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Spotting the High Compliance Style in conversations
The High Compliance style has these behavioral characteristics:
· Likes accuracy and cautiousness · Is good at creating policy and procedures and responding to rules set by others · Can be perceived as too cautious by other styles · May be overly critical of self and others · Enjoys solving complex problems and thinking through details · Analyzes and systematizes · Has high expectations · Expects others to follow the rules too · Is troubled by risky situations and unscheduled events · Does not like too much focus on emotions or feelings · Fears criticism of work · Will worry during times of change · Reduces stress by having alone time to think · Needs to learn to be more open verbally to share what is in his or her mind and heart · Is a cautious decision maker
Someone with a High Compliance style will be drawn to:
· Conservative ideals · Proven records · High-quality standards · Formality · Privacy · Measurable value and results
When speaking with a High Compliance-style person, use these phrasings:
· "The research shows . . ." · "Would you analyze the data?" · "There is no risk in us exploring these three options first . . ." · "The facts are . . ." · "There is a 90-day guarantee . . ." · "This has a proven track record . . ."
When talking with a High Compliance-style person, avoid:
· Rushing the conversation, leaving little or no time for questions · Asking for a personal opinion, gut reaction, or personal information · Being emotional, random, or disorganized
Who do you know who prefers the High Compliance Communication Style?
How can you use these ideas to connect with them?
Each person has a preference that includes looking out of one, two, or three of these communication styles. One or two styles tend to be used less than the others. The style we use less is the one that we likely have the most trouble with when we interact with people who choose that style as their preference.
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This two and a half day workshop gives you new tools for communicating, managing, coaching, selection, and team development. The next sessions will be held June 6, 7, and 8 or September 20, 21, and 22, at the William Penn Inn, Gwynedd PA.
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- "In the workshop you will learn so much about yourself and new "people reading" skills that will be beneficial to you in your management, team development and coaching employees." Sr Director.
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Michelle Martinez
MichelleMartinez@theprofessionaldevelopmentgroup.com
Client Solutions Director
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Greetings!
If you have a question about communication or relationship building, feel free to ask and we may be able to use it in one of the upcoming weekly tips.
Our Weekly Communication Tip is designed to help you reinforce mastery of your own communication style as well as recognize the communication styles of others. These weekly tips are based on my newest book, Conversations for Change(R): 12 Ways to Say It Right When It Matters Most.
If you have questions or if I can be of assistance please contact me at 888-959-1188 x87.
Looking forward to our next conversation,
Shawn
Executive Coach * Author * Keynote Speaker
P.S. The finest compliment we receive is a referral from a delighted client. Click here to submit a referral: info@TheProfessionalDevelopmentGroup.com |
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The Canadian Business Network comments on Conversation for Change in an article entitled: Great Ideas: Smart Ways to Resolve Conflicts.
One of the key shifts in the ongoing reinvention of management is a shift from command to conversation. That's because one-way messaging dispirits employees and frustrates customers. Want to know more? Check out this Forbes interview with Shawn Kent Hayashi.
Shawn contributes as a guest blogger on the Leadership for Project Managers blog.
Would you like to increase your ability to improvise effectively? If so, check out this new article in Chief Learning Officer Magazine written by Shawn.
Shawn Kent Hayashi was given the 2010 Chairman's Club Award for oustanding service to the community at the TTI Performance Conference in Phoenix, AZ in January, 2011.
Training Magazine is where you can read an article written by Shawn on the importance of emotional intelligence in conversations. |
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We offer several options to help you improve your communications
Talent Mastery Coaching
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Assessments
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Workshops
Talent@Work® workshops for 2011 will be held at the William Penn Inn. The William Penn Inn is located in Gwynedd, Pa. Click here for details.
- June 6, 7, & 8
- September 20, 21 & 22
Check out the Talent@Work® blog where the community of people who are committed to bringing their Talent to Work connect, ask questions, and share their ideas.
Keynote Presentations
Mentors, Networks & Role Models: Owning Your Career Development and Emotional Intelligence@Work are two of Shawn's keynote presentations. If you have an upcoming event in which you want to engage your team or community in conversation about relationship building, please talk with us about these presentations and how they could serve your meeting objectives.
Shawn's newest book
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