opportunities might bubble up to discuss for example ...) I think we both had a similar experience - did you work for XYZ OR did you study in Spain?

Other ways to create meaningful conversations include:

• Share your own good news.
• Share something you learned that is interesting or useful.
• Tell a story that amused you.
• Share a new product you recently tried and what happened.
• Talk about a trend you have observed and ask if the other person has noticed this, too.